• Large dildo for my girl?

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    John222 [sign in to see picture]
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    In a horny moment recently my OH confessed to what I'd long suspected: she likes her willies on the bigger side ;)

    Now I'm slightly above average and have always felt reasonably comfortable with my size, but am wondering if I'm secure enough to get my girlfriend a big realistic dildo so we can explore a fantasy together.

    Has anyone else been in my situation, or better still, are there any women here who have an average-ish lover but have played with a larger toy? If we use it as part of foreplay is she going to enjoy me less immediately after being stretched?

    She gets very wet (which I love), and has said before that when she's really dripping she doesn't feel my cock as well as when she's drier. She definitely isn't as tight as an ex or two I can recall so I know she has room for more girth than I'm able to offer.

    I'm considering something like these:
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28228
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27162

    We've dirty talked (through her blushes) about her enjoying a well hung man in a threesome, and part of me would so love to see that ;) but that's just fantasy and a big dildo is the more realistic option for now. Size queens and lovers of size queens, let me know your thoughts!

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    fairehlights [sign in to see picture]
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    I can't really comment on the surrounding issue, being a mostly-penis-avoider myself, other than that the fact that you're pretty cool with it is the best sign in terms of going for it :)

    In terms of enjoyment, vaginas are pretty elasticy, and she'll spring back quickly. So, she'll still enjoy you. Toys are completely different to proper penises anyway, imo.

    However, where I can speak for sure, you probably don't want the Doc Johnson jelly dildo, because jelly.
    Doesn't taste, feel or smell good, and is hella porus so gets all germy and bacteria infested in no time. Look for something 100% silicone, maybe :)

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    sleepycelia [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm not into bigger toys at all, but if you have a substantial budget, Vixskin dildos are incredibly realistic and they go up to some pretty large sizes! There's also this, which is currently £30, pretty girthy and has good reviews -

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31474

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    LilHorror [sign in to see picture]
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    My favorate larger toy is the 'Exoctic Diamond Extra Girthy Realistic Dildo'.

    I recomened it 100%! x

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    Where's victor when you need him?
    How about this...
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27290

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    John222 [sign in to see picture]
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    Wow, thanks all three for your helpful replies.

    Sound advice about the material. The only other toy we have is a vibrator (normal sized) I got for my girl, and while it's a beautiful thing I think I should have gone a bit more upmarket with silicone or similar, so probably will this time. One thing I am hoping we can find though is a flesh-coloured one for maximum realism, but bright pink is not a deal breaker!

    I am cool with her liking big cocks, as I know she's happy with mine, and I want to encourage the horny monster inside her shy self, but I can't help some predictable male insecurity at the thought of her suddenly experiencing multiple orgasms from something 6 or 6.5 inches in circumference, when I'm just under 5.

    LilHorror, if it's not too personal can I ask how you feel or would feel about an average penis after you'd thoroughly enjoyed yourself with that Exotic Diamond of yours? ;)

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    John222 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Sum Sub as well, yours posted when I was writing my reply. Looks intriguing but I'm concerned that enormous girth might be too much even for my girl's nice juicy bits!

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    John222 wrote:

    Thanks Sum Sub as well, yours posted when I was writing my reply. Looks intriguing but I'm concerned that enormous girth might be too much even for my girl's nice juicy bits!

    Maybe it can be a goal?
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    LilHorror [sign in to see picture]
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    Not going to lie, It dose feel a little different, but its not a bad thing. We still thoroughly enjoy ourselfs.
    I really recomened it! It has a very well placed motor in the shaft that works wonders on your G-spot :)

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    John222 [sign in to see picture]
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    She does love a good bit of G-spot stimulation!

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    Blueeyes82 [sign in to see picture]
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    first off, welcome:)

    Secondly, make sure you select a dildo that is actually 100% body safe. Materials such as PVC, rubber, siligel, are not body safe. Even when a product says skin safe rubber, it is not. It may not be 100% porous, I owuld estimate it being 50% porous, which still means it is harder to clean and keep germ free aka nasty bacteria will grow on it.

    I would suggest the following:

    8"

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28714

    8"

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31474

    9"

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=11070

    7"

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28316

    6.7"

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=811

    7.5"

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16827

    7.5"

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28353

    7"

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28314

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH has a penis sleeve, it's called the mega thick, we use it every so often, it's better than a dildo as he's still involved and it's still him pleasing me , he worried it'll stretch me out but I can still feel him just as much after it, but I can't use it without a good warm up and a lot of lube and don't enjoy it all the time. It's not something that's going to make her less satisfied by you, it's like having a Chinese takeaway, you really enjoy it but wouldn't want it every night

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    Blueeyes82 [sign in to see picture]
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    i've had 2 kids, do my kegals etc. believe me, a bigger dildo won't make her saggy

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    John222 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the recommendations and reassurance. Once I've decided on one and whipped it out at an appropriate moment I'll be sure to come back here and let you know how much my girlfriend enjoyed the feeling of a big girthy one filling her up.

    In the meantime please keep the personal experiences of big dildos coming!

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