• Help me pick a stroker for him?

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    Minkish Minx [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi guys! My boyfriend and I are pretty new to sex toys and I just made my first order which arrived just in time for a weekend away. I got him two strokers to test the waters:

    Clear FX Knapper - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29781

    LH Reversible Double Stroker Intense - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22079

    He took a long while to warm up to the idea and wasn't at all impressed by the LH stroker. After trying both sides, he decided that an orgasm wasn't in the cards at all so we put that one away. He seemed to like the Knapper better and actually managed to climax from using it. He liked how tight it was but the thing is rather... girthy and I have small hands so I found it hard and rather tiring to get a good grip while trying to stroke him off.

    Right now, I'm thinking of getting him a better quality stroker for Christmas but I just can't decide which one to get. I'm not sure if I should attempt another mid price range stroker or go straight on to the higher end toys like the Fleshlights and Tengas.

    I've figured that he likes them tight and he's not that impressed by knobbly bits (like the alien-like spikes on the LH Intense). Personally, I'm hoping to find a toy that perhaps has a slimmer handle / outer diameter so that I can wank him off more easily during couple time.

    I'm kinda thinking about these as possible candidates:

    1. Tenga Flip Hole

    2. One of the Tenga 3D Masturbators (I have no idea which one to pick because there are so many different textures. D:)

    3. Fleshlight Lady Lager

    4. Fleshlight Ice Lady Crystal (this is for my benefit because I just get so turned on watching him slide in and out)

    5. One of the Fleshlight Girls (I'm assuming that the only difference is the appearance of the vagina and the inside is the same?)

    I was looking at some other mid range strokers but I just don't know if they'll end up being similar to the two that we've already tried. If anyone has any advice or thoughts at all, it'd be much appreciated! I'm such a noob when it comes to shopping for sex toys.

    Thank you in advance!

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Would deffinately recomend a fleshlight girl. OH has every stroker going and it is kis firm favourite

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    The inside is all the same for the girls and is really good, we have jenna haze as she's my OHs type of girl with size and boobs and has the tidiest downstairs

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    Have a look at Monica here http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30973 I recently reviewed it and would recommend her to any guy. The ribbed texture outside also makes it really easy for you to hold on to when using it on him.

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    Young and fun95 wrote:

    The inside is all the same for the girls and is really good, we have jenna haze as she's my OHs type of girl with size and boobs and has the tidiest downstairs

    Young and fun95 wrote:

    Would deffinately recomend a fleshlight girl. OH has every stroker going and it is kis firm favourite

    Thank you for the recommendation! I do like the sound of the Fleshlight Girls a lot even if they're one of the pricier ones. He's really shy about his porn preferences though, so I think I'll have to do some guessing if I decide to go with one of the girls. I can't get over how lifelike they are!

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    I'm going to recommend this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20085

    If I suddenly lost every toy I owned and had to buy them again, I would buy this one even if I only had enough money for this and nothing else. If it's out of the price range, maybe one of LH's own brand would be ok. I rate the soft rubber toys because being able to apply pressure in the right places makes them a different ball game.

    Tenga Flipholes are good for upto average size, but not beyond, and same goes for the Sex In A Can fleshlights.

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    ShinySparkle wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28097 This one. Definitely.

    I actually haven't really checked this one out yet, but I will now. Thanks for the recommendation! I do like how discreet it looks, I think we could get away with it sitting on the bedside table.

    Grace1ess wrote:

    Have a look at Monica here http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30973 I recently reviewed it and would recommend her to any guy. The ribbed texture outside also makes it really easy for you to hold on to when using it on him.

    This looks awesome! I'm definitely going to shortlist this one and it does look like it would be easy to grab on to. Thanks for bringing my attention to this, I'm going to read your review now. (:

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    Minkish Minx wrote:

    Young and fun95 wrote:

    The inside is all the same for the girls and is really good, we have jenna haze as she's my OHs type of girl with size and boobs and has the tidiest downstairs

    Young and fun95 wrote:

    Would deffinately recomend a fleshlight girl. OH has every stroker going and it is kis firm favourite

    Thank you for the recommendation! I do like the sound of the Fleshlight Girls a lot even if they're one of the pricier ones. He's really shy about his porn preferences though, so I think I'll have to do some guessing if I decide to go with one of the girls. I can't get over how lifelike they are!

    they feel incredibly realistic, i spent ages just stroking the "flesh" when it came. OH wasnt really interested in who it was, hes not really in to porn stars, id get something you think looks like yourself, or one you like the look of, hell probably find it a turn on you chose it becuase you liked it

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    Sunshine,Lollipops wrote:

    I'd second this one
    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28097
    My husband loves it and it's got amazing reviews.

    Definitely going to check this one out, thank you! C:

    flaneur wrote:

    I'm going to recommend this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20085

    If I suddenly lost every toy I owned and had to buy them again, I would buy this one even if I only had enough money for this and nothing else. If it's out of the price range, maybe one of LH's own brand would be ok. I rate the soft rubber toys because being able to apply pressure in the right places makes them a different ball game.

    Tenga Flipholes are good for upto average size, but not beyond, and same goes for the Sex In A Can fleshlights.

    This one does look really nice! I'm amazed by how life-like it is. Soft rubber does sound really nice. The price isn't too bad since I'd just have to fork out a little more than what I would have for a fleshlight girl. But he's a fussy thing so I might start him out with one of LH's girls *just in case* he doesn't like it.

    Young and fun95 wrote:

    they feel incredibly realistic, i spent ages just stroking the "flesh" when it came. OH wasnt really interested in who it was, hes not really in to porn stars, id get something you think looks like yourself, or one you like the look of, hell probably find it a turn on you chose it becuase you liked it

    That's true! I personally do like the look of Jenna Haze and Riley Steele.

    +++

    I'm going to step away for a bit, will continue my research when I get back. Thank you all for taking the time to help me out! ♥

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    Fleshlight Girl is the one for me!

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    Grace1ess wrote:

    Have a look at Monica here http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30973 I recently reviewed it and would recommend her to any guy. The ribbed texture outside also makes it really easy for you to hold on to when using it on him.

    I like Monica too. Have yet to invest in any Tenga toys, only tried the eggs.

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    welshgooner wrote:

    Fleshlight Girl is the one for me!

    I really like the look of them!

    Kaiser wrote:

    Grace1ess wrote:

    Have a look at Monica here http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30973 I recently reviewed it and would recommend her to any guy. The ribbed texture outside also makes it really easy for you to hold on to when using it on him.

    I like Monica too. Have yet to invest in any Tenga toys, only tried the eggs.

    Mmm another vote for Monica. We'd have to find a good hidey hole for her though since we aren't the only ones at home. I love the look of the Tenga toys and have thought about getting him some of the eggs but they seem rather pricey for disposable toys. There are so many textures to choose from that I have no idea which one to go for! I have that problem with the 3D strokers too.

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    The 3D strokers are good but nothing to write home about, the eggs are good, last a while if you look after them but still nothing special. The tenga onacups are good, OHs favourite is the super sized deep throat one, they're disposable but still last a while, you can take them apart fully and give them a thorough clean out

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    I just recently bought the hubby the Nina Hartley Fleshlight Girl and he seems to love that. He aslso has the old Tarra White Fleshlight and enjoys that aswell.

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    Young and fun95 wrote:

    The 3D strokers are good but nothing to write home about, the eggs are good, last a while if you look after them but still nothing special. The tenga onacups are good, OHs favourite is the super sized deep throat one, they're disposable but still last a while, you can take them apart fully and give them a thorough clean out

    Aww they are so pretty though! I really wouldn't be opposed to having them on display around the house, they look just like modern art especially in that display case! I was thinking of getting the deep throat ona cup for him to try out but was rather put off by how it was disposable. I might actually give it a go now since they can be cleaned! Maybe as a special Christmas treat. ;)

    I'm learning so much about these toys from you, thank you so much! ♥

    Audrianna87 wrote:

    I just recently bought the hubby the Nina Hartley Fleshlight Girl and he seems to love that. He aslso has the old Tarra White Fleshlight and enjoys that aswell.

    x

    Those Fleshlight Girls just get more and more tempting! I just read your review and got the strangest case of penis envy. I wish I had a dick so I can experience sensations like that, LOL. Thanks for the recommendation! C:

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