Never used a male sex toy

Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

So?  or

deffo  on the wavy egg! it's a bit fragile but the material feels awesome! i think it'd last if you treated it well! and £10 isn't that much! most people i know spend £10 getting a round in on a night out so it's hardly a huge commitment!

Sounds like its a go go!

Hathor wrote:

Excuse my ignorance but what the hell are ball weights for?

My hubby's just had a vasectomy and has spent a very uncomfortable few weeks feeling like his scrotum is being stretched and it's in no way pleasurable,  he's definitely hanging lower and it's not nice for him - 5 weeks on and he still feels "wrong",  sex is thankfully unaffected but I've had to be very gentle with him, not being able to nuzzle and suck his balls has been horrible.

BTW , Men don't need sex toys when they have a good woman!   I offered him a tenga egg for when he has to do a sample, he's not interested.

Surgical and other medical procedures feel unpleasant by definition because there is absolutely no sexual arousal, so all the sensations are uncomfortable at the very least.  Besides which, the medical professionals don't care about you or touch you as a partner does.  So comparing the sensation of a medical procedure to a consensual one with a caring partner is like comparing a cervical smear test with a dildo.  Just because something involves a specific body part doesn't mean that all sensations on that body part feel the same.

As for toys, nobody needs them, but then nobody needs cashmere or silk when burlap will do just as well.

My partner recommends the Tenga Deep Throat onacup as a wonderfully feeling male toy.

Lubyanka wrote:

 

Hathor wrote:

Excuse my ignorance but what the hell are ball weights for?

My hubby's just had a vasectomy and has spent a very uncomfortable few weeks feeling like his scrotum is being stretched and it's in no way pleasurable,  he's definitely hanging lower and it's not nice for him - 5 weeks on and he still feels "wrong",  sex is thankfully unaffected but I've had to be very gentle with him, not being able to nuzzle and suck his balls has been horrible.

BTW , Men don't need sex toys when they have a good woman!   I offered him a tenga egg for when he has to do a sample, he's not interested.

As for toys, nobody needs them, but then nobody needs cashmere or silk when burlap will do just as well.

Exactly! I have a VERY good woman and i don't NEED any toys and the fact that she bought me it should say it all!

i don't think anyone can judge someone else based on their partners sexual habits!

Not moaning, just my 2c

Hathor wrote:

BTW , Men don't need sex toys when they have a good woman!   I offered him a tenga egg for when he has to do a sample, he's not interested.

It's what you like and what you want.   As you'll see from the reviews here, there are many men (and women) who use and enjoy sex toys whilst in a relationship, either with their partner or solo.  Your husband may not be interested in male sex toys, which is fine, but you're far off the track if you think that's the case for every man.

Hathor wrote:

BTW , Men don't need sex toys when they have a good woman!   I offered him a tenga egg for when he has to do a sample, he's not interested.

Neither do women NEED toys - whether they have a 'good' man or not.  Just like you don't NEED wine, chocolate, tv's etc but it's nice to try new things in life.  The world would be a boring place if we only had what we needed.

Besides, masturbation and sex are totally separate.

Your husbands thoughts and feelings cannot speak for all men.

To the op - a lot of good things about the tenga egg.

bigbrownblowjobeyes wrote:

Besides, masturbation and sex are totally separate.

I disagree, I think that masturbation is sex for one or solo sex.  I disagree that the absence of another participant makes it not sex.  :)

And toys are not just for masturbation anyhow.  :)

Gah, this thread has gone completely off topic.  Back on topic, please!

a few of my male friends have these (as recommended by me, of course!!) and love them!! but as one of them found out the hard way, if you run out of lube go get some more, dont use baby oil!! he was desperate and ended up melting it!!

http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14761

I'm arranging a meet up with a new guy who I've been chatting to on-line and texting for ages. I've used sex toys on my own, but never with anyone. He's never used any as his ex always said no to them, but he's curious to try some. All my toys are from here and I'm waiting for another delivery to arrive. I'll then have:

slimline butt buddy, aquagasm rabbit, powerful pocket vibrator, flexi butt plug, lust finger mini vibrator, wireless bullet vibrator and pink softee vibrator.

My question is, if things go well with him and I, is there something I can buy to use on him that I might be comfortable suggesting, that won't scare him and that isn't too expensive as I'm out of work at the moment and apart from the butt toys, is there anything I already have that I can use on him and how? I know what I like, but with someone else it's different altogether.

Sassy Saz wrote:

I'm arranging a meet up with a new guy who I've been chatting to on-line and texting for ages. I've used sex toys on my own, but never with anyone. He's never used any as his ex always said no to them, but he's curious to try some. All my toys are from here and I'm waiting for another delivery to arrive. I'll then have:

slimline butt buddy, aquagasm rabbit, powerful pocket vibrator, flexi butt plug, lust finger mini vibrator, wireless bullet vibrator and pink softee vibrator.

My question is, if things go well with him and I, is there something I can buy to use on him that I might be comfortable suggesting, that won't scare him and that isn't too expensive as I'm out of work at the moment and apart from the butt toys, is there anything I already have that I can use on him and how? I know what I like, but with someone else it's different altogether.

you could use the mini vibes and bullets on him while giving him a hand job or blow job, ive found with my OH if  hold a bullet vibe at his balls or just under them while using one oh his male toys he cums really really hard! (this was also how i gave him what we think was a male mulitpale!)

if you want to get a toy just for him, have a look in the sale im sure i saw a male toy for just £3.50 the other day!

ive bought my bloke a few toys over the last 6 months

the head honcho :- was brllant but doesnt have a good life

the tube :- has a bit if a funny smell but the toy its self is going strong

a tenga egg :- was differant to anything weve used before and was ok but not his fave

the perfect pussy :- very difficult to get on but once we did he loved it!

and on xmas day i bought him a fleshlight in the sale so were see what thats like when it arrives :-)

Dxx

 thanks D for your help. We're hoping for our meet up tonight. If we meet again, I'll suggest looking on here together, see what takes his fancy and steer him towards some of the toys you've mentioned. Love the idea of using a vibe on/just below his balls though. I can see some fun times ahead of us. 

Sassy Saz wrote:

I'm arranging a meet up with a new guy who I've been chatting to on-line and texting for ages. I've used sex toys on my own, but never with anyone. He's never used any as his ex always said no to them, but he's curious to try some. All my toys are from here and I'm waiting for another delivery to arrive. I'll then have:

slimline butt buddy, aquagasm rabbit, powerful pocket vibrator, flexi butt plug, lust finger mini vibrator, wireless bullet vibrator and pink softee vibrator.

My question is, if things go well with him and I, is there something I can buy to use on him that I might be comfortable suggesting, that won't scare him and that isn't too expensive as I'm out of work at the moment and apart from the butt toys, is there anything I already have that I can use on him and how? I know what I like, but with someone else it's different altogether.

My OH really loved the tenga egg wavy: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15676

If you want something fun to try together, this vibrating cock ring looks pretty good: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14882

Hope you have an awesome time!

xxKPxx

 The tenga eggs are made from a very soft "real feel" plastic that is extremely flexible, so if you need harder sensations maybe you should try a more textured or a harder material, from jelly to rigid.

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