• Wife's first dildo

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    Chunky munkey [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi,

    I'm currently looking for a dildo for my wife. It would be her first. It would be a suprise which I plan to use during our fave role play.

    I'm not sure how she will react as she doesn't normally go for insertable toys but the only ones she has tried have always been vibrators etc.

    So what do I go for. Somthing similar in size to myself?

    Lifelike or not so real?

    Colour?

    Sorry for all the questions but would like some help as knowing me I'd buy the biggest and fattest dildo there is and the whole suprise thing would be a total waste of time and money.

    Thanks

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    You could ask 100 people on here and get a hundred different answers. I reckon your best bet is to go for something middling in size and inexpensive. If she likes it then come back and get a glass dildo.

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    PurringTiger [sign in to see picture]
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    It also depends on if you want something for G-spot or not. I would probably recommend something made from silicone and not lifelike, something non threatening if it's her first one. For G-spot I'd suggest something like these that have great reviews :

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22769

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14702

    or non G-spot something like :

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22767

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28353

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16827

    I would recommend having a look through your wifes rabbits and taking measurements so you know what she finds comfortable too.

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    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
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    I would agree with SumSub, but with some exceptions:

    Ask any woman who likes realistic dildos whether or not she likes non-realistic too and the answer is usually "yeah, why not" Ask a woman who likes non-realistic dildos what she thinks of realistic ones and the chances are you will find SOME women who go "No...I like them non anatomical" So, going by this theory, I would recommend getting something non-anatomical to start with and asking her opinion on realistic later.

    I would also recommend getting something around about average size. It is possible your lady will enjoy bigger, but it is also possible she will be terrified if you walked in weilding something massive, so play the odds and go for something average (6 to 7 inches long, 4 to 5 inches circumference is a good place to start)

    Colour is totally your choice. I don't think it matters a hugeee amount, so long as the product is ideal looking/size. You may want to avoid flesh/skin tones though, at first, just in case.

    Here are some I would recommend:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22767

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15644

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16827

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22769

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    Don_Don [sign in to see picture]
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    Got to agree with Sub, my wife tried dildos years ago, just didn't feel comfortable with them and didn't get along with them, and after a few years she saw one in a movie we were ahem watching and se said she's like to give one a try again, she decided that she wanted a realistic because well she wanted to think it was like a real penis, (not all women feel this) any we went for the Lovehoney range first, the 6" and we got the 8" just to see....

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22814

    and http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22815 It was amazing, she instantly loved using one and having on used on her, the suction cup added a dimension when we used it together and she likes it for alone time.... wasn't long after she decided she wanted to try different materials, we went UR3, Glass, Silicon and Cyberskin..... She now has a serious collection and which is used depends totally on her mood.... but she really likes the cyberskin as she believes this is the most realistic of them all, but her advice is decided realistic or fake looking and then size, for a first I would maybe try a smaller size and work your way up if you want.... Lovehoney really have some amazing low priced dildos and some great deals on them at the moment (and most of the time) but keep in mind, as you move up price you will find more quality. She ordered this about 2 weeks ago but was on holiday and only got back yesterday and she's dying to give it a try tonight.... she warned me if I wasn't home from work on time then she'd just start without me... http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=31474
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    stamford [sign in to see picture]
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    I have to say that we bought this and it's an absolute must !! My wife loves it

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14134

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    glassjoy [sign in to see picture]
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    A beautiful glass one would be a lovely surprise and adds a whole new dimension to the fun. I love my glass collection, and there's a great selection at LH

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