• Help With Prostate Massager

    Incendiaire [sign in to see picture]
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    bootsorhearts wrote:

    Hi, Incendiaire,

    Thanks for contributing your insight to this thread. I enjoyed reading through your review of the Revo 2.

    I feel like a right plonker for even asking such a stupid question, but I am honestly still not sure if I am properly 'accessing' my prostate when using the Revo 2. I have no idea what it is meant to feel like when it's being stimulated, so I'm simply left to assume the toy is hitting the right spot.

    Again, I know we all experience this sort of play differently, but are there any 'telltale' feelings when the prostate is aroused? Is it comparable to anything?

    Apologies for the inane questions, but I'm eager to learn!


    Personally I find that prostate stimulation can be quite a subtle feeling initially, which can lead to a lot of confusion about whether or not you're doing it right.

    The best way to get properly acquainted with the idea is to google up a cross-section of the male anatomy, just to give you an idea of where the prostate is, and then go exploring with a finger. You'll find a spongy mass just inside the rectum, not very deep at all, and if you firmly stroke across the surface of it by making a "come hither" gesture with your finger, then you should get a reaction that tells you "oh, that feels quite nice" and then you'll know that you've hit it. Once you've located exactly where it is inside your body, then you can start working on stimulating it and seeing where things take you.

    A good tool for helping to discover your prostate is something like the Pure Wand: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9030 because the length and shape allows you to hold it in a comfortable position, and manipulate it to cause the ball on the end to glide firmly back and forth across the prostate, much more easily than if you were attempting something similar with a finger.

    It's worth experimenting with using the Revo 2 while it's only halfway inserted, because if you find that your prostate isn't as deep inside the body as the tip of the toy reaches, then repositioning can give you some better results, though obviously it's not the ideal way to have to use it.

    It's also important to lower your expectations vis-a-vis prostate stimulation. There are some reports out there of people getting spectacular results, but many of us never get past that point of it generally just being quite a pleasant sensation. I've been chasing the elusive prostate orgasm for years, and while I thoroughly enjoy the associated feelings of using some really good toys on it, even after sitting around for hours at a time working intensely at it and feeling like it was going to go somewhere, I tend to hit a plateau where it seems that I need an extra boost to send me over the edge, but I can't find it.

    One of the most successful toys I've tried in that regard is the Sirius attachment for the ElectraStim system, which uses pulses of electricty to cause your prostrate to contract, and oh boy, when that happens you won't have any question of whether you've located your prostate or not. I have a review of that too if you'd care to read it: http://incendiaire-reviews.blogspot.co.uk/2014/06/electrastim-silicone-noir-sirius.html

    bootsorhearts [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks again to all for the replies. Incendiaire, thanks for such thoughtful responses and for the helpful links.

    Not long after purchasing the Revo 2, I bought a beginners butt plug set, just to see how the two sorts of toys compared.

    While life recently hasn't quite afforded me the opportunities to experiment with them as much as I'd like, I think I have learned a bit more about what I find enjoyable in anal play.

    In terms of the Revo 2, I most enjoy the rotating function, while I find the butt plug provides a 'fuller' feeling that I find quite pleasurable.

    So now I am left to wonder if there is a toy that might best combine the rotating action with that fuller feel. I have seen many butt plugs or other anal toys listed as 'vibrating', but nothing that rotates.

    The closest I think I've seen is the 'rabbit' variety of dildo for women that seems to rotate, but I'm not sure if that's suitable for anal play for men.

    As always, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. :)

    5mil [sign in to see picture]
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    Well, my Revo 2 arrived a couple of weeks ago and I've had the chance to play with it 2 or 3 times, and I have to say it is definitely doing the business for me. It did take a bit of expermentation to get the best sensations and position, which I found to be semi-reclining in a comfy chair so that there is slight pressure on the device to keep it in place and ensure that the perineum stimulator bit is exerting slight pressure.

    I also found it helpful to wear a cock ring to maintain at least a partial erection, and it also helped to apply a very light pressure to the lower abdomen or around the base of the penis, without actually touching the penis. I lked the setting of slow rotation best, and that combined with the intermittent vibration is enough to send me over the edge.

    I appreciate incendiare's point that it might not work for everyone, but it's certainly doing it for me!

    Here's my review: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26283&reviewid=87149#customer_reviews

    R1ch1e [sign in to see picture]
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    Appreciate the responses.
    As far as I know, nothing has changed, I used the same position (sat on sofa with cushion underneath (rocking back and forth). Don't use vibration.
    I've tried a few times since with no joy, but I should be grateful that I experienced it at all.

    Charlie1! [sign in to see picture]
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    Has anyone used a prostate toy while having intercourse. Does it effect your erection and ejaculation

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