• Ladies, ladies, ladies.

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    Mr Charles [sign in to see picture]
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    Ladies, what visually stimulates you and turns you on?

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    Personality. If there's connection and spark, all sorts of visuals can turn me on.

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree with rose hip, personality is very important to me. I am also not a very visual person, so it's more the power of the mind that turns me on, although seeing Mr Scorpius in a suit does make me go weak at the knees - lol xx

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    OH in his bike leathers or work uniform :) but thats probably because of the connection to him rather than the clothes.

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    Socks and sandals, oh yea baby!

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    Honestly my partners never had any problems with turning me on, his just everything I've ever want in a man :)

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    Mox Ruby [sign in to see picture]
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    Beware: this is going to be a long list of things I love about my OH. We've known each other ten years, been together for more than four.

    I love the part of the morning where OH has put on his jeans but hasn't yet put on his shirt. It's hard to keep my hands off and I usually *don't*. Jeans and no shirt is good.

    OH is VERY tall, much taller than me, and he's trim but not gaunt. He's got high cheekbones that have gotten just a little softer as he's gotten older. He's maybe got a bit of an Aaron Paul thing going on. Just with hair on his head.

    He's also got a lovely little brush of hair across his chest that happens to be in a heart shape! I'm already pretty hairy myself, so I find a lack of hairiness to be a real turn-on. :) He's also got this lovely deep voice with a touch of an accent since English was a foreign language for him, even though he's completely fluent... I suppose it says something that Benedict Cumberbatch is my number one celebrity crush. He has a lot of the same traits as OH.

    And I know it sounds weird, but I actually feel like huge muscles and a six-pack are kind of turn-off for me.

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    From a mans point of view I don't think there is much difference between the sexes except being honest. My wife like many women who say looks and size don't really matter, I think this is just womens talk. My wife does not know this but I know she visits porn sites often. The most common sites she visits are usually very, very large c**k sites. Although she would never admit to viewing such sites

    she also has a collection of r18 dvds with several guys on there with horse like c**ks that she only watches on her own

    why do women lie about what they want or what they want to watch ?

    what do you think ladies, any of you think this applies to you ?

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    TonyUk8 wrote:

    From a mans point of view I don't think there is much difference between the sexes except being honest. My wife liks many women say looks an size don't really matter, I think this is just women talk. My wife does not know this but I know she visits porn sites often. The most common sites she visits are usually very, very large c**k sites. Although she would never admit to viewing such sites

    That doesn't mean she's lying when she says size doesn't matter. I personally think size doesn't matter when it comes to use, but I prefer looking at slightly better endowed men. Would I want to have sex with them? Probably not. So no, it's not just "women talk" and it's annoying when we're accused of lying about it.

    It's possible that your wife has fantasies about very large cocks, but it doesn't mean she's not happy with what she has. Most people fall in love with the whole package and won't concentrate on the size of your equipment. Maybe it's worth having a little chat with her if it bothers you though?

    As for the original post - I like hands and forearms. Especially when they're big and look strong. I met a guy once who had the sexiest hands I've ever seen and I couldn't stop staring at them, they were so large and he had long fingers and they were just so yummy!

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    Turn on very smartly dressed man in a suit, anything Peter Capaldi wears, some of the latest pictues Oh Yes! you can tell he's a big boy voices are another turn on, the thought of him doing dirty talk, hands as well, lets just say imagining him undressing has me on the floor.My avator for example, first time I saw that picture it was, ooh I want to unzip you.

    Now turn offs, blond hair, long hair, so called muscles, scruffy look, no coloured men at all sorry not my thing even dildos must be flesh or pink or purple blue ect.

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    kittencub wrote:

    Turn on very smartly dressed man in a suit, anything Peter Capaldi wears, some of the latest pictues Oh Yes! you can tell he's a big boy voices are another turn on, the thought of him doing dirty talk, hands as well, lets just say imagining him undressing has me on the floor.My avator for example, first time I saw that picture it was, ooh I want to unzip you.

    Now turn offs, blond hair, long hair, so called muscles, scruffy look, no coloured men at all sorry not my thing even dildos must be flesh or pink or purple blue ect.

    I'm sorry what? No "coloured" men?
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    PinkPolkaDot wrote:

    kittencub wrote:

    Turn on very smartly dressed man in a suit, anything Peter Capaldi wears, some of the latest pictues Oh Yes! you can tell he's a big boy voices are another turn on, the thought of him doing dirty talk, hands as well, lets just say imagining him undressing has me on the floor.My avator for example, first time I saw that picture it was, ooh I want to unzip you.

    Now turn offs, blond hair, long hair, so called muscles, scruffy look, no coloured men at all sorry not my thing even dildos must be flesh or pink or purple blue ect.

    I'm sorry what? No "coloured" men?

    Some people fancy darker men I dont, its not a racist thing, just becuse I only fancy tall, white male. we are talking sexual preferance here, not, hate.some peaple fancy Asian or whatever. Good grief, I can't help my sexual turn ons.

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    kittencub wrote:

    PinkPolkaDot wrote:

    kittencub wrote:

    Turn on very smartly dressed man in a suit, anything Peter Capaldi wears, some of the latest pictues Oh Yes! you can tell he's a big boy :) voices are another turn on, the thought of him doing dirty talk, hands as well, lets just say imagining him undressing has me on the floor.My avator for example, first time I saw that picture it was, ooh I want to unzip you.

    Now turn offs, blond hair, long hair, so called muscles, scruffy look, no coloured men at all sorry not my thing even dildos must be flesh or pink or purple blue ect.

    I'm sorry what? No "coloured" men?

    Some people fancy darker men I dont, its not a racist thing, just becuse I only fancy tall, white male. we are talking sexual preferance here, not, hate.some peaple fancy Asian or whatever. Good grief, I can't help my sexual turn ons.

    I only asked because you probably could have worded it differently. I'm not judging, I just wanted you to elaborate.

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    Lol kittencub sometimes I read posts without looking to see who's written it but I can always tell when it's you because of your obsession with Peter Capaldi!

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    I have more of a David Tennant thing. I guess Capaldi, though a good actor, isn't my cup of tea. And somewhere in an alternate universe Idris Elba became a no-nonsense 12. That man knows how to wear a suit. Everything I've seen him in, he just smoulders onscreen, and once again like Cumberbatch we've got tallness with a deep voice that just sounds natural reading poetry. Ahh...

    I'll be in my bunk :P

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    I actually find voices quite a turn on , imagining a man saying really filfthy stuff to me in a certain accent can be very stimulating.
    Also I reckon more women than you think are turned on visually, thats why so many women watch porn. I also like to look at well endowed men but I'm still happy with what my husband's got,its just a fantasy thing . Probably the reason that some women won't admit this is because they don't want their husband to get the wrong idea, that having a massive cock is the most important thing , it's not.
    The part of a man's body that I find quite arousing is the bit just below the belly button where there's that line of hair that leads downwards ,love kissing that bit and then working my way down ;)

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    I can be turned on by visual elements, but it always starts with the person. I'm not lying, it's just the way my mind works. One person with a certain body shape might get my attention and someone who looks similar won't. Naked pictures of strangers don't do much for me unless they convey something of a person's character and with video there's always the chance that they'll say something which puts me off. I'm more likely to get turned on by a well-acted and -directed scene in a regular film where we've gotten to know and care about the characters. The only consistent physical element is kindness conveyed through the eyes.

    Once the spark's lit, then all sorts of things about that person get me going.

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    PinkPolkaDot wrote:

    kittencub wrote:

    PinkPolkaDot wrote:

    kittencub wrote:

    Turn on very smartly dressed man in a suit, anything Peter Capaldi wears, some of the latest pictues Oh Yes! you can tell he's a big boy :) voices are another turn on, the thought of him doing dirty talk, hands as well, lets just say imagining him undressing has me on the floor.My avator for example, first time I saw that picture it was, ooh I want to unzip you.

    Now turn offs, blond hair, long hair, so called muscles, scruffy look, no coloured men at all sorry not my thing even dildos must be flesh or pink or purple blue ect.

    I'm sorry what? No "coloured" men?

    Some people fancy darker men I dont, its not a racist thing, just becuse I only fancy tall, white male. we are talking sexual preferance here, not, hate.some peaple fancy Asian or whatever. Good grief, I can't help my sexual turn ons.

    I only asked because you probably could have worded it differently. I'm not judging, I just wanted you to elaborate.

    I owe you an apology you are right of course it came out very wrong, look at my profile it says my preferences better, let me say it better, turn on, and only this tall dark haired blue eyed. Hugs.

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    Lovehoney - Stephanie wrote:

    Lol kittencub sometimes I read posts without looking to see who's written it but I can always tell when it's you because of your obsession with Peter Capaldi!

    I know I'm smitten I can't help it That man only has open his mouth or look I'm er, well.hehe I'll try to behave in August once first episode aired I'll keep quiet for a bit.

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    I agree MoxRuby, jeans and no top is deffinately a turn on!

    I find it irrasiatable watchin my OH playing rugby and getting all hot and dirty! Also a guy with a manly job is a must!!

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