• Friends with benefits what's you experience?

    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    Gentle giant wrote:

    naughty mum wrote:

    Well atm... Don't have a serious relationship.. And outside the realms of this forum I still am quite shy.... And strangely enough not as forward as I have been here... So atm.. I have had a few sexting sessions... One that has turned into effectively a f buddy relationship....
    A woman of my age.. Having a bloke coming back for more in rl is a huge turn on
    All my male friends are married, including one that slipped through the net๐Ÿ˜•he got hitched just after I finally broke free of my abusive 20 marriage.... Damn!
    So I will keep the bait in the water to see what bites๐Ÿ˜‰

    Ah NM, I am sure your somebody nice and loves what you love is just around the corner. You might be shy but i sense a strong woman. I love your posts and admire your strenght. I think that LH forums are just wonderful and people like you prove it.

    Xxx... I am sure someone is out there... I am still looking... Thing is when you have kids.. You are really tied to a local pool... I know I share the with my ex... .my naughty side though does seem to keep coming to the surface ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜€
    skap [sign in to see picture]
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    Seems like you have had some bad experiences N.M.
    And now learning how to live life full. Sure one day mr right will knock on your door. X

    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    Only with my ex.... He still is a dick... And I am glad to be finally free of him... So now the cat is locked out.... This mouse is having some fun for once๐Ÿ˜‰

    Falcon218 [sign in to see picture]
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    And if it's not Mr Right knocking on your door, it'll be the delivery man with your latest LH order!

    LilMissFrustrated [sign in to see picture]
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    @falcon lol. You go girl NM. You are single. You only have one life. Experience everything. If I was single I would.

    Ikey [sign in to see picture]
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    And I'm sure NM that once you find your Mr. Right, by the sounds of it you'll be able to rock his socks off better than he thought possible. :P

    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
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    He he.. I hope so....๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‚ I think I have been storing up a lot of latent kinkyness that my next beau is going to find fun to keep up with๐Ÿ˜‰

    horny silverback [sign in to see picture]
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    You keep that bait dangling, and enjoy all the nibbles and bites that will cum your way naughty mum and the next 20yrs will be full of happiness and not nastiness xx

    Don_Don [sign in to see picture]
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    A long time ago I used to have a couple of FWB and it worked for us, I usually found it was someone who we maybe tried dating but we were just much more combatible as friends but did find we had amazing sex..... although one ex FWB did confess years later that she had feelings for me towards the end but didn't want to tell me in case the friendship and benifits stopped.

    Doesn't always work out sadly.

    rach74 [sign in to see picture]
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    its good fun as long as neither of you start getting attached and wanting more

    liplocked [sign in to see picture]
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    I've had a FWB situation going on for about 7 years. It's been awesome...we don't see each other very often but when we do it's normally a meal, cuddles watching a film and then hours and hours of kissing and caressing :)

    Only ever had sex once in all that time but I enjoy it that way. It's just a convenient way for one or the other or both of us to have some TLC when we feel the need, without all the drama of being a couple. I've not had a relationship since I started meeting up with her...I don't know whether she's been with anyone else or not, but that's another great thing - as we are only FWB it's not for me to worry whether she has or not.

    Neither of us likes the idea of a full-on relationship, and though there's chemistry we're certainly not in love. So if one of us did happen to find someone and move on, there'd be no harm done.

    I know some people have bad experiences with FWBs because they end up getting attached and so on, but it CAN work. Trust me :)

    goblingirl1980 [sign in to see picture]
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    In between my ex husband leaving and meeting my partner I had a few fwb. I was very clear at the beginning that it was just sex and that was all either of us wanted. He met someone so it ended and shortly after I met my partner. We're still friends and my partner is friends with him too so it worked well for me.

    Lovehoney - Lucy [sign in to see picture]
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    When I met my partner we started out as a bit of a FWB situation, as he wasn't sure he wanted a relationship. We were both dating other people.

    About 4 months in, he was having a shitty time with one girl he was dating, and I realised that he could actually end up with her - someone who was treating him like crap. It made me realise that I loved him too much to let that happen.  

    FWB can work out, but for me I wasn't able to keep the sex and the love apart. We had become best friends. That was almost a year ago and we're happier than I ever thought we could be, but I was lucky he felt the same. I can imagine I would have got pretty hurt if he hadn't. That's just me though, I'm an emotional creature!

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