• Do all women want to 'please' their man?

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    againstleon [sign in to see picture]
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    Do all women like to please their man? Do things that they don’t necessarily get pleasure from themselves or like to please them?

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    cucumberbumtum [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah, I love pleasing the OH and it is important to me to do things that please him, plus I know the favour will always be returned haha x

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    LilMissFrustrated [sign in to see picture]
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    Surely this is equally relevant to men too and forms part of the natural give and take of any relationship be it man or woman. Otherwise there is another word.....selfish.

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    cucumberbumtum [sign in to see picture]
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    Definitely a 2 way street, if we have to do things we don't like to please our men, it is only right they return the favour (Always does get returned)... I just enjoy knowing I have pleased him lol

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    LilMissFrustrated [sign in to see picture]
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    My apologies cucumberbumtum, I wasn't referring to your post merely to the title of the thread as it seems to imply women only. As you have pointed out its a two way street therefore i feel to exclude men is incorrect.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife definitely does this for me. She says her ultimate turn on is to know that she is giving what I want. I wish she would take what she wants sometimes but she assures me this is a huge turn on for her.

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    MrsMcX [sign in to see picture]
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    I always want to please my husband, and I always get pleasure from doing so. He works hard for our family, and is a wonderful man. He deserves as much pleasure as I can give :)

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    Yes I do

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    Kittyondrugz [sign in to see picture]
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    I love pleasing my man and he loves pleasing me.If it wasn't the way it is,it would be selfish and we wouldn't be together.Simple as that.

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    cucumberbumtum [sign in to see picture]
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    LilMissFrustrated wrote:

    My apologies cucumberbumtum, I wasn't referring to your post merely to the title of the thread as it seems to imply women only. As you have pointed out its a two way street therefore i feel to exclude men is incorrect.

    No worries haha :) My bad, but I do agree with what you say :) x

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    cucumberbumtum [sign in to see picture]
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    Gentle giant wrote:

    My wife definitely does this for me. She says her ultimate turn on is to know that she is giving what I want. I wish she would take what she wants sometimes but she assures me this is a huge turn on for her.

    I agree with your wife haha, definitely the ultimate turn on

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    KarlsGirl78 [sign in to see picture]
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    I always like to keep my fwb satisfied, there is nothing I wouldn't try and he knows that, if ever I didn't enjoy something that much but he did then I would compromise and say we can still do it but not that often. There is nothing better than pleasing a fella. Mind you I am a bit of a 1950's type traditionalist in some ways....not all as I am totally independant. I love pleasing the fella though in whatever ways that I can

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    Imogen [sign in to see picture]
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    I always want to please him, although knowing he is enjoying himself gives me pleasure so I suppose in a way I'm pleasing myself a little bit too.

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    LilHorror [sign in to see picture]
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    I always do things for my OH even stuff i am not into personally. I like to seehim happy plus he turns into a real pain in backside if he is denied.. he gets all moody like he is on his man period. XD

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    Dota [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes i do love to please my OH. Sometimes it takes a lot to get myself to the point i feel confident to do what he likes. When i was younger it was a different story and i wont call myself selfish i was just young and with low/non existent self-confidence.
    Now it is a huge turn on even to think of how i could please him. At the end of the day if he's happy- i am even happier. :)

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    PetiteJess [sign in to see picture]
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    i do, i find it a turn on seeing a man pleased.

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    I love pleasing my OH, its a big turn on for me to see him experiencing pleasure.

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    The natural submissive in me always wants to please my partner, i really find it hard when all attention is soley focused on me as id rather be satisfying him as thats more of a turn on.

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    Pleasing my boyfriend will be all i care about, i'm really not bothered about my pleasure, i just want to make him happy but i know he feels eactly the same so it will always be two way.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    Wildcherry wrote:

    The natural submissive in me always wants to please my partner, i really find it hard when all attention is soley focused on me as id rather be satisfying him as thats more of a turn on.

    My Wife has desperately tried to explain this to me. When I spend for her to much total attention on her she doesn't feel right. I have tried many times. That it is just the same for me to enjoy playing , feeling and stimulating her is a massive turn on for me. I have told her it is all foreplay for me and I just want that time together.

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