• Ladies, do you masturbate when your partner is home?

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    JuicyJ89 [sign in to see picture]
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    I masturbate whilst my hubby is home.. in the bedroom or bathroom. I masturbate when he isn't there too... sometimes I maturbate in front of him and won't let him touch himself. I love it :)

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    Don_Don [sign in to see picture]
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    I've no issue with my OH having a fiddle if i'm in the house, most times she'd do it if I'm out or she's in the shower but I do know she has rubbed one out plenty of times while we've been watching a movie or tv and she thinks I don't know what she's at.... and I did get a text while I was out one night telling me she was watching some porn and could wait till I got home to try out some new toys that arrived that morning.

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    goblingirl1980 [sign in to see picture]
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    If he's at work on a long shift the next day and I'm feeling horny I'll usually tell him I'm going to the bathroom. But just recently I've been doing it in front of him.

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    goblingirl1980 [sign in to see picture]
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    If he's at work on a long shift the next day and I'm feeling horny I'll usually tell him I'm going to the bathroom. But just recently I've been doing it in front of him.

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    smoothies. [sign in to see picture]
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    I have on occasion been woken by the sound of buzzing next to me and rolled over to find the OH with her wand between her legs. Obviously I have to lend a hand and words of encouragement. As I start work quite early and we don't have time for any fun before I leave, she often tweets or texts that she's sorting herself out, which doesn't help my concentration.

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    Ikey [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH doesn't, if she needs a release then it's my arm that has to go dead. :P

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    There is a sub question for me about this.
    Where are your sex drives? I mean is yours higher than your partners so you feel the need for some self help?
    I have a higher sex drive than my wife. So find myself ever hopefully of some love making. If I found my OH doing some diy and not intending it to end with us together. I might be a little up set.

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    Dota [sign in to see picture]
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    I masturbate when he's home but more often when he's at work. My sex drive is lower than his.
    Sometimes after long day he's too tired, he never says no to sex, but when im ready to bed (after long faith with kids lol) he's fast asleep and i have no other choice because its impossible to wake him up especially first 2 hours.
    Then there are LoveHoney delivery days and i just cant wait 'til evening and have to try new toys straight away.
    But mostly i do that because it turns me on for session with him later. That's why im really happy that i rediscovered LH again, i got my sexdrive back again. :))

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    Young and fun95 [sign in to see picture]
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    Never, I have no need for mastubation when I have him, even if he doesn't want sex he loves giving me oral. I've probably mastubated five tines since I met him and they were all times when we were living in different places

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    snapper [sign in to see picture]
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    I dont have an issue if my better half has a fiddle , she has on one occaision told me about it and a couple times started too next to me in bed after I am exhausted ! and she want more of to finish the job !
    I would much rather help but I got very turn on when she told me about it ! very !
    evil grin ! :)

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    5uperman [sign in to see picture]
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    I could hear my OH masturbating in bed whilst i was in the bath the other night. I had a quick wash and went and helped her finish :)

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    subbysam [sign in to see picture]
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    I sometimes just want to masterbate but not have sex, if that makes any sense.

    Possibly because i finish myself much much faster than during sex. Sometimes masterbation can just be means to an end, and just be to get yourself a quick orgasm and move on. If i am in that kind of mood i would not masterbate when my partner was able to hear as i wouldn't want it to turn into a long session of sex that i did not want at that moment in time,

    Other times i might purposely do it in front of them to give them a less than subtle hint that i am horny, other times my partner has been exhausted after sex and collapsed back onto the bed, and so i have had to continue the party myself. It really depends on why I am masterbating as to whether i would do it around a partner.

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    Frankie21 [sign in to see picture]
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    I often masturbate if hubby has gone to sleep and I can't drop off. I find it relaxing I guess.......

    If he didn't know before he will now, reading this post!

    GG - yes I do have the higher sex drive and yes, previously in our relationship I've found it upsetting if I've found him masturbating rather than having sex with me. Trying to be a bit more relaxed about it now as I think sometimes the two things meet different needs.

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    kinky-for-you [sign in to see picture]
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    Certainly! Sometimes I do it as loud as I can while he is brushing his teeth it great fun to watch him run in as quickly as he can to make sure he doesn't miss out on the show! Sometimes I'm sneaky just because I can! Other times I just need a quick fix and I'm feeling selfish!

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