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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    A couple of questions one for the ladies one for chaps. But please feel free for both sexes to comment on all.

    Chaps. Do you find it a big turn on for your partner to desire your come and I don't mean orgasm, I mean the actual fluidl?

    My wife asked me what she could do to make my Orgasm even more enjoyable and intense. After a lot of discussions we found that I wanted her to look upon my semen as a gift or present. She can now almost talk it out of me. If very aroused her asking" I want to see it" " give it to me" " I must have it" with please or now attached is just wonderful.

    I know I am very lucky because she didn't dislike my come before didn't even mind the taste. The only thing she really loved was the feel of it going into her pussy and coming out over the next day.For her the fact that we talked about it and she now knows this is a turn on for me really turns her on. Around this discussion she told me that I had a thing about soiling or marking things, she had worked it out without out me actually knowing it. That couples thing about letting the other know you want sex, hers is I am changing the bed to night, clean bed. Nesting I guess.

    Another thing that happened on the back of this is, that made us both roll around in fits of laughter the first time she said it" oh yum good boy mmm". Now I never dreamed that being treated maternaly in a sexual way would do it for me but there is something about it. "Big boy" "Dirty boy" and all that.

    Finally for the chaps Facials. Now this was something I had always wanted to do with my wife. The up turned face, the longing in the eye's as she looks into yours, the mouth open hoping to catch some. The reality was,as soon as the first drop touched her face she screwed her face up and turned away and had to get it off. This for me flipped a switch I don't want it any more. My wife being my wife said no we should try again but I now found it demeaning for her so undesirable. Her reaction to me finding it demeaning was surprising and lovely , she thought that might turn me on even more.

    I feel there is something very primeval in giving a gift and see in the recipient enjoying it.

    My wife has sensitive skin, she has found that silicone lube acts like a barrier cream. So and this is the reason for the thread after giving me a HJ to watch her examine it , close her fingers and open them to see how it moved staggered me at how erotic I found it.

    Ladies. First of all I do apologise for not putting your question first but I needed you to get an understanding of the subject first.( and to add some humour I had got this far once already this morning and lost the bloody lot trying to touch the bold print icon for the heading ladies. Only to touch the address bar in stead)

    Do you understand this or is it dirty,yucky and not for you? Is it something you already do ? Most of all something of interest?

    Because of my wife's sensitive skin I only suggested she do a HJ. We came up with a nice little scene of me standing legs slightly apart , her sat in a chair to one side one hand for my penis the other for my balls. To add to the ambience a pair of her most expensive clean black panties on the floor in front of me. Needless to say it didn't last very long with lots of words of encouragement she had me coming in minutes and to watch her aim it ( quite well I might add) at her pants was a real turn on. Especially the talking. A couple of things really did it " I need to know when your going to come cos I want to get as much on them as possible" and" more more keep it coming". To finally pulling the pants under me so she could let it drip and shake the last bit off.

    I have no idea where this come from but it thrills me to think you can still find them after decades of being together.

    Do you do or have any other idea's around this theme? I have put in a another thread about almost a medical scenario we did that was amazing. She was going to get my sample out and without moving I had to resist mentally. I am afraid again I am just a feeble minded man and resistance was futile.

    I am really looking forward to all your comments especially as this has taken nearly an hour to post.

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    Actually, we're really into it!
    Semen seems to make my skin extremely soft and smooth so sometimes I'll get him to finish on my boobs or back and massage it in.
    I also love seeing it on my own hands

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    If it works for both of you, that's grand.

    Don't know if it's because I'm weird for the forums or because I'm bi or because I'm a woman, but the gift for me is the orgasm, not the associated body fluids. My personal experience with men who put a lot of emphasis on their ejaculate is limited and hasn't been positive.

    I know that a lot of wetness for a woman can be a sign of arousal, but also that women can be beautifully aroused without much. For me and the women I've been intimate with, it's had at least as much to do with the most fertile days of the monthly cycle as actual arousal. Maybe if I had sperm I'd be more drawn to that.

    Male ejaculate is similar to me. It's part of the whole picture. I'm pleased when it occurs but if I was with a man who could only have dry orgasms, that would be fine too. It's all about the orgasm, not the body fluids. If I was with a man who wanted me to play with his semen afterwards and wasn't an objectifying arse about it, I could do some of that for him. But it would be for him and at the sacrifice of what I need like the intense immediacy and closenss of post-orgasmic embrace.

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    I'm bisexual too, I get what you're saying RH. For me, sex is different with a male or female. I can't really judge my experiences the same.
    I think it's more the aesthetic reasons for me.
    Of course, orgasm and ejaculation don't always go hand in hand either

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    To me ejaculating on a woman's face is disrespectful and I wouldn't do it. I know my wife wouldn't be into it either. But that's just us.

    I think the whole idea of cum as some kind of reward for your partner is something that comes from porn. I can see why the idea might be a turn on but the reality I suspect might be somewhat different. Maybe that's my innate conservatism surfacing again. But the idea of ejaculating on a woman's face as some kind of gift seems slightly misogynistic to me.

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    We're often have Dom/sub play in the bedroom and this is something I love to act up on. I do really love it though, but it does add to that aspect of play very nicely. When you spoke about medical play and you having to resist, this also reminded me of a Dom/sub scenario. Maybe you're quite interested in your wife being dominating in the bedroom? Or maybe a bit of a switch around.

    I think you feeling put off because she scrunched up her face is maybe having an ideal perception of what a face shot should be like from porn. It's easy for girls in porn to pull and face and stare lovingly into your eyes, but in reality when you have something coming towards your face that stings the shit out of your eyes, you want to close them as tight as you can! Even if you take for an example, someone shooting a water gun in your face, your reactions tell you to scrunch up your face. I think you need to put aside what you think things should be like, and focus on making your sexual experiences your own and just take things as they come without any expectations and just enjoy yourselves.

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    rose hip wrote:

    If it works for both of you, that's grand.

    Don't know if it's because I'm weird for the forums or because I'm bi or because I'm a woman, but the gift for me is the orgasm, not the associated body fluids. My personal experience with men who put a lot of emphasis on their ejaculate is limited and hasn't been positive.

    I know that a lot of wetness for a woman can be a sign of arousal, but also that women can be beautifully aroused without much. For me and the women I've been intimate with, it's had at least as much to do with the most fertile days of the monthly cycle as actual arousal. Maybe if I had sperm I'd be more drawn to that.

    Male ejaculate is similar to me. It's part of the whole picture. I'm pleased when it occurs but if I was with a man who could only have dry orgasms, that would be fine too. It's all about the orgasm, not the body fluids. If I was with a man who wanted me to play with his semen afterwards and wasn't an objectifying arse about it, I could do some of that for him. But it would be for him and at the sacrifice of what I need like the intense immediacy and closenss of post-orgasmic embrace.

    Oh i agree so much always a kiss and cuddle after and we have far more vanilla sex than kinky please dont thinj this is all we do.

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    MrsMcX wrote:

    We're often have Dom/sub play in the bedroom and this is something I love to act up on. I do really love it though, but it does add to that aspect of play very nicely. When you spoke about medical play and you having to resist, this also reminded me of a Dom/sub scenario. Maybe you're quite interested in your wife being dominating in the bedroom? Or maybe a bit of a switch around.

    I think you feeling put off because she scrunched up her face is maybe having an ideal perception of what a face shot should be like from porn. It's easy for girls in porn to pull and face and stare lovingly into your eyes, but in reality when you have something coming towards your face that stings the shit out of your eyes, you want to close them as tight as you can! Even if you take for an example, someone shooting a water gun in your face, your reactions tell you to scrunch up your face. I think you need to put aside what you think things should be like, and focus on making your sexual experiences your own and just take things as they come without any expectations and just enjoy yourselves.

    Have to agree totally thanks for the post.

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    Oh i agree so much always a kiss and cuddle after and we have far more vanilla sex than kinky please dont thinj this is all we do.

    How did you get from what I wrote to this?

    Or did I misunderstand the intent of your question again? I thought you wanted us to write about what things are like for us.

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    I completely agree here with some of the other response. Semen works wonders for the skin and if you're lucky enough, like me, to have a guy that isn't instantly turned off after coming, then semen being pretty much anywhere on the body is arousing. One thing I enjoy more than I knew I would is having him come across my arse, massage it in and use this as lube. Very erotic.

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Well, we tried prostate milking last night and the amount of pre-cum was unbelievable, but it was also really hot! I like cum, but I have always associated it with the orgasm which is what gets me off, but with all the pre-cum last night (which is not accompanied with an orgasm like cumming) I found it really quite arousing - watching it just go everwhere without control!

    I've always quite liked the feel of a guy cumming on my face or breasts or ass etc. I don't find it disrespectful at all for me because I enjoy it! Lol! I just don't like it when it is cold or tastes particularly sour. (But then I don't think anyone does...)

    This fascinates me as me and my partner have only just began to try playing with his anus. I have such a huge thing for precum, it's a massive turn on for me, so it's quite exciting to here that this creates a large amount. I agree about the cold cum, always better hot, feels like it's been waiting to come out.

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    rose hip wrote:

    Gentle giant wrote:

    Oh i agree so much always a kiss and cuddle after and we have far more vanilla sex than kinky please dont thinj this is all we do.

    How did you get from what I wrote to this?

    Or did I misunderstand the intent of your question again? I thought you wanted us to write about what things are like for us.

    Got this thread going so pleased people where posting on it, then my 6 month old kindle went haywire. It started to play up as I was writting the opening post. Just got it sort ed out now

    what I was trying to do was just copy your last sentence of your post. What ever the wife and I have done sexually we Allways want the intense intimacy after and yes my wife is doing this for me. It's roll play and only don't occasionally .

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    scorpiosami wrote:

    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Well, we tried prostate milking last night and the amount of pre-cum was unbelievable, but it was also really hot! I like cum, but I have always associated it with the orgasm which is what gets me off, but with all the pre-cum last night (which is not accompanied with an orgasm like cumming) I found it really quite arousing - watching it just go everwhere without control!

    I've always quite liked the feel of a guy cumming on my face or breasts or ass etc. I don't find it disrespectful at all for me because I enjoy it! Lol! I just don't like it when it is cold or tastes particularly sour. (But then I don't think anyone does...)

    This fascinates me as me and my partner have only just began to try playing with his anus. I have such a huge thing for precum, it's a massive turn on for me, so it's quite exciting to here that this creates a large amount. I agree about the cold cum, always better hot, feels like it's been waiting to come out.

    Hi scorpiosami, welcome to the forums. Check out some other old threads for tips on helping you get the precum from your OH. Many men are not even aware this is possible. In my opinion they are missing out on a hugely heighten state of sexual intensity. You are sat on the verge of orgasm and not in control of it. I liken it to a woman ejaculating but not coming. It's not easy to do but with practice it is an amazing thing for a woman to do for her man.

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    scorpiosami wrote:

    I completely agree here with some of the other response. Semen works wonders for the skin and if you're lucky enough, like me, to have a guy that isn't instantly turned off after coming, then semen being pretty much anywhere on the body is arousing. One thing I enjoy more than I knew I would is having him come across my arse, massage it in and use this as lube. Very erotic.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/366618-prostate-milking/

    Her is the link to help enjoy

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