• Toys to give her great sex

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    oldfunguy [sign in to see picture]
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    I really want to give my wife maximum pleasure during sex/foreplay.

    We really enjoy sex and fantasise about threesomes often, probably haven't got the courage to see it through though.

    Recent purchases include:

    Penis extender http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2479 (to give her a different penetration experience) - It caused some pain to her


    Suction dildo http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=30004 (same reason, threesome experience) - she thinks it's vulgar


    Vibrator http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14099 (foreplay) - causes so much excitement that she want sex immediately with no further foreplay...night over!


    G Spot Vibrator http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2561 (foreplay) - no effect

    We have also used creams, etc with some modest effect

    I've asked my wife to help me choose a toy but she never gets around to it.

    Can anyone recommend a product that would help me give her great sex!

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    Haras75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Vibrating cock rings are simple but effective and there's also a cock ring with a dildo attached if you are after double penetration without the extra man....
    And maybe some nice llingerie as a treat for you both ! ;p

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    ShannonMarlene [sign in to see picture]
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    I agree, a good vibrating cock ring spices things up and feels great (:

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    oldfunguy [sign in to see picture]
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    I always through that it was the guy who benefitted from a vibrating cock ring?

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    oldfunguy [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry forgot to add we have never managed anal...we both like the idea but its never worked. Thanks for your help

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    Haras75 [sign in to see picture]
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    Girls like vibrating cock rings too, makes men into human sex toys....what's not to like ! ; p

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    Ron Burgundy [sign in to see picture]
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    How about a bullet vibe. Something like the Rocks off 80 mm. This never fails to get my wife off. Also it's small enough to not get in the way.

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    rose hip [sign in to see picture]
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    Of the ones you listed:

    The size of that penis extender - oww oww and more oww. Yes, some women adore size but from what I've seen on the forum, more don't, especially a six inch circumference and all of that extra length. Toys have less give than the real thing too, so extra girth and length in a toy tend to be less comfortable and harder to accomodate. I'd class that one as a bit, erm, shall we say specialist.

    Your suction dildo - Sometimes realistic can be too realistic, especially if it's not. Something to do with the way we perceive things, like a metal robot is a metal robot but the closer it gets to human-like the creepier it is. So if a wrinkled scrotum is too much for your wife, maybe try something rather opposite like a non-phallic dildo? Glass is popular and often lovely. The Satisfy Me G-spot and Curve have loads of great reviews http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22769 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22767 Lelo's Ella is high end without a high price http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=14702 I've heard good things about the Tantus Silk range too http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13884 Those are just some ideas.

    Rabbits do have it all going on. At least if the bits are in the right places for her particular size and shape. Clit stim, internal, the beads. That's a lot of stimulation for a body to cope with. Does yours have separate controls for the different parts? If so, have you tried using only part of it? You might be able to use just the ears for foreplay and then all of it just before intercourse sometimes. Even if that's not really right for what you want and she needs, experimenting with the parts will probably help you and your wife learn more about what works for her for foreplay. Keep in mind that rabbits are notoriously hard to match to a woman so if you have one that does it for her, that's good, even if it doesn't work for foreplay. Just find something else for that - we're absolutely spoilt for choice that way. :-)

    I love my Groovy Chick but it took me a few months to figure out how it best works for me. Did you try rocking it back and forth so it alternates between clit and g-spot? It might be something she needs to experiment with on her own. There's a great Rocks-Off bullet powering it too - definitely try that on its own. I prefer other bullets in the Groovy sleeve and the Rocks Off bullet on its own.

    So those are my beginning suggestions. If you haven't already, experiment more with parts of the rabbit and the Groovy bullet. Eggs and pebble massagers are good for foreplay too. The iroha line is magic, especially Sakura. The other two are on sale though. :-) http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27458

    And some of us just aren't all that keen on toys during sex. I love them on my own but when I'm when someone else, I much prefer his or her touch. It just works so much better for me. Maybe your wife is like that too.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22771

    Hi oldfunguy, we have this and it is our go to toy to get Wifey there. She loves it when on top.

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    addictedguy [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH's current favourite toy for use during sex is the bodywand wireless wand - gives earth-shattering orgasms every time and it is great when she uses it in combination with my tenga egg on me!

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    MattB [sign in to see picture]
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    oldfunguy wrote:

    I always through that it was the guy who benefitted from a vibrating cock ring?

    I don't know about anyone else, but I don't really get anything from the vibrations (the ring does help though) - the vibrating bit is all for her!

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