• Who initiates sex more.

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    Iwish [sign in to see picture]
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    Just curious to know who initiates sex more,you or your partner and how/what do you/they do to initiate it.

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    Me

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    wildflower [sign in to see picture]
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    Me

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    Wildcherry [sign in to see picture]
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    Lol i see a running trend here.. I initiate it more than he does as i have a higher sex drive, and its usually by me making subtle hints or just jumping him when he least expects.

    If he initiates, its by grabbing me and sneaky kissing or from one of his amazing massages.. always gets us both in the mood.

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    BigBikeGuy [sign in to see picture]
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    hmm, maybe me just, I'd say 60/40... in my favour.

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    MattB [sign in to see picture]
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    Me, 90/10.

    Generally just go from cuddling to caressing, and on from there!

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    Frankie21 [sign in to see picture]
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    Me, but working on changing that. Definitley makes me feel happier when it's more 50/50. Have started intorducing a date night that includes pre-planning an 'adventure' something that definitley works for us.

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    crazy horse [sign in to see picture]
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    I'd say it's about 70/30. Me more often.

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    69'er [sign in to see picture]
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    Its mostly me, and not her

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    Shadwell [sign in to see picture]
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    We both do

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    Kohitsuji [sign in to see picture]
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    Mostly I would, but end up getting rejected. So, it's mainly "up" to him.

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    ShannonMarlene [sign in to see picture]
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    He lets me know when he wants it but as for actually going for to, that's me

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    Petty much 50/50 usually

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    Kinky&Curvy [sign in to see picture]
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    I actually have a quite low labido and then on occasion I suddenly have this huge rush of horny-ness and so most of the time it was my OH that used to initiate sex. Although eventually I used to get loads of sexy lingerie and loved showin it off which made him really horny so I guess thats initiating, although not purposefully :P

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    Milkshake [sign in to see picture]
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    9/10 times it was me. I had a much higher libido though.

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    chunkyg [sign in to see picture]
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    Me definitely. Never turned down though :-)

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    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    It's me 100%. He loves having sex, but with work/money worries all the time, his head isn't always in it - so if I want the good loving, I have to start it.

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    Timbo72 [sign in to see picture]
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    The wife 100%. I get denied if I ask, as she is a very, very busy lady - high end job - she is just too knackered for sex at times. I've learned to live with, and more importantly respect that decision too.

    But when she asks, she demands.... and we'll have an amazing session.

    But if we havent had evening sex for a while, she'll initiate a quickie in the morning for me... :)

    I love my wife. :)

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    andy_69 [sign in to see picture]
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    About 90% me, would love her to show some initiative or at least that she wants sex.

    Ever feel that the oh is just doing it, sometimes, to keep you happy ? I sure do

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    FreeSingle&ReadyToTingle [sign in to see picture]
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    I think it's about even really :)

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