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    cherrybabygirl [sign in to see picture]
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    Never had a orgasm dont no what is feels like (help?)

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    Kinky&Curvy [sign in to see picture]
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    Don't worry everyone has been there :)

    Have you had any experience with sex toys yet??

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/vibrators/bullet-vibrators/

    My first toy and the first time I orgasmed was due to a bullet vibe, they're small and easy to use and are used for clitoral stimulation which is the easiest and preferred way to orgasm xx

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    cherrybabygirl [sign in to see picture]
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    yes have had experince with them but done nothing xx

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    Kinky&Curvy [sign in to see picture]
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    My link doesn't seem to be working but if you copy and paste it, it'll take you to the bullet vibe page Xx

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    cherrybabygirl [sign in to see picture]
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    just annoying as i cant get that feeling everyone else gets x

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    cherrybabygirl [sign in to see picture]
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    dont want to sound rude but to have a orgasm is it to finger the clit?

    xx

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    Kinky&Curvy [sign in to see picture]
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    In most cases, it may be the fact that you aren't relaxing because you're pushin yourself to reach orgasm so you won't get there. Relaxin is the key to reaching orgasm xx

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    Kinky&Curvy [sign in to see picture]
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    cherrybabygirl wrote:

    dont want to sound rude but to have a orgasm is it to finger the clit?

    xx

    Yes you can reach orgasm through clitoral stimulation which is what a bullet vibe is also for, I can't reach orgasm through using my finger and can only reach through toys, some people are like that.

    The other way to orgasm is through G-spot stimulation though that is a little more difficult so i'd suggest starting with clitoral stimulation xx

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    Kinky&Curvy [sign in to see picture]
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    There are many old posts on the forum that talk about orgasms

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/835226-everyones-favorite-topic-orgasms/

    This is just one of many.

    If you type into the search bar what you are looking for while on the froum thread many posts will show and some may help advise you xx

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    cherrybabygirl [sign in to see picture]
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    yes i can orgasm with the clit but you can have a orgsm in the vagina to which ive not experienced when i would like to if that makes sense? x

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    Kinky&Curvy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thats the G-spot you're on about there are many vibes that can help hit the spot as well. Here's a thread talking about the many different vibes people have found useful.... hope it helps xx

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-toys/199371-g-spot-vibes-any-good-do-they-work/

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    cherrybabygirl [sign in to see picture]
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    okay thankyou i obv didnt explain it very well but i will have a look now :) xx

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    Hey cherrybabygirl, I have a similar problem. To be honest I'm not sure if I've ever had one, often I climax to a certain point and about half way there it's as if all sensation stops :-\ it's quite frustrating.

    However, not orgasming can feel great too. I find the best things are trying out different positions, for me when its from behind I have a lot more sensations inside as I think it stimulates the g-spot more

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    EmilyV992 wrote:

    Hey cherrybabygirl, I have a similar problem. To be honest I'm not sure if I've ever had one, often I climax to a certain point and about half way there it's as if all sensation stops :-\ it's quite frustrating.

    However, not orgasming can feel great too. I find the best things are trying out different positions, for me when its from behind I have a lot more sensations inside as I think it stimulates the g-spot more

    If you don't believe you've had one, the odds are you haven't.

    I used to have the same issue as you, the feelin gets stronger and stronger and suddenly dissapates, this is because you tense up awaiting orgasm instead of relaxing into it :) xx

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    It took me years to experience an orgasm because I could never relax, then I finally had clit orgasams. It took another few years and slot of experience with g spot tits before I could orgasm for intercourse alone x

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    It took me years to experience an orgasm because I could never relax, then I finally had clit orgasams. It took another few years and slot of experience with g spot tits before I could orgasm for intercourse alone x

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