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    JennaLou87 [sign in to see picture]
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    Which do you prefer and why?

    Do you like both pleasure and pain but it depends on your mood?

    Years ago I was introduced to the world of bondage by a guy I was seeing and boy did my eyes open!! I found that different levels of pain in different places drove me wild.

    That relationship ended a few years ago and my fiance isn't into bondage/pain and I must admit, I miss it!! X

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    Puddleduck [sign in to see picture]
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    Pleasurable pain for me :) I do find certain pain incredibly pleasurable.

    shame you fiance is not into bondage maybe you could talk to him and tell him you do enjoy and miss it :) xx I don't think I could go with out at least an element of it during our playtime your a better woman than me xx

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Pleasurable pain / light pain makes me so horny amazing

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    Miss Pussycat [sign in to see picture]
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    I prefer Pleasure, but sometimes the boundries can be a little blurred.

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    Pleasure, but occasionaly pleasurable pain from a flogger x

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    ShannonMarlene [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a sadomasochist, leaning more to the masochism.
    I do love my pleasure but I love bringing pain into the mix too with floggers, pinwheels and wax

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    Delboy1991 [sign in to see picture]
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    pleasure

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    Mr. Loverman [sign in to see picture]
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    Pleasurable Pain

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    angeldelight [sign in to see picture]
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    Mr. Loverman wrote:

    Pleasurable Pain

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    angeldelight wrote:

    Mr. Loverman wrote:

    Pleasurable Pain

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    + 1 - Same for me too :) xx

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    kayliixx [sign in to see picture]
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    Def pleasurable pain, turns me in so much when certain areas are in pain xx

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    MSJ6952 [sign in to see picture]
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    Love pleasure but not at all into pain

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    Kittyhoney [sign in to see picture]
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    Pleasurable bottom and nipple pain, yum!

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    Scorpius12 wrote:

    angeldelight wrote:

    Mr. Loverman wrote:

    Pleasurable Pain

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    + 1 - Same for me too :) xx

    Gotta go with pleasurable pain. It's unlike anything else. I very much enjoy pain in a sexual context, more so than my OH. There's something about it that just really gets me going.

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    Lady Ness [sign in to see picture]
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    Pleasure and pain are both sensations, which by some, can be seen the same. The fact is there is no way to answer this question, as everyone will see things differently and feel things differently.

    To one pleasure is pain, to another it is, then some meet half way.

    Remember everyone's body and mind is different.

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    cc79 [sign in to see picture]
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    i do like a bit of both, i got more interested in it after reading 50 shades.

    my partner has put me off it abit tho as he doesnt want a safe word and unfortunalety i dont totally trust him with whipping as he can go too far.

    shame tho as i was quite into it

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    5uperman [sign in to see picture]
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    I Love pain myself,

    My OH likes a bit of pain, so i alternate between pain and pleasure. I will bite the back of her neck quite hard and spank/whip her, then follow it up by all over caressing and stroking then occasionally suprise her with a spank or two when shes not expecting it. Drives her wild!!!

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    Laveila [sign in to see picture]
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    Pleasure and pain do mix, just everyone has different boundaries of what they can take. I mean even bitting someone ear or nipples create mild pain right? Yet even the people who are vanilla often enjoy these.

    Just some people enjoy very mild pain, while others go much further. I am somewhere in the middle. I enjoy smaller levels of pain, more than bitten ear, like light spanking, but I am not into strong pain, so e.g. non adjustable nipple clamps are out of question for me.

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    dkink [sign in to see picture]
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    To me pain is the exact opposite to pleasure and is a turn off.

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    dkink [sign in to see picture]
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    I was very ill and in serious pain for years till a surgeon fixed me, maybe that's why I try to avoid pain whenever I can nowadays but I never did associate pain with pleasure. I quite like a nibble but I don't consider that pain.

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