• What's the best way to say I'm sorry?

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    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    Jessabelle wrote:

    It's not really an apology he's just being an awkward git holding out for make up sex lol but I get where you guys are coming from but when we have serious fights which is very rare we don't just make things better with sex we talk things through properly x

    Good.

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    Has he mentioned any fantasies? Or responded strongly to anything in erotica or porn?

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    Jessabelle [sign in to see picture]
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    He's never off the bloody porn lol he's mentioned he wants me to rim him but I'm really not keen on the idea, there's just something that stops me putting my tongue there lol x

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    He's never off the bloody porn lol he's mentioned he wants me to rim him but I'm really not keen on the idea, there's just something that stops me putting my tongue there lol x

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    A couple of partners have absolutely adored being rimmed. The pleasure it brings makes it SO worth it, in my opinion and circumstances anyway.

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    DavidB1986 wrote:

    Jessabelle wrote:

    I've said sorry lol he's giving me the silent treatment but he subtley hints at make up sex I just want to try different ways of making it more special for him x

    See that's how it starts ;) It's a slippery slope! You are right, he's clearly angling for sex, but he's trying to guilt you into doing it by giving you the 'silent treatment'. Textbook!

    Regardless of the size of the fight or whatever, a 'Sorry' should be enough. But just be careful... if you start giving him what he wants everytime he throws his dummy out the pram.... ;)

    Your first comment was spot on....then this comment made me love you! lol

    David speaks the truth....for in future, you mayy find he starts those little fights...ya know...because you make it up to him in such a special way. hehe

    But to be fair and as a one off...especially if it was just a silly little fight, (and baring in mind you are happy to make it up to him in this way) then I saygo for it. Maybe give him a little strip tease, or send him some saucy pics during the day with "sorry" written on ....ahem....parts of your anatomy, then in the next pic..."Forgive me" hehe....you get the point. Make it fun and cute. Well, thats what i'd do lol. xx

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    Jessabelle wrote:

    Ok so me and my boyfriend recently had a little fight, all my fault I was having a bad day and took it out on him. So being the lovely girlfriend that I am I need to find a way to really show him how much I do appreciate him. I figured like any other 23 year old male the best way to do this would probably involve sex. I would love to hear your ideas on how I could do this. Look forward to hearing from you all x

    Hi jessabelle, make up sex is great. Tell him you are sorry and you are going to show him, but he must lie still and not touch you. Then go to town kiss all over avoid his penis for a bit, offering yourself to his mouth is Allways good but make him lie still. Build it up to what ever climax you like. Plus be prepaid not to come yourself to show total apologies to him. Hope it helps and enjoy.

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    Well depending on how sorry you are and how much you want to make it up to him. BJ's are the best. Whilst he is watching tv slip on some lingerie and stockings and sneak up behind him on the sofa and drop your bra in his lap. Tell him to stay seated and to spread his legs wide apart, move round and take of his pants. Then stand up turn around and place your bum in his lap and gyrate around until he is well excited. Lean forward and with your thumbs pull down your panties whilst trying to remain in his lap. Then kneel down on the floor between his legs and give him a BJ whilst keeping as much eye contact as you can.

    If you really owe him and want to treat him do the above, but put some porn on the tv get on the sofa next to him and start giving him a handjob. Talk dirty about the porn that’s on and if he's enjoying it. Then tell him to keep watching the porn and enjoy every bit of it and go down on him whilst he watches.

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