• G spot ??!

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    sweeetp [sign in to see picture]
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    I've just purchased LH multi speed slimline g spot vibrator in the hope of finding my g spot, does it exist I'm 22 and on a mission to find out ? Any tips ?

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    Purring-Pussy [sign in to see picture]
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    It certainly does exist, but I didn't explore it until a couple of years ago and now it is one of my favourite ways to orgsam. Now I like to play with G-spot toys and there are plenty of good ones on this site. Have fun experimenting and don't get disheartend if it takes a while to discover it, or get an orgasm that way. Good luck and have fun

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi sweeetp, welcome to the forums. Yes it does exist but it can vary a little in sensitivity from woman to woman. You need to be really aroused and wet, if not use some lube. Slide your middle finger inside your pussy with the pad up in contact with the roof of your vagina on the inside of your public bone. If you are aroused there should be a ridge of flesh running along the roof from the open towards the back this is also the outer part of your urethra. As you you be come more aroused this all swells and becomes spongy ( for a man this is the bit that feels amazing against the head of your penis), about 2 to 3 inches back you should feel a bit of patch that is more wrinkled and rough( a little like the shell of a wall nut but soft). This should be where your g spot should be located. You will need to explore how best to stimulate it for your self. Some woman like it rubbed very gently and slow, others hard and fast, some find it to sensitive to take direct stimulation.

    The vibe you have is great for stimulating your g spot. Enjoy and have fun.

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    sweeetp [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you for your replies !

    They were very hepful and thank you Gentle giant for the details ..I didnt know that the surface would have that texture.. Im going to have an explore Monday when the vibe comes !

    Thank you again

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    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
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    There is still no distinct proof that the g-spot exists. I recommend going onto Wiki and looking for g-spot and urethral sponge. Of course, there is a spongey area there, (This exists) which contains the skenes gland and such, but as of yet, still no outright proof over the whole g-spot, female ejaculation stuff. Anyway, Wiki puts it much better than I.

    It is also important to note that not all women experience any ramp up in pleasure from stimulating the g-spot. Not all woman can find it and not all women experience squirting, even if they find their g-spot.

    All of this to say, whether you find it or not, or believe in it or not, or ejaculate or not...you are NORMAL.

    I think most woman who have found the g-spot and learned to squirt, went on the same journey that you are going on. I tend to hear that for the most part, it took some practise and experimenting and time. This was true for me. I tried for the best part of a year before I finally figured it out and nailed it myself.

    I figured out that a lot of guides and tips for stimulated the g-spot, leave out one crucial bit of information. The information that I never knew until I did it myself. They tell you how to stimulate the spot and how to relax and "let yourself go" but they often don't explain that what they mean by letting yourself go is kinda bearing down with your muscles when you feel at the peak of g-spot pleasure.

    You know how you can squeeze and "grip" things with your vaginal muscles? Well you need to allow your muscles to do the opposite during g-spot stim. Imagine trying to push out your fingers, or a sex toy. Well that is kinda what my muscles need to do, to squirt. I have been squirting for years now and I realise when I "grip" or squeeze, my muscles hold it in. They stop it from happening. Your muscles are designed to "hold things in" so they continue to do so unless you tell them, or allow them, to do differently.

    Also take a look at women squirting in porn...try to find any videos where the porn star squirts with the toy still inside her. More often than not, she pulls the toy out. I soon realised why they do this. Because the toy pushes against the tubes inside and blocks the flow. I can squirt with his fingers inside me, I believe because they are small enough not to blobk the flow, but I cannot squirt with a bigger toy staying inside me. I think those porn stars are the same and this is why they pull it out. Another thing to notice when women squirt in porn.....you can see them bearing down! You can see their vaginal muscles pushing.

    Basically...I figured out I needed to actively help the situation to occur. I learned how to squirt because I got so frustrated trying that on my last attempt I just "pushed" the toy out of me, annoyed...and then it happened! It wasn't even pleasurable that time. I was annoyed and then in shock! lol But it happened. I think squirting is a physical reaction but I also discovered that the more aroused I was, the less I had to bear down or help the situation. The more I squirted, the less I had to try. Like my body took over.

    There are a lot of people who believe squirting is actually just peeing and a lot of people who believe it is not pee and some other fluid coming from the glands within. The problem is that doctors believe the glands within can only hold a teaspoon of liquid and how is it possible to squirt so much fluid if that is the case? Some tests were done that showed the liquid could not be pee as it contained higher levels of certain hormones or something, then it was said that it was still just pee, mixed with fluid from the glands. There is still no proof on all this and what is happening and there are people in the believers camp and people in the non believers camp.

    All I can say, for me anyway, is I don't care what it is, because it feels amazing for me to do this and I will continue. I just put down a towel and don't care lol. Strangely though, I seem to be able to tell the difference if I just squirted, or just peed a little (I have peed a few times during g-spot play) the difference felt subtle, but definitely noticeable and it is really hard to describe but I knew it when I had peed accidentally. Yet, even when I squirt, sometimes it can have an odour similar to pee. I read up on this and heard it was because squirt contains similar enzymes to pee and it travels down the same path and this is the answer. I also read it was just pee and people can't squirt.

    Basically....to sum all of this up...forget what others say and don't try to chase down proof because you won't find any definitive answers, yet anyway.....if it feels good, just enjoy it. That's what I do! :D

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    sweeetp [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you so much Fluffbags you seemed to explain things that i was thinking but had never voiced to anyone !!

    Ive been with my partner for 5 years .. and it is only in the last year that ive really experienced pleasure in sex (before it was nice if slightly painful) there was this one time i realised i was super relaxed and aroused and had the best sex ever for me, the next time we had sex i realised why, i was clenching my muscles inside ..all the years before this i wasnt letting go and relaxing ..like you explained

    And with the squirting ...ive gushed before using a dildo where ive pulled it out (becasue i felt a need to push )and lots of liquid came out all at once.. i would love to be able to squirt its sort of a fantasy of mine to be able to squirt at the bf (sorry if thats a bit graphic) as we both watch this porn star Cytherea and she quirts and we both find it hot !

    I realise finding my g spot or squirting wont happen straight away for me but im going to give it a good go !
    Thank you again everyone !!

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    Im new to this site too and also what to thank fluffbags , answered alot of questions I was just about to ask lol, think im really going to love the forums on this ;) xx

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    Im new to this site too and also what to thank fluffbags , answered alot of questions I was just about to ask lol, think im really going to love the forums on this ;) xx

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    I have a question if anyone can answer it?

    Ive been wondering whats the difference between a g-spot orgasm and a clitoral orgasm is? Is a g-spot orgasm the same as a clitoral only deeper and prolonged or is it just squirting (baring in mind ive read squirting has nothing to do with a g-spot orgasm..).

    I can squirt and always have been able to, but occasionally ill get an orgasm after squirting thats stronger and deeper than anything ive experienced but this is just during g-spot play. Where as clitoral im more able to orgasm multiple times and not so deep.

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    I think you are spot on from what my wife tells . I think you very lucky and are able to have both. Just keep on enjoying

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    I think you are spot on from what my wife tells . I think you very lucky and are able to have both. Just keep on enjoying

    Lol looks like i answered my own question then, there is just so many bits of information on the internet you cant tell whats correct and whats not these days.

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    Wildcherry wrote:

    I have a question if anyone can answer it?

    Ive been wondering whats the difference between a g-spot orgasm and a clitoral orgasm is? Is a g-spot orgasm the same as a clitoral only deeper and prolonged or is it just squirting (baring in mind ive read squirting has nothing to do with a g-spot orgasm..).

    I can squirt and always have been able to, but occasionally ill get an orgasm after squirting thats stronger and deeper than anything ive experienced but this is just during g-spot play. Where as clitoral im more able to orgasm multiple times and not so deep.

    I think...think, the feelings of orgasm are felt different and aqquired differently for each person.

    For me, a clitoral orgasm and a g-spot orgasm are completely different. However, I do believe newer research is starting to link the clitoris and g-spot together. Its now become clear that the clitoris goes much deeper than they used to think. Lots of the clitoris is actually inside the body (Which goes some way to explaining why lots of us ladies prefer a vibrator with deeper, more rumbling vibrations) The clitoris has "legs" and I read something recently that these legs, or branches running from the clitoris, run as deep as the g-spot area and therefore this could be why that area feels sensitive for us and of course, it does mean we might be getting some distant stimuulation to our clitoris from stimulating the inside and upper walls of the vagina.

    Neatt huh! Anyway, as for your question, for me I equate my g-spot orgasm as that intense feeling I get in the g-spot area around the time I am squirting. Maybe for others it is different, but unlike clitoral orgasms, I don't feel that pulsation of my internal muscles and it doesnt feel the same at all. It sounds to me like you have been blessed to experience maybe an indirect clitoral orgasm that was deeper due to g-spot area stimulation. Or maybe this is your version of a g-spot orgasm, heck, I have heard from people who can orgasm from anal, from nipple stimulation, even from no touching whatsoever!

    If I was going to explain your orgasms, I would be basing that explanation on my orgasms. As of yet, I have only experienced two kinds. The clitoral kind and the g-spot squirting kind, but not the third one you talk about. Maybe this is a g-spot orgasm, maybe a combined orgasm from that indirect clitoral stim...either way, it sounds fab! I want!

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    Fluffbags wrote:

    Wildcherry wrote:

    I have a question if anyone can answer it?

    Ive been wondering whats the difference between a g-spot orgasm and a clitoral orgasm is? Is a g-spot orgasm the same as a clitoral only deeper and prolonged or is it just squirting (baring in mind ive read squirting has nothing to do with a g-spot orgasm..).

    I can squirt and always have been able to, but occasionally ill get an orgasm after squirting thats stronger and deeper than anything ive experienced but this is just during g-spot play. Where as clitoral im more able to orgasm multiple times and not so deep.

    I think...think, the feelings of orgasm are felt different and aqquired differently for each person.

    For me, a clitoral orgasm and a g-spot orgasm are completely different. However, I do believe newer research is starting to link the clitoris and g-spot together. Its now become clear that the clitoris goes much deeper than they used to think. Lots of the clitoris is actually inside the body (Which goes some way to explaining why lots of us ladies prefer a vibrator with deeper, more rumbling vibrations) The clitoris has "legs" and I read something recently that these legs, or branches running from the clitoris, run as deep as the g-spot area and therefore this could be why that area feels sensitive for us and of course, it does mean we might be getting some distant stimuulation to our clitoris from stimulating the inside and upper walls of the vagina.

    Neatt huh! Anyway, as for your question, for me I equate my g-spot orgasm as that intense feeling I get in the g-spot area around the time I am squirting. Maybe for others it is different, but unlike clitoral orgasms, I don't feel that pulsation of my internal muscles and it doesnt feel the same at all. It sounds to me like you have been blessed to experience maybe an indirect clitoral orgasm that was deeper due to g-spot area stimulation. Or maybe this is your version of a g-spot orgasm, heck, I have heard from people who can orgasm from anal, from nipple stimulation, even from no touching whatsoever!

    If I was going to explain your orgasms, I would be basing that explanation on my orgasms. As of yet, I have only experienced two kinds. The clitoral kind and the g-spot squirting kind, but not the third one you talk about. Maybe this is a g-spot orgasm, maybe a combined orgasm from that indirect clitoral stim...either way, it sounds fab! I want!

    Thanks Fluff, id love to be in your brain for a day your amazing :)

    Like you say when it happens its so different from a clitoral, its not a pulsing feeling i get, just deep and intense (can sometimes happen as i squirt but thats very rare) and once it happens thats it, i cant have another like it straight after like clitoral stim.

    Actually as you mention it ive had it from anal sex, its also a totally different sensation from when im actually squirting during anal but not as strong as direct g-spot stimulation.

    Anyway who knows whats going on down there lol, i just try to relax and listen to my body.

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    My boyfriend tryed a little bit to get it right.. And ever girl can squirt just have to know what ur doing it takes a little but u get it. The first time it's so amazeing. So I think after the first time. And u keep doing all the time. Then it just happens every time ... Iove squirting all over my boyfriends face. He loves it.

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