• Submissive play...

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    dlover61 [sign in to see picture]
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    Has anyone else who is involved with a Dom been put on a "cum ban"?

    And if so how do you cope with the first couple of days! I'm struggling haha

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    I achieve self restraint through a combination of meditative activity and distraction.
    Also making the punishment appropriate is a pretty good deterrent.

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    dlover61 [sign in to see picture]
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    That may have to be suggested as their isn't a punishment...as far as I'm aware! ha

    So far I've been coping because of my desire of wanting to please them :)

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    Lady Ness [sign in to see picture]
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    I've found setting submissive tasks to distract them can help, even if it's lines. Although of course, I don't want to make it too easy, so with some will throw in tasks to tempt them too.

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    dlover61 [sign in to see picture]
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    What sort of tasks would these be?

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