• Male orgasm without ejaculation

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    dkink [sign in to see picture]
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    It happened once to me years ago but i had no idea how or why. I wrote it off at the time as something wierd i could not explain but thought it might happen again some time, never has though. I read an online article last week about this which jogged my memory, there were some hints to try but i'm dammed if i can work out how to do it.

    Not that it bothers me much (just curious) but i've been meaning to ask about it since me and my OH joined this forum. Cant think of a better place to ask

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    How To Make Love All Night: Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking - - Dr%20Barbara%20Keesling

    Sexual Energy Ecstasy: A Practical Guide to Lovemaking Secrets of the East and West - - -David and Ellen Ramsdale

    Plus books by Mantak Chia and Margo Anand.

    Lots to learn.

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    dkink [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Alastor, i'll check these out

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    dkink wrote:

    Thanks Alastor, i'll check these out

    Those are just the ones in my own library btw.
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    dkink [sign in to see picture]
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    Sounds like you have a good library. Mine is a tad more mundane, probaby time to sort that one out.

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    Al as always well informed, dkink have a look at tantric sex. Dry orgasms are a major feature as you are not supposed to loose your seed. Good luck. Don't think I have ever had one. But have worked hard on maintaining the plateau preorgasm by being edged and wife reading the signs. Have had and still do enjoy prostate orgasms and the pre cum leak is exquisite. This can be prolonged for maximum enjoyment.

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    Thanks Gg, a prostate orgasm is something else i've never experienced. Got a couple of plugs in the toy box but im scared of doing damage to my prostate by putting too much pressure on it.

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    Can't say for sure but (excuse the pun) don't think you will achieve it with a normal plug. I have got there on my own , however far more a wonderful with OH doing for you. Lots of lube and take slow. I had all the usual masculine issues surrounding it, but if you can get over them really worth it.

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    I used to have the usual masculine issues over anal stuff but it's not something which bothers me nowadays, mainly thanks to the internet. I am secure in my sexuality and have never had any homosexual urges or fantasys so it's not really an issue for me. I'm more concerned with causing prostate problems to be honest.

    At present i just wish i could fully get over my latest cold bug which my partner and me both have. It's badly affecting me at the moment, just cant seem to get all that interested in sex just now which is unlike me. Maybe i'm getting too old, i'm 43 but lately i feel more like 73

    I dont look at much porn but when i do i think, god, those women look like kid's, makes me feel like a bit of a perv to be honest.

    Maybe next week will be better, hope so anyway. Thanks again Gg.

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    Hey dkink, you are never too old for sex. I was without for 20 odd years due to my OHs meds, hes had them changed lately and although sex isnt perfect, its a beginning, Im 61 yr old and look at me buying stuff on this site. Im glad its got a forum, just in case I need to find things out too.

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    Thanks April you just cheered me up. I have been celebate for 11 years, health problems ending up with major surgery a couple of years ago. A bad time but things are looking better of late which is why me and my OH joined this forum. Typical just as we get going again we both come down with a bad cold. Life can be cruel. Best wishes.xx

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    Ive got a heart problem,AF, Gallstones,Hiatus Hernia, when we started getting back into sex few weeks back, I wasnt even sure if I could orgasm without going into heart failure. But with not having it for all them years, talk about my being premature, lol, used the new vibe I bought, and couldnt stop apologising to him for cumming within about 5 minutes, shouting the place down, glad we dont have neighbors, and yeah Im still here to tell the tale, lol. No heart failure, tho he did think I was having a heart attack as I cum

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    lol, good for you. Glad things are working out well. They removed part of my intestine a couple of years ago but i seem to be ok now thankfully. Just need to get over this cold thing, i felt a bit better yesterday but today i feel bloody awful and so does my missis. Really messed up with the dam thing, i think some lab rat brewed this up so they can sell loads of snake oil potions.

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    dkink wrote:

    lol, good for you. Glad things are working out well. They removed part of my intestine a couple of years ago but i seem to be ok now thankfully. Just need to get over this cold thing, i felt a bit better yesterday but today i feel bloody awful and so does my missis. Really messed up with the dam thing, i think some lab rat brewed this up so they can sell loads of snake oil potions.

    Sorry to hear, kill or cure hot toddy. Double whiskey, juice of 2 lemons warmed not hot and add good quality honey to taste( Manuka). Go to bed sweat it out.

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    Good point Gg, i dont have any whiskey in the house and i live in malt whisky land. I think i might get me a quarter bottle tomorrow, for medicinal purposes

    Got some honey the other day but so far it hasn't helped. Something has to give, cant sleep, feel hellish, libido almost gone completely now. Didn't know a cold could do that to a man.

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    As April5452 says you are never too old. I'm 59 & my OH is 61 and we are having the best sex of our 40 years of marriage! Having widened our horizons somewhat, and discovering something about my sexual self that I hadn't been aware of. So, once your'e both feeling better, go for it and have fun.

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    Thanks kq, they do say life begins at 40 but i was beginning to think they lied. Glad your both having fun.

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    kinkyqueen wrote:

    As April5452 says you are never too old. I'm 59 & my OH is 61 and we are having the best sex of our 40 years of marriage! Having widened our horizons somewhat, and discovering something about my sexual self that I hadn't been aware of. So, once your'e both feeling better, go for it and have fun.

    That's fantastic to hear, the wife and I have been married for 25 yrs and feel sexually we are moving on to another plain. The mental trust and love makes it all so much more. So we have to aspire to your longevity. I am 50 this year

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    dkink wrote:

    Good point Gg, i dont have any whiskey in the house and i live in malt whisky land. I think i might get me a quarter bottle tomorrow, for medicinal purposes

    Got some honey the other day but so far it hasn't helped. Something has to give, cant sleep, feel hellish, libido almost gone completely now. Didn't know a cold could do that to a man.

    Hot bath hit the sack. Man flue is the worst. We are opposite ends of our fair isle. Down here in south Devon. Right on the bottom of Dartmoor. Take care get well soon.

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    Nice one Gg, lovely area where you are, one of my best pals stays in your area. I used to visit him and stay in Salcombe sometimes. Trouble is the distance, it's a long way from the highlands.

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