• Full body massage advice please

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    Strapon king [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello I am new to the forums but am looking for some advice; I am thinking of getting the Lovehuny deluxe magic wand kit as a surprise for my wife, but would like to use it to also give her a full body massage. Eg legs back shoulders. Would it be any good for this and should I use a massage oil ? And if so what type as when i have oily fingers she makes sure i don’t get any ware near her privets as it stings? Or have I been using the wrong oils. What’s a good way to clean oils from it. Hope you can help, thanks David

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    ShannonMarlene [sign in to see picture]
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    Course it'd be good! Body massages are actually what the wand was originally designed for.
    You could try using water based lubes rather than oils if you're wanting to move from massage to sex

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    Strapon king [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks Shannon

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    rose hip [sign in to see picture]
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    Isn't the general recommendation to keep oils away from toys? Maybe wait until you can get confirmation from someone who knows for certain, especially with an expensive wand.

    Wands tend to be loud and powerful. They can be great for getting knots out and the more functional side of massage, but it's not skin on skin contact. I find the noise gets in the way of real relaxation too. So pluses and minuses. Wands are the new rabbit though and I'm definitely in the minority in not being crazy about them.

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    Oil lubricants are okay to use with some toys (glass, PURE silicone, eg Tantus dildos etc) but oil lube is not good to use with porous materials and should be avoided for rubber toys, latex etc...Definitely avoid oil lube if you use condoms of diaphrams. Oil lube that is made from minerals or petroleum should be avoided for vaginal use. They can cause infections. The only "good" vaginal safe oil lube I personally know of and use, is Yes Oil lube.

    I advise grabbing a silicone or water based lube to use for vaginal use. Keep using oil for body massage, but use water based/silicone/yes oil lube for vaginal play. Also avoid perfumed products on the vaginal area. However...avoid silicone lube on silicone toys...

    Oh dear .....It is all a bit confusing, if it helps anyone, i wrote a detailed guide about all the lubes, what to avoid them with and what to use them with, on my blog here:

    http://grittywoman.co.uk/guide-to-personal-lubricants/

    Also, Lovehoney have a few guides too:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2009/11/16/the-easy-guide-to-lubricants/

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2011/02/15/choosing-personal-lubricant/

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/blog/2011/07/19/all-your-silicone-lube-questions-answered/

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    Strapon king [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the reply Rose Hip, not sure if I'm making the right decision now

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    Strapon king [sign in to see picture]
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    Wow thank you so much for all the Info Fluffbags !! xxx

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    Strapon king wrote:

    Thanks for the reply Rose Hip, not sure if I'm making the right decision now

    What are you looking to do? If you're thinking slow romantic sensual massage, that's really about the quality of attention you're giving your partner. There are some wee things you can buy to add to it or help your confidence, like massage candles and pebbles you warm up. Music and soft lighting you'll likely have already. Whatever sets the mood you want.

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28692

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22425

    LH lists these things under Gifts .http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/fun/sexy-gifts/ or put 'massager' into the search bar http://search.lovehoney.co.uk/search?w=massager&view=grid

    Taking a look through that page, how about something like the We-Vibe Touch? We-Vibe toys tend to get great reviews. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=20780

    Some people use glass dildos for massage, page is here http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/dildos/glass-dildos/

    But lots of women adore their wands. The massage side of things isn't mentioned much though. Don't forget LH's generous returns policy. With that, there aren't many wrong decisions.

    (Avoid the Balance USB massager though. It's discounted to £10 for a reason. I have its sister and I'm sending it back. Bloody uncomfortable clitorally and dreadful as a massager. IMO, that one would be a wrong decision. )

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    we use the durex play 2 in 1 massage gel and lubricant can be used for full body massage and for intimate areas . we found its great for using with toys , hands or just to have fun with

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    Strapon king [sign in to see picture]
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    Big thanks for the Info Rose Hip ! lots for me to digest.

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    Thanks for the tip HappyCouple69, I just ordered some fingers crossed my wife will have no adverse reaction to it. Thanks again for taking the time to reply

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    happycouple69 wrote:

    we use the durex play 2 in 1 massage gel and lubricant can be used for full body massage and for intimate areas . we found its great for using with toys , hands or just to have fun with

    It's great, very versatile. Good shout.

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    Strapon king wrote:

    Wow thank you so much for all the Info Fluffbags !! xxx

    The wonderful Fluffbags is a total star.

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