• Pregnant... Don't want hubby to feel abandoned!

    kinkynix26 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm 7 months pregnant and since getting this way I think we've maybe only done the deed twice! Really don't want my lovely husband to feel abandoned. I'm just never really in the mood and it's hard to feel sexy with this giant bump in the way!

    Any tips on what I could do to surprise him and let him know I still love him to bits??? He must be so bored!

    Was thinking of buying a cock ring, some diff lubes, maybe a vibrator for me... Anything really! X x x

    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    When my OH was that pregnant she told be that she needed my come once a week on her bump to help stop the stretch marks. I believed it and was happy supply this antistretchmark libation. But it did make me feel like I was helping in some way. She never did get stretch marks

    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    Most men find their OH really sexy when preggers. All your womanly shapes are pronounced - make the most of it and do him a sexy strip tease...

    If that not your bag then why not do some flirting over texts it'll get you both in the mood.

    or just give him some love by offering to massage him all over. ..

    I think he'd enjoy whatever you'd enjoy really.

    crazy horse [sign in to see picture]
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    Even having sex at that stage of both my pregnancies was difficult. The only way we managed it was spooning.

    That way the bump was not an issue and he could play with my boobs and clit all he wanted.

    I'd start with a bullet, or a slim g spot vibrator. The basics cock ring is good. Have a look at a stroker for him too.

    If you looking at lube, can I recommend the lovehoney passion fruit one? It's not overly sweet like a lot of flavoured lubes.

    Hope this is of some help!

    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    Agreed Subby, most men understand when there OH'S are that pregnant time taken over a HJ or BJ if you don't feel like sex yourself is very loving.

    blonde vixen13 [sign in to see picture]
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    My husband loved my growing pregnant body, it made him very horny.
    I was often very tired but once we got down to sex it was amazing. Because of the extra blood flow to the uterus many women find they are more sensitive and able to come more or quicker.
    There is lots of babydolls on here that are suitable for a growing bump. Or a nice bra and pant set with the a suspender belt below the bump with stockings looks great.

    blonde vixen13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Here is a great blog post on picking undies for pregnant ladies

    KinkyGoblin [sign in to see picture]
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    Just like most relationship troubles for the ladies, "Surprise him with a blowjob" is one of the solutions.

    Jazzam [sign in to see picture]
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    Watch porn together?
    Personally pregnancy made me waaay horny both times, but if I was too tired (working 12 hour shifts as well lol) I would always sit with my partner, cuddle up to him an watch the football or something I know he enjoys.... And yeah if you *think* your too tired but it's not late, suggest laying in bed and watching some porn together - it might get you more in the mood but even if it doesn't you can just be involved in hubby satisfying his needs - Try going on top if you do have sex, and just go nice and slow as already mentioned the increased blood flow means a lot less effort required haha

    Congrats btw, if its your first - they're worth every ounce of worry/stress lol x

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