• When did you discover you had a fetish?

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    LadiesMan [sign in to see picture]
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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Ah, I did that a long time ago, and was surprised how full it looked when I finished pinning everything.. But I'm not going through it all again.

    I think that's my problem too.... it would take a whole lot of time to list everything I like (or would like) to do on there.... it is a good discussion starter tho...

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    jackador123 [sign in to see picture]
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    Ive always been into a bit of light fetish not into the full leather bondage and all that its a foot fetish for me sadly, but just the thought and sight of stockings and tights just brings me on it does.

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    jaydee [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh no not fishnets, thanfully a turn off to both of us. Both love differnet things but are happy to play together.

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    I think the best thing about descovering you have a fetish is firstly enjoying it, then realising you probably have many more too! I have tons of fetishes and I enjoy em all, I'm still descovering new things I have a 'thing' for even to this day, I couldn't imagine life without some kink, it would be very boring - I always say to people who are very vanilla that they should experiment because until you do, you dont know what you might be missing. That's the great thing about sexuality, its so colourful and full of wonderful things to discover if yu want to open the door - and I think everyone on here likes opening doors, it's always good to learn and find out more. I'm just starting to discover latex, I've always liked PVC but I have just started experimenting with latex and got myself a pair of latex knickers the other day - they feel so good Ithink I can add another fetish to my list!

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    A fetish? There are people out there who have just one?!

    I suppose I could group all mine together and say that experimentation is my fetish!

    xxKPxx

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    I cant say I that do have a fetish. I guess it is due to my age and only having one relationship under my belt, in which the sex was missionary 95% of the time for 2 years (hence the break-up).

    I can see myself having fetishes, as I have always wanted to try BDSM and I prefare extreme porn to the usual.

    Guess I will know better in a couple of years.

    I will need to build my confidence up first. I think that is key. I am so so sexual yet I have no confidence in myself to try new things. I have this masked and to my friends Im mad and outgoing, yet Im secretly dying of shame inside.

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    Sorry accidently posted the last one.

    My experiences with my ex dont help. He never looked at me with lust and whenever I tried to come onto him, he just pushed me away. Whenever I talked about fantacies and opened up to him, he always said his only fantasy was a 3-some, so he could be with someone with small boobs.

    Then he dumped me 2 weeks ago, saying that he wanted to sleep with and see other people and has even joined adultfriendfinder.

    It has just dented my confidence even more, when I asked him why he wanted to have sex with other people, when he always pushed me away, he said that it is more exciting outside of a relationship.

    He is impotent and I dont think a one-night stand will understand this, so it just hurts. He doesnt understand this.

    Luckly it is being boosted by him getting no replies on pof and me kicking them off with a stick
    :)

    Sorry I got completely OT, but I was just trying to explain why I havent found my fetish and how I could help myself and got sidetracked. Its good to just let it all out.

    Courtney xx

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    Hey Courtney!

    I can relate to an extent. For me, I was raised by a mother who did everything in her power to create a woman with no self confidence, body confidence or any other kind of confidence. I was a total introvert. Then I was lucky enough to meet a very special woman who point blank refused to let me stay in my shell! I sort of exploded over the course of several months, and I'm now incredibly confident and eager to try anything that titilates my tastebuds!

    Your ex refused to embrace (metaphorically and physically) the confident, sexual you. In your shoes I would write it off as a lesson in appreciating your own worth and chose someone from your admirers who wants you in the sack - and out of it too!

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    The OH and I have often tried a bit of bondage, very tame. But within the last year, mainly through descussions on here, We have tried a bit of spanking and i have found i quite like a pit of rough play. I like it what my OH puts his hand firmly on my throat.

    Anyway the other night I discovered i am far more kinky that I thought.

    I was looking at some bondag porn on Pornhub. There were two vids in particular the got me so turned on i suprised myself.

    The woman was completly tied down. She had a collar so as not to move her head (i always thought of collars as coming with a dog leash so never really liked them) Her ears and eyes were covered. Her waist was strapped down to the table and her wrists n ankles were tied to the four corners. The look of her completly helpless and at the mercy of her partner was amazing. The guy then teased her till she came.

    The second was very simular only her legs were held up so she was completly open to him. He then used a long and short flogger before making her come with a vibrator and a finger in her arse.

    I know the probably sound a bit tame to a few but I have never been that submissive. an to be honest i found myself fantizeing about it and taking it a bit further with nipple clamps, butt plugs and lots of rough sex.

    I can't believe im that naughty. I gona want a dungon next lol.......

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    awesome Puppies... I think your fetishes grow and change over time. I haven't craved anal for a few months now, but all of a sudden - its all i want to talk about. And then at the same time, some other fetishes/cravings get a back seat.

    You're never going to lose those fetishes, and the really strong feelings (mine is for sploshing) will be with you forever, especially if you enjoy it!!

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    Oh wow, I just checked out that fetish map. I'm not going to even try to pinpoint my fetishes on there, it would take me about a week!

    Danyone else spot the fetish "Turkey Man" on there? Expand, please. x

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    BumLovingCriminal wrote:

    Oh wow, I just checked out that fetish map. I'm not going to even try to pinpoint my fetishes on there, it would take me about a week!

    Danyone else spot the fetish "Turkey Man" on there? Expand, please. x

    Check me out, making up words. "Did anyone"... obv. x

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    What's the fettish map :S

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    Puppies77 wrote:

    What's the fettish map :S

    Oh i found it.

    ......but how bloody confusing is it, what am i ment to do exactly :S

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    Crossdressing - quite a young age but it didn't properly come into play until late teens/early 20's. Becoming more prevalent as the yrs go by.

    BBWs - early 20's when i discovered the undoubted joys of the more voluptuous lady

    Mature ladies - becoming more aroused by gorgeous older women over the last few years

    Bi curious - surely only a matter of time before I give into this one!!!!!!

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    Does this suit anyone?

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_uzB1GxhUUk

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    I discovered I was into crossdressing in my twenties and it was all my wife's fault.

    We had been invited to a "tarts and vicars' party and she decided that she would go as the vicar and me as the tart! The other party-goers pinched my bum and made lewd suggestions to me all night, but on the whole the idea went down well.

    What really turned me into a tranny was the way my wife seduced me when we got home after the party. We had a very memorable night. After that we had many more such occasions but those are different stories.

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    susanhxd wrote:

    I discovered I was into crossdressing in my twenties and it was all my wife's fault.

    We had been invited to a "tarts and vicars' party and she decided that she would go as the vicar and me as the tart! The other party-goers pinched my bum and made lewd suggestions to me all night, but on the whole the idea went down well.

    What really turned me into a tranny was the way my wife seduced me when we got home after the party. We had a very memorable night. After that we had many more such occasions but those are different stories.

    Great, and l admire your guts!! Was at the Colne Beer Festival last year when a TV walked in in black fishnet tights- one leg had an enormous hole in it!!! couldn't take my eye off it ha ha.

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    I guess it depends what fetish, as I have many!

    My personal favourite fetish/perversion (delete as appropriate!) is enforced male chastity and orgasm denial, which includes the wearing of a chastity device such as the CB-6000.

    I had been into Female Domination and male submission since my teenage years, through flirting at school during which the girl would be dominant and I submissive. This was my first fetish discovery, which would follow on to others.

    Many years later, I read about enforced male chastity and orgasm denial, and I also learnt of the existence of the CB-XXXX range of affordable and user-friendly male chastity devices. I was turned on masochisticly by the thought of orgasm denial enforced by the wearing of a chastity device!

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    i knew i had fetishes from a very young age (early teens)! finding that out was all thanks to the internet lol!

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