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    rose hip [sign in to see picture]
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    Lovehoney - Stephanie wrote:

    Gladiator69 wrote:

    Longshankspaul wrote:

    Go on then girls-where do you like your man to come? Face,tits or pussy?

    Call me old-fashioned, but I find coming on a girl's face is insulting and degrading and would never intentionally do it.

    Admittedly, accidents can happen during BJ's and the like.

    A girl who you are having such intimate acts with deserved better treatment in my book.

    Seems to me it's some new-fangled thing from young guys watching too much free porn on the net.

    I just thought I'd add another point of view on this one.

    You've said you find it degrading, have you considered that maybe that's the appeal? Some people are into degradation and as long as it's done by consenting adults we don't judge.

    Even outside of BDSM relationships and the degrading side of it some people are just into it. Your comment made me a little uncomfortable as I feel it is a harsh judgement on people who enjoy this particular sexual activity, whether they be men or women. We don't like to make people feel abnormal or judged, as I say, if it's between consenting adults and doesn't break the law anything goes :)

    I know kink rules here, but I thought it was nice to see something from someone with different values represented in a thread. If those of us who aren't wired for kink are supposed to say 'it's just someone's opinion' through thread after thread (or avoid them altogether), maybe the other side can as well just this once?

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    Over the breasts...

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    rose hip wrote:

    Lovehoney - Stephanie wrote:

    Gladiator69 wrote:

    Longshankspaul wrote:

    Go on then girls-where do you like your man to come? Face,tits or pussy?

    Call me old-fashioned, but I find coming on a girl's face is insulting and degrading and would never intentionally do it.

    Admittedly, accidents can happen during BJ's and the like.

    A girl who you are having such intimate acts with deserved better treatment in my book.

    Seems to me it's some new-fangled thing from young guys watching too much free porn on the net.

    I just thought I'd add another point of view on this one.

    You've said you find it degrading, have you considered that maybe that's the appeal? Some people are into degradation and as long as it's done by consenting adults we don't judge.

    Even outside of BDSM relationships and the degrading side of it some people are just into it. Your comment made me a little uncomfortable as I feel it is a harsh judgement on people who enjoy this particular sexual activity, whether they be men or women. We don't like to make people feel abnormal or judged, as I say, if it's between consenting adults and doesn't break the law anything goes :)

    I know kink rules here, but I thought it was nice to see something from someone with different values represented in a thread. If those of us who aren't wired for kink are supposed to say 'it's just someone's opinion' through thread after thread (or avoid them altogether), maybe the other side can as well just this once?

    Would it not also be the case that those who enjoy the degrading aspect are therefore fully aware of it, and how it may be viewed by others. Wouldn't the criticism actually be feeding and reinforcing that kink rather than offending them and making them feel attacked.

    If you know you choose degradation, then being told it is degrading doesn't really seem to matter a great deal.

    I also sympathise with those who abreact to the way in which this act has become normalised, especially within porn. Is nearly all hetero-porn aimed at those enjoying and gleefully embracing degradation? because almost all of it goes for this variation of the 'money shot'. Is it not the case that there can be a valid concern that degradation of the women is made to seem more 'normal' than it should be, and the attitude produced may be subconscious to the extent that it carries over outside specific sexual acts and choices? Our society's treatment of women is not so liberated that such negative possibilities should be unproblematically embraced.

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    Gladiator69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Lovehoney - Stephanie wrote:

    Gladiator69 wrote:

    Longshankspaul wrote:

    Go on then girls-where do you like your man to come? Face,tits or pussy?

    Call me old-fashioned, but I find coming on a girl's face is insulting and degrading and would never intentionally do it.

    Admittedly, accidents can happen during BJ's and the like.

    A girl who you are having such intimate acts with deserved better treatment in my book.

    Seems to me it's some new-fangled thing from young guys watching too much free porn on the net.

    I just thought I'd add another point of view on this one.

    You've said you find it degrading, have you considered that maybe that's the appeal? Some people are into degradation and as long as it's done by consenting adults we don't judge.

    Even outside of BDSM relationships and the degrading side of it some people are just into it. Your comment made me a little uncomfortable as I feel it is a harsh judgement on people who enjoy this particular sexual activity, whether they be men or women. We don't like to make people feel abnormal or judged, as I say, if it's between consenting adults and doesn't break the law anything goes :)

    Well - what can I say?

    It appears that my comments have sparked a fiery debate. I'm not such an old-fashioned Neanderthal that I aren't aware that some people get a high from degradation.

    I was simply expressing my own personal view.

    To Stephanie and anyone else who has been made to feel 'uncomfortable' or offended in any other way by my gentlemanly manners, please accept my sincere apologies.

    Consider me spanked - hypothetically speaking of course. As you know, degradation is not my thing ;)

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    Gladiator69 wrote:

    Lovehoney - Stephanie wrote:

    Gladiator69 wrote:

    Longshankspaul wrote:

    Go on then girls-where do you like your man to come? Face,tits or pussy?

    Call me old-fashioned, but I find coming on a girl's face is insulting and degrading and would never intentionally do it.

    Admittedly, accidents can happen during BJ's and the like.

    A girl who you are having such intimate acts with deserved better treatment in my book.

    Seems to me it's some new-fangled thing from young guys watching too much free porn on the net.

    I just thought I'd add another point of view on this one.

    You've said you find it degrading, have you considered that maybe that's the appeal? Some people are into degradation and as long as it's done by consenting adults we don't judge.

    Even outside of BDSM relationships and the degrading side of it some people are just into it. Your comment made me a little uncomfortable as I feel it is a harsh judgement on people who enjoy this particular sexual activity, whether they be men or women. We don't like to make people feel abnormal or judged, as I say, if it's between consenting adults and doesn't break the law anything goes :)

    Well - what can I say?

    It appears that my comments have sparked a fiery debate. I'm not such an old-fashioned Neanderthal that I aren't aware that some people get a high from degradation.

    I was simply expressing my own personal view.

    To Stephanie and anyone else who has been made to feel 'uncomfortable' or offended in any other way by my gentlemanly manners, please accept my sincere apologies.

    Consider me spanked - hypothetically speaking of course. As you know, degradation is not my thing ;)

    It's that gentlemanly urge coming out again isn't it?

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    Gladiator69 wrote:

    Lovehoney - Stephanie wrote:

    Gladiator69 wrote:

    Longshankspaul wrote:

    Go on then girls-where do you like your man to come? Face,tits or pussy?

    Call me old-fashioned, but I find coming on a girl's face is insulting and degrading and would never intentionally do it.

    Admittedly, accidents can happen during BJ's and the like.

    A girl who you are having such intimate acts with deserved better treatment in my book.

    Seems to me it's some new-fangled thing from young guys watching too much free porn on the net.

    I just thought I'd add another point of view on this one.

    You've said you find it degrading, have you considered that maybe that's the appeal? Some people are into degradation and as long as it's done by consenting adults we don't judge.

    Even outside of BDSM relationships and the degrading side of it some people are just into it. Your comment made me a little uncomfortable as I feel it is a harsh judgement on people who enjoy this particular sexual activity, whether they be men or women. We don't like to make people feel abnormal or judged, as I say, if it's between consenting adults and doesn't break the law anything goes :)

    Well - what can I say?

    It appears that my comments have sparked a fiery debate. I'm not such an old-fashioned Neanderthal that I aren't aware that some people get a high from degradation.

    I was simply expressing my own personal view.

    To Stephanie and anyone else who has been made to feel 'uncomfortable' or offended in any other way by my gentlemanly manners, please accept my sincere apologies.

    Consider me spanked - hypothetically speaking of course. As you know, degradation is not my thing ;)

    Gladiator, I see you have wounds in need of dressing. May I be of assistance with a tube of soothing Savlon?

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    That's a nice offer Mrs D. I hope you've got warm hands.

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    My hands are warming as I write this.

    Old-fashioned gentlemen are a dying breed. It'll be such a shame if they become extinct. There are lots of 'vanilla' girls out there who still want to be loved in the old-fashioned sense.

    Gladiator - On behalf of all the girls that fit that genre - Please don't ever change!

    In answer to the q - The face is not good. It is degrading.

    This is my opinion and I do not wish to cause offence to anyone who likes it any other way.

    Pearl necklaces are good too ;)

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    mrsdivine69 wrote:

    My hands are warming as I write this.

    Old-fashioned gentlemen are a dying breed. It'll be such a shame if they become extinct. There are lots of 'vanilla' girls out there who still want to be loved in the old-fashioned sense.

    Gladiator - On behalf of all the girls that fit that genre - Please don't ever change!

    In answer to the q - The face is not good. It is degrading.

    This is my opinion and I do not wish to cause offence to anyone who likes it any other way.

    Pearl necklaces are good too ;)

    To all the old-fashioned girls out there, I promise I will remain a gent as the breed is so obviously in decline.

    There is a string of Mikimoto's on the way to you.

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    Do you know the act of ejaculating is such an amazing feeling and so addictive, that for me it is only enhanced by my wife asking or begging me to do it somewhere on her.

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    Pussy, breasts, and on my bum.

    My OH is quite a gentleman to clean up after his mess hehe

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    Gladiator69 I didn't mean to say your opinion was wrong or in any way question your gentlemanly nature :)

    I just thought it was a little harsh to bundle together everyone who enjoys this particular kink and write them off as young guys watching too much free porn. It was only a niggle really that I didn't want to let sit.

    I'd like to add that anyone who doesn't enjoy a certain kink is just as welcome to not enjoy it and say so as those are who do enjoy it. I just wanted to make sure that saying "I don't enjoy it" didn't equate to "I don't enjoy it and I think it's wrong that you do."

    Sorry again if I made you feel that your opinion wasn't welcome, I didn't mean to!
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    My oh loves me to cum on her face,i did ask her her if she found it degrading as she is submissive like,she replied no ,she just likes it,but it each to their own,there is no right or wrong place to cum as long as both people enjoy it.Think alot of this arises as it seems the norm in porn and can give a distorted view of where you ladies like us men to cum.

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    We both like it when i cum on her face x

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    Hey guys im new btw lol!

    Anywhere is nice :) i especially like to cum on a girls back or on her pussy i think its just beautiful, i cum loads too so theres plenty an opportunity to squirt some here and some there lol :)

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    I agree, i personally don't like it on my face.

    Nevertheless, I enjoy come on my breasts and ass

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    Inside me! Or if not (why bloody not??!) over my boobs.

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    In me or in my mouth only.

    Which I actually find a little upsetting- if I see my partners cum, I feel physically sick, and sometimes am. Just at the sight of it, even though him cumming in my mouth doesn't bother me at all.
    Does anyone know any ways to deal with this? I know he'd like to be able to cum on me in various places, and as I sub I wish I could submit to that, but I just...can't.

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    I'm dirty and like it eveywhere...over my face and body, inside me and in my mouth.

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    Not my face or hair. I once got some up my nose...very off putting.

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