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    diamond37 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey everyone,

    I feel like a bit of an idiot asking this, but here goes... I'm 39 married lad...

    My OH is physically unable to give me a BJ, I hasten to add that it's a practical reason, not a 'choice' she's made. Now obviously I'm disappointed, and so is she. Soooo my question is, other than a fleshlight (which I can't afford ATM) what alternatives are there?!

    Thanks for your help!

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    ShannonMarlene [sign in to see picture]
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    You can try a male masturbator, also known as a 'stroker'
    They're cheap and affective (:

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    flaneur [sign in to see picture]
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    Have you looked at all fleshlights? I would normally recommend the SIAC Sukit Draft for £36.99, but below this, you'll be limited to strokers and toys with a mouth orifice which feel nothing like the real thing and don't last very long. The occasional person might suggest Tenga Onacups which are cheap and do have suction, but I can't really tell you that they feel realistic.

    How important is realism and what are you looking for in a toy?

    seems like I was beaten to it on the stroker.

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    diamond37 [sign in to see picture]
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    TBH I've never really had a proper BJ, (I know, I can hear the violins), but I think I was looking at a stroker. Realism? I guess it's important

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    myghost [sign in to see picture]
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    have you checked the male toy section Doc Johnson make some strokers with mouths made of realistic UR3 or if you can stretch to it get http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29107 it's described as the most realistic oral sex simulator in the world

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    diamond37 [sign in to see picture]
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    Wow, can't afford that I'm afraid. Any other suggestions toyvwise? What about the Tracey cox on offer ATM? Any good?

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi diamond37 - here is a link which has some of the more affordable male toys:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/male-sex-toys/male-masturbators/

    This one in particular seems to be very highly reviewed and quite a reasonable price too :) xx

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    ShannonMarlene [sign in to see picture]
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    This one seems quite good http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9117
    Or if you're looking at the Tracy Cox ones, this one is quite popular http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16558

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    WildThing [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16558

    Immense..... I wrote a review a little while back.... Brilliant fun!

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    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    If I had to make a suggestion, a hand job with a good quality lube can be very close to simulation oral sex, and you only need to spend about a tenner for some good lube.

    If you really want to go the old toy route, then I would suggest either something like a Tenga Egg (they're under a tenner, and if you look after it, you can get more than one use out of it) or something like the Tracy Cox stroker.

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    diamond37 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm using Maximus at the moment. Is that a good or bad lube?

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    Romeo Papa [sign in to see picture]
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    If you want something that feels like a blow job try this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12446 I appreciate it's expensive for a one use toy but it feels really good, pretty close to the real thing. There is an air hole at the end which you can cover to adjust the 'suck' and you can wear a condom to get more uses. I've done this as well and it still feels great.

    Of if you oh is able to orally pleasure the tip of you penis you could try this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25801 not tried it myself but it gets good reviews

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    blonde vixen13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Sign up for deal of the day emails. The strikers and fleshlights are in often as deal of the day a lot! X

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