• Which are you ? Dom or Sub

    1392988859
    qwertyuiop123 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Colonel
    • Posts: 26
    • Joined: 8 May 2013

    I always thought I was more sub until recently when it became apparent my SO has quite the submissive side herself and I've been thoroughly enjoying taking control. So I guess I'm a switch (fairly new to the whole thing thiugh).

    1392991673
    kjsl [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 75
    • Joined: 4 Dec 2013

    It depends on how my day has gone so I will say a bit of both

    1393010580
    Frisky freckles [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 18
    • Joined: 6 Feb 2013

    I'm a combination of both but love being dominated though ;)

    1393023283
    IrishRose [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1233
    • Joined: 21 Jan 2014

    I love being both!

    1393332383
    regular_john [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant
    • Posts: 32
    • Joined: 19 Feb 2011

    I'm definitely a submissive. I've known I was since I was about 14 so it's a big part of my sexuality. My girlfriend had never tried dominance before we started going out but said she'd give it a go. Four years later, she absolutely loves being a Goddess (as she calls herself :-P) and wouldn't have it any other way. I can't foresee any circumstance in which she'd relinquish that power, which makes me one very happy subby!

    To anyone with these tendencies who is wondering whether or not their partner will go for it, I'd say give it a go! If they embrace it and learn to enjoy themselves it's absolute bliss!

    1400834281
    Suzywong [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 53
    • Joined: 16 Sep 2008

    I am switch but edging towards Dom now as Fiona, my other half is definitely sub but I am not adverse to a bit of bondage and role play ... but I love being in control and having people where I want them ....

    1400837246
    IrishRose [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1233
    • Joined: 21 Jan 2014

    I like to be either depending on the mood

    1400841717
    goblingirl1980 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 34
    • Joined: 22 Dec 2013

    I'm a sub, but I'm allowed to Top sometimes :-)

    1400842975
    nympho_bunny [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 24
    • Joined: 21 May 2014

    With a man I tend to be more sub, but with another woman more dom :)

    1400883142
    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1554
    • Joined: 8 Apr 2014

    I think I would be more open to more sub play, as I have been sub in most of my sex life over the years.
    As long as it isn't gaging or hair pulling... That cuts a bit too close to the wick, after my ex.
    I really would not have confidence to go dom

    1400883143
    naughty mum [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1554
    • Joined: 8 Apr 2014

    I think I would be more open to more sub play, as I have been sub in most of my sex life over the years.
    As long as it isn't gaging or hair pulling... That cuts a bit too close to the wick, after my ex.
    I really would not have confidence to go dom

    1400883298
    lookslikefun [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Colonel
    • Posts: 368
    • Joined: 2 May 2010

    In my mind, both appeal, but I haven't ever really gone far enough to earn one name nor the other

    1401020998
    AlwaysHorney. [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 14
    • Joined: 25 May 2014

    im quite gappy doing both, that way you get best of both worlds

    1401037767
    girl and guy 86 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant
    • Posts: 4
    • Joined: 5 Jan 2009

    Dom, tried sub and although it was fun it's not my fav. My OH is a sub and doesn't like to switch. Although she does like to fight back, which makes it all the more fun. One time she even managed to make it out of bed and get to the bedroom door before I could grab her. Don't worry though, I bought some restraints from LH ;-)

    1401131006
    cockringsandvibratingthings [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 71
    • Joined: 2 Feb 2014

    Sub I love someone else to take control

    1401325598
    mysterio [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 98
    • Joined: 13 May 2014

    I wouldnt call myself dom but i am the kind of person who likes taking charge. Personally speaking alot of dom and sub stuff is a bit too much for me and can be a turn off as i would rather take charge and make my partner orgasm rather than pulling hair or giving her pain.

    1401327436
    brummilass [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant
    • Posts: 5
    • Joined: 10 May 2014

    Both depending on the mood, like to be dominated but not to much, i like to be in charge to

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.