• Which are you ? Dom or Sub

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    Brian47 [sign in to see picture]
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    Me and my partner change regularly. We both love being domintated and also to dominate the other. We will tie each other to the bed and just abuse each other, we love it. We recently found out that we love to tie up my cock and balls, clip a lead on and then for her to take me 'walkies'.

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    MissVixy [sign in to see picture]
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    With men I fall naturally submissive, its what turns me on most. I love not having to be in control for a few hours and seems to take alot of pressure off. However with women I find i'm very dominant. Any other bisexuals had this experiance?

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    Ikey [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH has a big thing for being dominated so naturally I'm a dom, which is alot of fun. I'd still like to try being a sub once in a while though.

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    Briohne [sign in to see picture]
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    I am more of a sub but I do the occasional dominating.

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    Spoonerism [sign in to see picture]
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    MissVixy wrote:

    With men I fall naturally submissive, its what turns me on most. I love not having to be in control for a few hours and seems to take alot of pressure off. However with women I find i'm very dominant. Any other bisexuals had this experiance?

    Yep, me too!

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    KayHarker [sign in to see picture]
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    MissVixy wrote:

    With men I fall naturally submissive, its what turns me on most. I love not having to be in control for a few hours and seems to take alot of pressure off. However with women I find i'm very dominant. Any other bisexuals had this experiance?

    It's odd, but now you mention it, yes. It's been a while, though.

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    M-J [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm submissive. At work I'm assertive but there are 1/2 characters there I'll defer to. At home my oh is the Top.

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    miss_s [sign in to see picture]
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    I thought I would a sub, but I think a switch. I'm enjoying making OH bum red hehe

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    goblingirl1980 [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm a switch depending on what mood I'm in.

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    Curly Wurly [sign in to see picture]
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    I much prefer submissive, but having a bit of a lazy boyfriend encourages me to be more dom sometimes.

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    mr and mrs [sign in to see picture]
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    i liketo play both pending on the mood

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    smirnoff09 [sign in to see picture]
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    I am more sub than I ever have been. It is crazy but since getting married i have enjoyed being sub more and more, I have alwyas been more sub than dom but it just feel natural to be all sub .

    OH is naturally dom which came as a bit of surprise to him but he is amazing.

    In work I am definatly in control (and wouldn't have it any other way) but once I am home it is very different.

    Has anyone else experince a real shift either way?

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    LOVE [sign in to see picture]
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    with each other we are both sub and dom ,taking it in turns when the mood takes us

    when meeting other people we become dominate towards them,we have a few sub males who we meet regular

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    SultrySuzy [sign in to see picture]
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    Hubby likes me being dominant, but I like him being like that too! :-)

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    NewlySub [sign in to see picture]
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    You'll have to guess from my screen name! LOL.

    My OH knows how to treat me, and I know my position. I get pleasure from watching her with her boyfriend, and being a plaything for both of them.

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    MissyMe [sign in to see picture]
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    Very much sub. But switched it up last weekend.. quite enjoyed it.. but it didnt come as naturally as being sub :-)

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    SultrySuzy [sign in to see picture]
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    Submissive!

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    xmellx [sign in to see picture]
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    I would have to say I'm a switch, Depends on my mood at the time, Sometime's I want my OH to take control of me and sometimes I want to be in control.

    I would say my OH is the same but he definatley enjoys being dominated that little bit more.

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    Treegirl [sign in to see picture]
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    Definately submissive. I love it when my BF dominates me!! But I reckon I could switch roles with him if he ever wanted me to. :)

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    Alban [sign in to see picture]
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    I'm definitely the domininat one it the relationship but I'm still learning the trade :)

    It is also nice when she decides she's going to turn the tables now and then!

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