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    Avrielle_Aniko [sign in to see picture]
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    Sukkamielli wrote:

    I do too, i was only teasing. Though i still don't understand porn's obsession with them. all that cockgobbling  and knob spitting just aint sexy.

    I've always found it quite difficult to give a good blow job and make it look sexy. Lol! It always ends up with slurping noises and the like! Too much info? sorry..

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

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    Yip me too... that's me never getting married then! lol

    Haha! Same here! Strange.. I dont ever plan to marry.. Is it because I like giving oral! Heh!

    Me neither - never ever (ever as a child) saw myself in a white frock skipping down to a beloved! And maybe it's because I love to give head. Shall be telling my therapist this.

    As for it looking sexy, I'm sure I look gormless when I look up and make eye contact while having a mouthful, but it makes me think I'm being sexy. ;o) 

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    I wouldn't want to see what I look like - I'm sure it'd look ridiculous!

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    Ecksvie wrote:

    Putting a cushion under my bum during sex. Done it three times that way now, and two of those times I orgasmed! :D

    I didnt think it was possible for me to orgasm through sex before that.

    Have you tried the Liberator shapes? They're like cushions but position you a lot easier and are better suited for sex. They are pricey though. Like one of them, the Liberator Wedge puts a woman in the perfect position to recieve oral with a lot less stress on the giver.

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    Lunar Lunacy [sign in to see picture]
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    The best sex tip I've heard is definitely... to enjoy sex. When orgasm is seen as the ultimate 'finish' to sex, it becomes the goal, and then the sex isn't that great anymore because you're all stressed out trying to reach that goal.

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    foreplay starts in the morning and lasts all day with teasing, sexy txts and touching each other up! SG69 x

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    1) Giving your boyfriend the sexiest look with your eyes when you perform fellatio.

    2) Kegals.

    3) Confidence.

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     Lubericant!

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     Lubricant* even!

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    Tigerlilies [sign in to see picture]
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    Oh and the best guide on fellatio I have ever read was written by a blogger called The Over Educated Nympho. She's rather fabulous.

    http://theovereducatednympho.com/2007/03/14/blowjob-part-3-hand-mouth/

    A little extensive but required reading.

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    Relaxing and ceasing to think. (have only managed this a couple of times so far, a work in progress shall we say?)

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    Hey I'm in that state permanently Rowan :-s SG69 x

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    Rowan wrote:

    Well said Sam. I think mine to date is how to give oral comfortably lying down. (thanks adnaW)

    Yay :D I'm so glad it helped that much!! Don't know what I'd do without being able to give oral so that was the first thing I figured out how to do when my joints started falling apart hehe!

    My best tip is that everyone is different - guess where I *didn't* get that from....I have a personal vendetta against magazines telling us all what we should and shouldn't be doing/feeling, I felt a whole lot better about things when I just started to relax and enjoy what I enjoy! I don't like to come - try telling that to cosmo ;)

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    1:Applying pressure on a man's perineum when he comes; it makes the orgasm much stronger for them, and they ejaculate MUCH further!

    2: to be open about your fantasies

    3: to tell your partner what you like/dislike, and if thwey're doing something right/wrong!

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    Lady Luna wrote:

    1:Applying pressure on a man's perineum when he comes; it makes the orgasm much stronger for them, and they ejaculate MUCH further!

    Oooh that's a goodie. I started massaging this spot firmly just before climax and got some fantastic 'where-did-you-learn-*THAT*' reactions.

    Hippie-Dippie's call it the 'Sacred Spot' and also reccomend very gentle massage of it before the pressing in ensues.

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    I know a sex forum that changed my life.. ;-)

    I love you guys! I'm so more confident. And now I'm willing to attempt being super sexy for my OH on V-day! I've never bothered with valentines really before, but it seems like a good excuse! I dont think I would have the full on confidence to do all this if it weren't for the forum as we seem to very lacking in the sex department. But hopefully I can make this fun for him instead of "Oh god, she's horny again..." Lol!

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    Tigerlilies wrote:

    Lady Luna wrote:

    1:Applying pressure on a man's perineum when he comes; it makes the orgasm much stronger for them, and they ejaculate MUCH further!

    Oooh that's a goodie. I started massaging this spot firmly just before climax and got some fantastic 'where-did-you-learn-*THAT*' reactions.

    Hippie-Dippie's call it the 'Sacred Spot' and also reccomend very gentle massage of it before the pressing in ensues.

    Wheres that spot? Is that the one on the base of the spine?

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    Avrielle_Aniko wrote:

    Wheres that spot? Is that the one on the base of the spine?

    Hi Avrielle, the perineum is that sort of blank space between a gentleman's balls and his back passage. There's handy photos on wikipedia that I won't link to because it's never a flattering angle. Women have one too.

    Pressure to this smooth space provides indirect prostate stimulation so it's a great substitute if like me, you don't really want to enter that department for all the tea in China.

    I found it's best to use your knuckle so the pressure can be controlled with a soft  'kneading' action increasing with firmness when he's pretty close.

    It was one of those tips that I shared with my girlfriends and it started this little Mexican wave of orgasmic men screaming 'how did you know??!' as they spread the word.

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    Avrielle_Aniko [sign in to see picture]
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    Ah, thats what thats called. yeah, I've used that spot a few times, usually just stroking it or massaging it lightly when giving a blow job. Never had any fantastic responses from it though. I may try your tips the next time and see if that get a more 'wow' factor. Though to be honest, he never really 'wows' at anything I do. The only real sex compliment was when I overheard him talking with some friends in a bar when we were still dating and saying "...But she gives damned good blow jobs though!"

    Guess its just the way he is though.

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    i think mine would have to be - never be affraid to explore yourself infront of your partner, because not only do you then find the things you really like in the right places, makes a great show for your partner and they can keep in mind where your sweet spots are :)

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