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    Do you think it's better to just douche or go the whole hog and give yourself a colonic before having anal sex as the latter seems to me to be a cleaner way to go , any thoughts on this would be good to hear as thinking of trying the latter but not sure if it's worth it

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    Too much washing out of the back passage is not good because it can wash away all the good bacteria in there that is needed to help prevent infections.
    So depends how often you are going to have anal sex . If your at it frequently I prob would say a douche with occasional more intensive clean out would be satisfactory

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    Ok great thanks for the good advise but would like some more views so can make an informed decision cheers everybody

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    Douche works for me but never gone the whole hog!

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    depends what you are going to be doing.

    anal sex and a bit of play - then douching is all good - I would now at least 3 hours before play.

    If you are going for a real pornstar marathon session with very deep insertions etc then maybe going the whole hog - but its something I would never do personally.

    Also dont forget things like diet and exercise. Both of which are good to keep healthy bowels and keep you regular and should have no problems with mess. High fibre diet and lots of water daily.

    Personally I take fibre supplements sold at a high street health store which helps me. I do not take it for the purpose of anal sex, but it does help.

    Also if going for a real pornstar session, I know some people refrain from eating for some time before and turn to just a liquid diet a day or so prior (again not my thing).

    As mentioned, colonics and douching can also do more harm than good if not administered correctly...

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    A colonic is (for your colon anyway) a traumatic experience! While many people sing the virtues of being flushed out, realistically it can do more harm than good. As it's pointed out, there is a delicate balance of intestinal fauna that help keep things in check and if you upset that balance it can lead to some unpleasant side effects!

    For light anal play, I'd recommend playing after a bowel movement. A wash with warm water would be enough to engage in rimming/light fingering etc. the bowel naturally cleans itself - you just might want a little 'freshen up'.

    For anything deeper, a gentle douching is enough for anal sex or dildo/prostate play.

    Just remember to never use soap internally as this can cause severe irritation and would not be pleasant!

    Hope this helps!

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    I always douche before having anal sex but if I'm just using a toy up there I won't bother.

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    there shouldnt actualy be any "mess" in the first part of the rectum unless you need or have just been to the toilet so a douche should do it and going to far just causes discomfort i find. i am uber fussy about being clean for anal so i understand your worry. whatever is enough to make you feel "clean" really.

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    For normal penetration you don't need to do a full flush. But if you are into very big dildo play or fisting you really need to clean out completely. There's nothing more embarrassing and annoying than making a huge smelly mess while you are being pleasured to the limit.

    For simple penetration a douche bag or syringe is probably enough. A full clean out on the other hand takes a couple of hours and will involve several administrations and wait to make sure all the water comes out again.

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    What douches do you guys reccomend then.... We have had anal a couple of times and as I enjoyed it I would like to be better prepared in future. ! Thanks in advance :-) x

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    Spudsmum wrote:

    What douches do you guys reccomend then.... We have had anal a couple of times and as I enjoyed it I would like to be better prepared in future. ! Thanks in advance :-) x

    Personally, I use http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952 (the LoveHoney basic douche). It does the job and i've never had any problems or embarassing accidents. I got mine for free with Oh! points.

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    removing the head of the shower tends to work for me but it does involve an interesting waddle to the toilet as its the other side of the room.

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    If you do go the whole bag add some salt to not get dehydrated. However if you do not suffer from any kind of stomach problems and have normal bowel movements there should be no need to do much douching and similar. If you do use a douche like the lovehoney basic do not fill it too much. If you do you might end up making it more messy then it was before the douching.

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    Thanks for the advice..... I've ordered the one you recommended David and used my oh! points too !! I had been contemplating getting the colt shower head one, but, thought perhaps I'm getting a tad carried away and wasn't sure how that'd work out ( got a separate loo / bathroom ! )

    No stomach / bowel problems and not used anything prep wise before now.... We don't do full on penetration that often, I'd just like to feel that bit better prepared for it - roll on the next child free weekend the oh is in for a surprise :-) xx

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    Add salt to the bag Morthius ? Thanks for the advice on not over filling - this is a whole new thing to me xx

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    Spudsmum wrote:

    Thanks for the advice..... I've ordered the one you recommended David and used my oh! points too !! I had been contemplating getting the colt shower head one, but, thought perhaps I'm getting a tad carried away and wasn't sure how that'd work out ( got a separate loo / bathroom ! )

    No stomach / bowel problems and not used anything prep wise before now.... We don't do full on penetration that often, I'd just like to feel that bit better prepared for it - roll on the next child free weekend the oh is in for a surprise :-) xx

    All I will say is, you'll need to do seperate trips but fill the douche with warm (not hot OR cold - your insides won't thank you!) water. NO soap or anything, just water. You'll want to lube the end of the nozzle, and possibly your bum - and you'll want to be over the toilet as you do this.

    Gently insert the douche and gently squeeze the douche and let the water flow in. DO NOT LET GO (or stop squeezing) whilst the douche is inside - or you'll be in for a world of nastiness! Just pull the douche out and then release. You'll want to clench and then sit down on the toilet and expel. It is going to feel a little bit weird, but basically you are going to repeat until the water you expel is essentially clear.

    When you fill the douche, don't attempt to squeeze the whole lot up there - do it in 2/3 squeezes and repeat until you feel satisfied.

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    Good pick I would if also said to for Lovehoney BASICS Anal Douche as it's what I use and it's really good. :)

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    Great stuff..... I shall be referring back to the advice on how to use it when it arrives !! Thanks lollipop..... Looking forward to giving it a whirl and surprising the oh ;) xx

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    Usually for cleaning out in a major way, I use a Gardena garden spray, but instead of the spray lance I've attached a neoprene shower shot to it.
    I sit on the toilet and work the shower shot in. There is a grip release on the spray, which allows me to control the speed of flow quite easily. As the water goes in, it become easier to insert more of the shower shot. It's 18" long so if it all goes in I know I'm getting the water into the colon.
    When the pressure becomes too extreme I wait for a bit and try to retain the water. If I can't splurting the water out is not a problem as I'm already in the right place.
    The garden spray holds 5 litres so each application is quite a lot. Using the spray means that I can control the temperature, speed of flow and any additives to the water (such as salt) without difficulty.

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