• Which would you pick

    1388477932
    chunkyg [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Colonel
    • Posts: 233
    • Joined: 28 Dec 2007

    Personality without a doubt.........and in terms of my definition of Good Personality comes a willingness to be open minded..........so win win :-)

    1388515838
    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 3587
    • Joined: 10 Jul 2012

    Good Personality that whats I fall in love with someone who can make me smile

    1388546475
    LilMissFrustrated [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 1078
    • Joined: 9 Aug 2011

    Short term good lover but it wouldn't last. Long term personality.

    1388569936
    Cheeky Chica [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 510
    • Joined: 19 Mar 2013

    Good personality definitely

    1388590660
    mrsdivine69 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 386
    • Joined: 23 Nov 2013

    Personality - Sexy stuff from Lovehoney can always be used to assist in improving the good loving, plus a bit of time, patience and tuition.

    1388595410
    Stockings [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 69
    • Joined: 19 Dec 2013

    Wouldn't someone's personality make them a good lover for you? Or am I getting the wrong idea of what you mean by good lover?

    1388599715
    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2231
    • Joined: 11 Feb 2009

    Personality, hands down.

    I can help them become a good lover, but I can't help them change their personality.

    1388657823
    Kasey [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 382
    • Joined: 2 Sep 2013

    Yup. I'm with the others. Personality is so important!

    1388675243
    moonbyday [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 11
    • Joined: 23 Mar 2013

    Personality, without exception.

    For me, "loving skills" are useless in long term if you don't have respect and true friendship with your partner.

    1388676606
    yorkieted [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 147
    • Joined: 9 Jul 2012

    Personality. A smile is infectious and normally, in my experience, leads to bettwe lovemaking in any case.

    1388677186
    mrs average [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 985
    • Joined: 18 Oct 2012

    If by ' lover' you mean sex and by 'personality' you mean emotional chemistry and being in love.
    Then being in love and compatible is way more important than sex.

    1388684804
    Hazy [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 269
    • Joined: 5 Jan 2012

    Personality every time!

    1388685243
    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2473
    • Joined: 12 Sep 2010

    Scorpius12 wrote:

    Personality 100% - as Fluffbags said bedroom skills can be developed :) xx

    Agreed

    1388686325
    69'er [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 523
    • Joined: 4 Dec 2013

    Definatley Personality

    1388690171
    Georgina71 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 136
    • Joined: 11 Nov 2012

    Personality for me too.

    1388692652
    Doll Delicious [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 12
    • Joined: 18 Dec 2013

    Good personality would be my pick.i

    1388692923
    Mr&MrsTickle [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Colonel
    • Posts: 15
    • Joined: 28 Oct 2012

    Good personality definately hard to enjoy sex if its with someone i dont care about

    1388770380
    Jei [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Officer Cadet
    • Posts: 1
    • Joined: 22 Jun 2009

    Good Personality, in my opinion is an essental trait for being a good lover.

    1388788885
    m411y [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 23
    • Joined: 22 Jun 2013

    Personality anyday!

    1388922760
    Karenlea [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Captain
    • Posts: 16
    • Joined: 9 Dec 2013

    Hmmmm such a tricky question .. if someone hasn't got a good personality then I won't find out if a good lover or not ..

    But if a completely useless lover then, then a relationship is doomed.

    But my interpretation of good lover isn't they are amazing and presses all the buttons .. and a good lover comes with time and we learn together what works ..and feels good.

    Some lovers think do this do that , stick that there instead of responding to their partner and that makes them a bad lover..

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.