• fisting ( one for the ladies )

    1386418260
    mrbigpackage [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 32
    • Joined: 23 Feb 2013

    my OH loves being fisted she is the first GF that has just wondering how many out there that do

    1386418963
    Lollipop ;) [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 5532
    • Joined: 25 Apr 2013

    I personal hate it.

    1386420303
    Sarah 77 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 1092
    • Joined: 13 Nov 2013

    Omg I couldn't think of anything worse. Not my thing at all.

    1386421472
    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2560
    • Joined: 12 Sep 2010

    I know some people love this but call me naive , I cannot believe that if done regularly this will not leave permanent damage. I hope I am wrong and don't wAnt to scare any one. As just having a couple of children can change a woman's physiology. Repeatedly fisting will have some detrimental effect?

    1386423276
    kc. [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major General
    • Posts: 150
    • Joined: 10 Jan 2010

    My wife loves being fisted as well and I love to oblige. It feels amazing she says. She loves to look down and see the tatto going up my forearm with my fist buried in her. seems to be a real turn on. 

    1386425221
    mrbigpackage [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 32
    • Joined: 23 Feb 2013

    my OH finds its the only way she can squirt (witch she loves 2)

    1386447675
    delilahxx [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 18874
    • Joined: 12 Mar 2013

    I have never wanted to try it, it just sounds extremely painful.

    1386448498
    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2419
    • Joined: 18 Oct 2011

    Gentle giant wrote:

    I know some people love this but call me naive , I cannot believe that if done regularly this will not leave permanent damage. I hope I am wrong and don't wAnt to scare any one. As just having a couple of children can change a woman's physiology. Repeatedly fisting will have some detrimental effect?

    Only if you manage to tear the muscle surrounding, or indeed tear her inside, or perineum. It is a misconception that women get "loose" vaginas as what is happening as women get older is those pelvic floor muscles surrounding her vagina get weaker (And overstretched, or torn during childbirth) so she can not squeeze as hard and potentially does not feel as tight. However, those muscles can stretch quite far (Like childbirth) and still bounce back with a bit of pelvic floor toning afterwards (So long as the muscle was not permanently damaged) This also means it is possible to be fisted and not end up with a loose vagina, so long as you don't damage her muscles or internally, everything will "ping" back to normal.

    I have been fisted a few times (Thankfully my OH has small hands! I could not manage this with my ex) and it feels intense and extremely stretched sensation. It also feels hugely intense on the g-spot area. However, it is not very comfortable and takes a while to build up to, so after the initial thrill to see if we could do it, the idea of repeating it often just wore off. 

    People who do anal fisting have my uttermost respect, that's for sure! oooooh!

    1386448837
    myghost [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: General
    • Posts: 1362
    • Joined: 30 Dec 2012

    it's not something i've ever tried before but i wouldn't mine giving it a go if i could manage it myself i know you can get fisting dildos but trying it with one of them appeal to me

    1386449092
    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 4143
    • Joined: 17 Nov 2008

    Fluffbags wrote:

    Gentle giant wrote:

    I know some people love this but call me naive , I cannot believe that if done regularly this will not leave permanent damage. I hope I am wrong and don't wAnt to scare any one. As just having a couple of children can change a woman's physiology. Repeatedly fisting will have some detrimental effect?

    Only if you manage to tear the muscle surrounding, or indeed tear her inside, or perineum. It is a misconception that women get "loose" vaginas as what is happening as women get older is those pelvic floor muscles surrounding her vagina get weaker (And overstretched, or torn during childbirth) so she can not squeeze as hard and potentially does not feel as tight. However, those muscles can stretch quite far (Like childbirth) and still bounce back with a bit of pelvic floor toning afterwards (So long as the muscle was not permanently damaged) This also means it is possible to be fisted and not end up with a loose vagina, so long as you don't damage her muscles or internally, everything will "ping" back to normal.

    in the short term, everything also gets tighter for a while as well.

    I like fisting as an occasional thing ( in BDSM games mostly) and I like the sensation of being stretched. never managed full fisting though

    1386449656
    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2419
    • Joined: 18 Oct 2011

    sweetlove666 wrote:

    Fluffbags wrote:

    Gentle giant wrote:

    I know some people love this but call me naive , I cannot believe that if done regularly this will not leave permanent damage. I hope I am wrong and don't wAnt to scare any one. As just having a couple of children can change a woman's physiology. Repeatedly fisting will have some detrimental effect?

    Only if you manage to tear the muscle surrounding, or indeed tear her inside, or perineum. It is a misconception that women get "loose" vaginas as what is happening as women get older is those pelvic floor muscles surrounding her vagina get weaker (And overstretched, or torn during childbirth) so she can not squeeze as hard and potentially does not feel as tight. However, those muscles can stretch quite far (Like childbirth) and still bounce back with a bit of pelvic floor toning afterwards (So long as the muscle was not permanently damaged) This also means it is possible to be fisted and not end up with a loose vagina, so long as you don't damage her muscles or internally, everything will "ping" back to normal.

    in the short term, everything also gets tighter for a while as well.

    I like fisting as an occasional thing ( in BDSM games mostly) and I like the sensation of being stretched. never managed full fisting though

    I never noticed this! (Mind you, I just felt a little too briused afterwards, to notice feeling tighter) That sounds interesting! It took me a loooong time and a gallon of lube to get past his knuckles. lol

    1386451314
    Curly Wurly [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Brigadier
    • Posts: 142
    • Joined: 22 Jan 2013

    I once saw a fisting dildo. It was just a fist on a forearm, that seemed to be a bit bigger than lifesize. Just thought I'd mention it :)

    1386451886
    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2419
    • Joined: 18 Oct 2011

    Curly Wurly wrote:

    I once saw a fisting dildo. It was just a fist on a forearm, that seemed to be a bit bigger than lifesize. Just thought I'd mention it :)

    Like this?: 

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=18933

    1386452048
    blonde vixen13 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2677
    • Joined: 23 Jun 2012

    Not for me I'm afraid

    1386453022
    muffinmuffinmuffin [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Colonel
    • Posts: 38
    • Joined: 26 Nov 2007

    My ex tried it on me once (without warning)... It hurt like bloody hell! I don't even like being fingered so being fisted was awful.... Ugh.

    1386455925
    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 2419
    • Joined: 18 Oct 2011

    muffinmuffinmuffin wrote:

    My ex tried it on me once (without warning)... It hurt like bloody hell! I don't even like being fingered so being fisted was awful.... Ugh.

    Ouch! I think fisting is generally not something you should do as a surprise! lol 

    1386456408
    Poppicat [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Lieutenant Colonel
    • Posts: 191
    • Joined: 7 Nov 2011

    I could think of nothing worse. I can get maybe 3 fingers at most.

    1386545835
    Candied Citrus [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 1742
    • Joined: 19 May 2012

    It's most certainly not for me - the idea of it isn't a turn on whatsoever. It's scary more than anything, in fact!

    My boyfriend has only managed to get two of his fingers in once, when I'd already orgasmed and was really wet, but it was really tight and hence a touch uncomfortable though it felt really intense and wow; I can manage two of my fingers comfortably, but they're a bit smaller than his.

    The other thing is that I don't think I could anatomically manage it - my hymen is all weird. ^^;

    1386546214
    Ms.Bradley [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Major
    • Posts: 49
    • Joined: 27 Sep 2013

    only ever dated boys with massive hands. . So only been able to recieve 3 fingers.
    If I bend properly, i can get my hand in there, but i got petite hands.

    1386546625
    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
    • Rank: Field Marshall
    • Posts: 4143
    • Joined: 17 Nov 2008

    Fluffbags: its tighter for me, but I've never had a whole fist and I tend to have pretty strong orgasms from it.

    Post a reply to this thread

    Please sign in to post messages to the forum.