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    DavieBoy [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello - just a thought that has been going through my head for months. I'd love to see my wife with another man. Not to be humiliated by him but told by her how good it feels. I'm not into any cum tasting but would love to see her streched by another with both our consent. Is this weird?

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    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    DavieBoy wrote:

    Hello - just a thought that has been going through my head for months. I'd love to see my wife with another man. Not to be humiliated by him but told by her how good it feels. I'm not into any cum tasting but would love to see her streched by another with both our consent. Is this weird?

    Hi DavieBoy - you may want to have a read though this recent thread - hope this is useful Hun :) x

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/505749-cuckolding/

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    LilMissMardyBum [sign in to see picture]
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    I have seen a couple of posts on this topic whilst i have been on the forum,so you are not on your own by feeling this way, :) they might be worth a read, i know one forum member, was looking for advice sometime ago on this subject and his partner is now seeing another man ,and it seems to be working for them the thread should be somewhere on the forum :)

    as for cuckold i cant say that this is something me and my partner would ever do as we dont believe in having sex with anyone else but each other

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    DavieBoy [sign in to see picture]
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    Hey thanks both. Need to read through the forums. I have been obsessessed with cuck porn for a while.

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    MSJ6952 [sign in to see picture]
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    Nothing is weird, as long as it is between two or more consenting adults you can do what you want. Being a cuck seems to be a lot of mens fantasy nowadays but not as many guys actually go through with it.

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    Georgina71 [sign in to see picture]
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    I am not sure what "weird" means in this context; it seems to be a fairly common fantasy. I don't disapprove, obviously, but personally would not want to do it, and I must confess that I would get a little upset if my lover proposed it. So I would advise a little caution in proposing it, if you're not sure that of your wife's reaction.

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    Mammame [sign in to see picture]
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    My husband has these thoughts too. We met a couple online. I have met the guy on his own, just for a kiss and fumble. I met both of them for a threesome and ill be meeting him on his own again next week. We take pictures and send to my husband. He loves it and it suits us really well. I think u have to be in a very secure relationship to do this. X

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    Dick Dastardly [sign in to see picture]
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    Its a fantasy we talk about all the time during sex!

    Fulfilling it is another matter all together. :)

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    I think most men have this fantasty and would love another guy to fill his OH nothing wrong with it as long as it consenting and both parties are happy .

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    MSJ6952 [sign in to see picture]
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    Dick Dastardly wrote:

    Its a fantasy we talk about all the time during sex!

    Fulfilling it is another matter all together. :)

    Agree!

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    mrsdivine69 [sign in to see picture]
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    Be very careful DaveyBoy - turning fantasy into reality can be like a humongous wrecking ball.

    Personally, I like the fantasy of being stretched by another man - but it's certainly not on my husband's agenda to consent. (LOL)

    My advice would be to buy your wife a Doc Johnson UR3 Realist Dildo with balls - come in various sizes to suit. I've got 3 and they are amazing. As near to a real cock as possible. In action it feels oh so real. If you don't want the hand held with suction cup - you can get one to wear as a strap-on. If you take that option, you will be giving her the pleasure and she can tell you how good the fantasy man's penis feels inside her.

    This way your wife will feel like she has had another man - She can tell you all the intimate details of how good he felt without that great wrecking ball smashing your marriage into a million pieces.

    Bringing someone else into a marriage always ends in tears from what I've heard.

    Check out the UR3 Realistic Dildos. I've done a comparison review which you may find useful if you decide to give it a try.

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    Jo [sign in to see picture]
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    KinkyFuckery wrote:

    I think most men have this fantasty and would love another guy to fill his OH nothing wrong with it as long as it consenting and both parties are happy .

    Completely disagree!

    While MANY men may want to have sex with some else's OH, MOST men would shoot you in the head if another man happens to bang his wife. These fantasies are influenced by porn films and forum discussions.

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    Cowboy81 [sign in to see picture]
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    The thing that seperates fantasy and reality is living with the results.

    I for one would not handle well the idea of another man with MRS. It is not about trust or security but rather our personal perspective and values placed on intamacy. It would violate a crucial part of the intamacy of our relationship. That leads to the key difference, as Jo brought up.. I become aggitated at the very thought so it is not the excitement that is mentioned in a good way.

    Beyond that, I have known 3 couples to go beyond their own OH's and only one ended up staying in a stable relationship. I do not care to speculate on the differences, I will leave off with where I started, once done it cannot be undone. A 3rd person is the pandora's box of sex.

    NOTICE: this is our belief and I am not suggesting that anyone on this thread is "wrong" for their desires or choices

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    Not for me personally but like others have said have a read. Good luck!

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    biggusdickus [sign in to see picture]
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    We're in a similar relationship to that of http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/members/mammame/ and love having an open cuck relationship.

    Communication and trust are key. You need to be in a very secure relationship.

    Good luck!

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    Horny Glass Lover [sign in to see picture]
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    mrsdivine69 wrote:

    Be very careful DaveyBoy - turning fantasy into reality can be like a humongous wrecking ball.

    Personally, I like the fantasy of being stretched by another man - but it's certainly not on my husband's agenda to consent. (LOL)

    My advice would be to buy your wife a Doc Johnson UR3 Realist Dildo with balls - come in various sizes to suit. I've got 3 and they are amazing. As near to a real cock as possible. In action it feels oh so real. If you don't want the hand held with suction cup - you can get one to wear as a strap-on. If you take that option, you will be giving her the pleasure and she can tell you how good the fantasy man's penis feels inside her.

    This way your wife will feel like she has had another man - She can tell you all the intimate details of how good he felt without that great wrecking ball smashing your marriage into a million pieces.

    Bringing someone else into a marriage always ends in tears from what I've heard.

    Check out the UR3 Realistic Dildos. I've done a comparison review which you may find useful if you decide to give it a try.

    i've seen this too... saying you'd be fine with it and actually being fine after are two different things. Too many what ifs... what if he makes her cum like never befor, what if she falls for him, what if you then consider yourself 'less' in the bedroom, what if it comes back up in an argument etc...

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    DavieBoy [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi - thanks for the advice - great to see that this has been discussed before and not just me. Some really good advice on here - especially MrsDivine69 - might just try that - thanks.

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    DavieBoy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for all your help - with my birthday coming up I think I'm going to ask her try this out - better get ordering - thanks again.

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    dh [sign in to see picture]
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    Got to agree with Jo, I doubt that more than a couple of percent of men would like to see another man so much as touch their OH. I don't see anything wrong if all parties are consenting but it does nothing for me

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    xabix [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH definately isn't into being cuckolded, even larger than him dildos are a no go!

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