• A question for the men?

    Scorpius12 [sign in to see picture]
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    Fluffbags wrote:

    I might be wise (Hmmm lol) but clearly not completely secure in my own abilities to please, because I never even thought of that option! I like it though...it gives me a big head today so I will go with that! lol

    But being serious: This answer is not as broad or as simple. What worries me is that this answer will lead the OP to think that every man who still watches porn or pervs at the ladies, is unsatisfied with their lover and I don't think that is true. I have read many posts from guys over the years who admit to being completely satisfied and yet still watch porn or have a glance. I am also satisfied with my partner, but still watch porn.

    So my guess is that for SOME of us, the desire to have a glance or watch porn dissipates when satisfied and for some others, it is just another element of their sex life to be enjoyed. Just like some people enjoy anal and others don't, I guess some people, even when satisfied in a relationship,still enjoy porn because they genuinely enjoy it for what it is, (Like me) while some others simply use porn as a means to an end during times when they have less sex with a partner. (Like my partner)

    We are all different, with different urges and desires, after all.

    I absolutely agree Sweetheart - we are all different - and that is what makes the world a very exciting place :) xxx

    James and Michelle (mr and mrs) [sign in to see picture]
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    good question, as a man in a fulfilling and to be honest great relationship i am satisfied with my partner but i do watch porn from time to time. To be honest i don’t think i can give a clear answer as to why i do it. My partner is attractive and fun.

    I do like to see what other people do in bed and its nice to watch things that you would never actually wish to do yourself with your partner (groups/outfits and so on).

    As for having a quick look at girls, i don’t do this so much but must admit a short skirt and/or heels will catch my eye and i will lookbut I don’t think its that perverted, its just a nice look. … I hope

    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    Porn is one of those things that can divide or unite a relationship. Before I was with my husband, I would look at porn alot (like any hormonal teenager would). Once I was in a relationship, I stopped looking at Porn as often as I once was. Nowadays, Porn is just something I look at when i've been left alone for the day.

    We've started to introduce porn into the bedroom, as we both know and accept that each of us download and look at porn separately - but we now watch it together.

    Porn isn't a massive deal in our relationship. The only time it would really upset me was if I found out he was getting more out of porn than with me (as I already posted in another thread we were having some problems in the bedroom) - but as we both work from home, there aren't many opportunities for either of us to be looking at porn on our own anyway. If that makes sense at all :-z

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