8 whole days ago!!
The longest we've been without in months.
Hubby working till midnight + workstress put paid to my seduction techniques last week, he just wasn't in the mood for anything but cuddles and sleep - now he's feeling better I've got an IBS flare up and the period from hell. Tomorrow or Thursday before normal play resumes - I want to know how I can be in incredible pain, but still turned on - he's only got to snuggle up against me in bed and I still want sex! He always wakes up hard, it's been a real struggle to refrain from helping myself.
One thing's for sure, we'll be trying out the durex "play longer" lube I got from LH a few weeks back when we get our mojo back!!
I haven't told him yet, but I've got sexy plans for Sunday - we are taking our DD and her BF to the airport for 6 am , his dad is also away so no interruptions all day, so it's either a session when we get home , or back to sleep then a session when we wake up!!
I just want to find a good balance, we don't really know what "normal" is for us - up until a few months ago, sex was fairly infrequent, 2 or 3 times a month due to a mixure of my low sex dive and his weird shift patterns, then bang! we suddenly went to virtually every day, I could still happily have sex if not every day then every other, hubby is content with 2/3 times a week. He doesn't masturbate, he didn't even when sex was infrequent, apart from occasionally in his sleep - I keep saying I'm going to video him because he doesn't believe me .
He has admitted that my constant demands were too much for him after a while, at first he was like a kid in a sweet shop because he didn't think it would last very long but after 4 months of "lets try this new position" etc. he knows he can have sex pretty much whenever so the pressure to get it while he can has been removed.
Now we know how fabulous sex can still be afer 25 years , I can't bear the thought of going back to nice, satisfying but fairly routine lovemaking.
I haven't finished experimenting just yet - I just wish he'd ask for "more" , we've found out plenty about me, including my g-spot - I love to be spanked and I like it rough for example, but he keeps insisting he doesn't want anything "extra" at all, he's just ecstatic to be getting oral again after god knows how many years .