• which experience counts as losing your virginity? definitely intercourse or other too?

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    No as with most of the posts , loss of virginity is vagina penetrated by penis. Ok hope this sorts it for you.

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    Your checks open whilst you back on to his cock. This is very horny for any man to watch. Your ass isn't the same as your pussy you will need to relax and push out at the moment of penetration to allow the penis in.

    There are many wonderful ladies on here to help with all sorts of advice. Welcome to your sexual life. This site will help you grow in confidence and pleasure. You are very lucky to have this site early in your sexual life , I wish I had some where like this when in my early sex life. Enjoy

    i asked my bf and he said he has done a girls bottom so i guess its lucky for me (if i enjoy it hehe).

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    it must be unique for guys the first time sperm jumps out lol. even if thats not losing virginity it must be scary for guys hehe.
    my first fingergasm was scary like no control over my breathing but amazingly addictive too!

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    Hi Paige, most guys first load is in the form of a wet dream around the age of 12. Normally it is a dream that is erotic enough for you to just come. We generally remember it because it is very special . Later in your sexual lives what caused it might seam very tame, just seeing a woman's pants or a breast then gets put into a dream.
    The one thing that does stick out in the memory is the amount, type and how you feel it all coming out as you wake up. Then the embarrassed of having to clean it up and your mum finding the stain in your bed. Very special though and for a few months you then can't leave yourself alone because you want that feeling again. It's never quite the same.

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    To be honest, think losing your virginity is when a penis enters a vagina for the first time.

    However, with gay or lesbian couples - I am not sure?

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    Hi Paige, most guys first load is in the form of a wet dream around the age of 12. Normally it is a dream that is erotic enough for you to just come. We generally remember it because it is very special . Later in your sexual lives what caused it might seam very tame, just seeing a woman's pants or a breast then gets put into a dream.
    The one thing that does stick out in the memory is the amount, type and how you feel it all coming out as you wake up. Then the embarrassed of having to clean it up and your mum finding the stain in your bed. Very special though and for a few months you then can't leave yourself alone because you want that feeling again. It's never quite the same.

    wow! thanks its very interesting:)

    is a wet dream like when it all comes out or can it be when its stringy? my bf was sleeping on the sofa and i put my hand in his shorts and rubbed few times and it had stringy sperm.

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    The very first one is normally thick and stringy but usually because then you start to masturbate a lot more it doesn't build up. What I think you are describing is precome. This is not a full come it is clear and viscous. When a man is really turned on he can start to leak this. It is the fluid the sperm get mixed with. It comes from.the prostate it is prostatic fluid. Some people really like this as it doesn't have the lumps in it and can be nice tasting during oral.
    Some men my self included like having this made to come out with out having a full orgasm. It is almost as good but when you finally have a full orgasm you get more of the full come and physically you can really feel it pumping out.

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    The very first one is normally thick and stringy but usually because then you start to masturbate a lot more it doesn't build up. What I think you are describing is precome. This is not a full come it is clear and viscous. When a man is really turned on he can start to leak this. It is the fluid the sperm get mixed with. It comes from.the prostate it is prostatic fluid. Some people really like this as it doesn't have the lumps in it and can be nice tasting during oral.
    Some men my self included like having this made to come out with out having a full orgasm. It is almost as good but when you finally have a full orgasm you get more of the full come and physically you can really feel it pumping out.

    yep and easier not to choke if its fluid instead of sticky. but sticky is interesting if its precome. can you get pregnant from precome? i haven't been pregnant but have rubbed it places cos it feels nice like a jelly.

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    Yes you can get pregnant from it. There is a high likelihood that it will have some sperm in it. This is precome which means his body thinks he is going to come soon. So he will also be putting some sperm into it.
    If you are into this you can learn to massage your partners prostate and make this precome come out making without him orgasming. Many men like myself find this exquisite. Coming but not quite. The amount that can come out this way is awesome. It is an amazing thing to learn to be able to do for your partner.

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    Apart from the scietific explanation of breaking the hymen I think it is the first time you have an intimate experience with another person whereby you reach an orgasm male or female.

    Thats my opinion anyway lol.

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    I have always thought of the first time you experience penetrative sex as losing your virginity

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    In my opinion losing your virginity happens during penile penetration. Grinding or dry humping doesn't even come close ;)

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    SophieM wrote:

    In my opinion losing your virginity happens during penile penetration. Grinding or dry humping doesn't even come close ;)

    i orgasmed from my bfs finger.

    but he is extra special.

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    Yes you can get pregnant from it. There is a high likelihood that it will have some sperm in it. This is precome which means his body thinks he is going to come soon. So he will also be putting some sperm into it.
    If you are into this you can learn to massage your partners prostate and make this precome come out making without him orgasming. Many men like myself find this exquisite. Coming but not quite. The amount that can come out this way is awesome. It is an amazing thing to learn to be able to do for your partner.

    i like to do that, i cuddled him now and his precomes is on my tummy!

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    coffee2sugars wrote:

    Apart from the scietific explanation of breaking the hymen I think it is the first time you have an intimate experience with another person whereby you reach an orgasm male or female.

    Thats my opinion anyway lol.

    I agree! People get too hung up on straight up intercourse, imo.

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    coffee2sugars wrote:

    Apart from the scietific explanation of breaking the hymen I think it is the first time you have an intimate experience with another person whereby you reach an orgasm male or female.

    Thats my opinion anyway lol.

    I feel that virginity ican be a case by case scenario, for example if a woman had been having sex for the last 10 years but never orgasmed :( she would not be a virgin - so im not sure orgasms are the defining feature....

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    Im not sure... i would say penetration by the penis, however I would class vaginal and anal penetration as having their own respective virginities.

    Im not sure for lesbian/non-penis couples though... i feel like losing your virginity is a moment with a person not a toy... so maybe fingering for those couples?...

    I dont know! I suppose it's just different for each person - even starting a sexual relationship with someone completely new could feel like the first time all over again if they were really special

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    I've always wondered this too

    I used to think being penetrated by fingers counted as losing your virginity (for a girl) Now I'd say losing your virginity is when you have sex where you have been penetrated by a guys penis.

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    guys. everybody knows this. duh. its when his penis penetrates. im new and even i know that

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    pippy123 wrote:

    guys. everybody knows this. duh. its when his penis penetrates. im new and even i know that

    So a homosexual partnership means they are forever virgins???

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