• One for the guys (ladies may also have advice)

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    Sarah 77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi all, hoping you can help. Mickus's balls always go up into his body during sex and masturbation. They always go back afterwards but we were both wondering if any of you guys experience this and if there's anything you can do about it? Is it something worth going to the GP about?
    It doesn't cause any problems during sex and it certainly doesn't bother me but we tried a new cock ring last night (first purchase of one) that we bought from LH and his balls kept slipping out of the ball ring part. Does this mean those type of cock ring are pointless for us?

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    We've also bought this one but we've not tried it yet

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22187

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    WildThing [sign in to see picture]
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    Hello,

    My balls also retract towards my body when I'm really aroused.... and near orgasm they are damn near impossible to hold, even for a partner....

    This is natural as they prepare to ejaculate... so don't worry. I've had ball rings too - some of which snapped even in the pressure... The best one I have now is the Bionic Bunny version of your untried variety...

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=22186

    This is REALLY good as the nodules grip really well. But, as I cum / afterwards I need to take it off quite quick as otherwise my balls ache under the grip......

    Hope that helps... don't forget if your purchase is not suitable, and it's been less than a year, Lovehoney operate a superb returns policy too! :)

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    My partners balls also always do it, but like wild thing says its normal so not to worry :)

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    Sarah 77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Brilliant, thanks for your replies, that's good to know. So we will try the other cock ring and see if the ball ring part stays on and keeps them in place. The one we tried last night is silicone so once there was lube on it, it became very slippy so that obviously doesn't help. I've read about the returns policy, just recently sent something back so yeh, I'm not too bothered if the silicone one is useless. I'll get a another one the same but in rubber with the refund.

    If this rubber one doesn't keep his balls in place, would it be best to just sack that off? (No pun intended lol) and just use a plain cock ring instead?

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    WildThing [sign in to see picture]
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    Haha! - NEVER heard that expression before!!!

    If the Bionic one doesn't work, you could use a cock ring... Have you tried just a simple hair-band, like thing... (don;t know what they're called) - The ones like a thick elastic band..... that could work too?

    Careful not to go too tight though - it'll really hurt him at the moment of relase!!!

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    Sarah 77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Lmao!

    Yeh I've read about people using actual hair bands with not great results! Pain!

    But I know what type you mean, may have to invest in a proper one from the site. Just a simple rubber cock ring. You can get them in a set of three so there's choice of size. Thanks for the advice WildThing :-)

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    Good idea - just avoid the little green ones... Your fella sounds very similar to me and those little glow in the dark blighters were great for the shaft and horrid for the balls!!

    Enjoy (And no problemo for the advice)

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    Sarah 77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Ha ha! O.k, will stay well clear of those! Cheers dude :-)

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    I don't have that particular problem but as with all blokes my ball retract when I come. I sometimes use this round them as it feels great, I guess it'll also prevent Mickus's balls from dissapearing.

    At least with this round his balls he can also choose to wear a cock ring or not...

    HTH.

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    Sarah 77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Do you have a link BigBikeGuy?

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    Oops.. http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=2589

    sorry, meant to add that to my post..

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    Sarah 77 [sign in to see picture]
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    Cheers for the link. Hmmm, shopping!!!!! :-)

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    Yup my partner and all my exes (I said that like there are hundreds lol) also had their balls move up either closer to, or even going inside the body when they are close to orgasm. If you watch porn, especially amateur stuff, you will probably notice it on the men there too. This is actually perfectly normal. I am not sure exactly why it happens (Never thought to question it) but it probably has something to do with temperature and alignment of tubes inside ready for ejaculation or what not. Normal though and nothing to worry about unless he gets pain. There are a lot of toys out there to actively hold the guys balls away from his body during play, like ball stretchers and rings and more....torturous...devices too. From what I can tell in the small amount of research I have done, is that it can make it more difficult, or more uncomfortable, for a guy to reach orgasm while his balls are being pulled away and down from where they would want to be at that moment. (Unless he enjoys a little CBT, in which case it might actually be higely enjoyable to do that) I cannot totally confirm that but thats my understanding at the moment anyway.

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    Call me thick but what's CBT? Lol

    Thanks fluffbags, I've noticed throughout reading many pages that you are an encyclopedia on here and you have great advice for people :-) I've seen somewhere that it's to do with the muscle in that area being pretty strong.

    I'm pretty certain that my hubby wouldn't fancy feeling uncomfortable in the balls region during sexy time, maybe it would be better to stick to bog standard cock rings instead! We'll try the bullet cock ring and see what it's like. If it's not right, we'll just send them both back and get some others instead.

    Thanks again all :-)

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    Sarah 77 wrote:

    Call me thick but what's CBT? Lol

    Thanks fluffbags, I've noticed throughout reading many pages that you are an encyclopedia on here and you have great advice for people :-) I've seen somewhere that it's to do with the muscle in that area being pretty strong.

    I'm pretty certain that my hubby wouldn't fancy feeling uncomfortable in the balls region during sexy time, maybe it would be better to stick to bog standard cock rings instead! We'll try the bullet cock ring and see what it's like. If it's not right, we'll just send them both back and get some others instead.

    Thanks again all :-)

    Not being thick at all, I am just typing things and assuming it makes sense! lol Sorry. CBT stands for Cock and Ball Torture. A kink enjoyed by some men. Anyway, yes you can use cock rings or larger rings, whatever he is most comfortable with. Is there a particular reason you guys want to keep his balls down, away from the body? The reason I ask is that you seem keen to find a way to do this, but also you mention that you don't want to cause discomfort, so I am unsure why? is it for looks or are you guys worried it is harming him? Anyway, if I can help, I do try! There are lots of rings and devices to keep his balls down, but because this is not the "natural" thing that his body wants to do during that moment, it may be slightly uncomfortable as he will probably feel them trying to move up, but being held away. It won't cause pain, but it might feel a bit weird or achy for him. Which is why some guys absolutely love it (CBT again) and also, some guys don't blink an eyelid and feel no aching or discomfort having their balls held a little lower, so yeh, it is trial and error really. xx

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    I'm fairly sure your balls retract during sex as a way of protecting them (from impact etc.), just like they retract when cold to protect them from, well, the cold

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    Yup, another bloke here confirming that balls do retract quite regularly. When it's cold, when you orgasm... balls are bouncing up and down all the time - and it's perfectly normal! Although it does make me giggle when I see it happen... :P

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    mine do the same too until after ejaculation

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