• Do you like to come first or last?

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    mnms [sign in to see picture]
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    Man always cums first, but that's cause I never orgasm with a partner. It's utterly depressing.

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    Ryuudoragon [sign in to see picture]
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    Must make her enjoy it first, easy for a bloke to ejaculate. Love the time and energy spent on seeing her writhe and sweat :-)

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    Darkclarissa [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't mind when with a Dom/me as it is their decision and them controlling my orgasms is a bigger turn on tbh.

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    Darkclarissa [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't mind when with a Dom/me as it is their decision and them controlling my orgasms is a bigger turn on tbh.

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    pr4wnst4r [sign in to see picture]
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    I prefer to come last, once I've climaxed I'm usually too tired to do anything

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    BigBikeGuy [sign in to see picture]
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    Most of the time it's a 2 -1 she has 2, usually one through oral or manual first then one through intercourse, I usually only have 1 through intercourse, we usually manage to come together through penetrative sex.... I guess we've been doing is so long we know each other pretty well now..

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    paul10 [sign in to see picture]
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    last unless requested otherwise

    but we both like several times anyway xxx

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    sweetlove666 [sign in to see picture]
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    Second usually as penetrative sex can be uncomfortable if I come and have tightened up

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    paige95 [sign in to see picture]
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    i come from his finger first and then later on his lap so i come first and then when he does.

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    Ste [sign in to see picture]
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    Since day one it's always been the lady first for me. Lots of oral and masturbation combined with toys recently and I make sure she is glowing before I even think about myself.

    She actually said very recently though she sometimes wishes she could do more for me as I pay so much attention to her - thought that was quite sweet as she is very good in taking care of me.

    As women can have multiple orgasms and don't suffer from "shrinkage" like men do, would almost be unfair to get off first.

    She tightens up a lot though if i come inside her, so we generally make that the last one.

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    bigstu [sign in to see picture]
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    I like the OH to cum first, that way she is usually more willing to have a go at some of my suggestions, like a pegging session etc.

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    LAR [sign in to see picture]
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    Personally I can't Ejaculate just now- Frustrating- Taking pain killers but Lisa's satisfaction is and has always been my priority. I get a real kick from watching her squirm, watching her torso bend and flex in pleasure is really satisfying.

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    LAR [sign in to see picture]
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    starting a new post about .. What is considered a suitable amount of time to be making Love? will be interesting to hear what you ladies think.

    off to start the thread

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    coffee2sugars [sign in to see picture]
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    I always try and make her cum first. Usually through oral and lots of foreplay.

    Its not always the case though and she does the feeling of being filled whilst she plays with her vibe and I use my hands and tounge all over her body.

    Gives her a real kick to get that kind of attention.

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    dh [sign in to see picture]
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    After I come I totally lose interest and just want to sleep, so I always make sure my wife comes first, at least once

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    ksw1980 [sign in to see picture]
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    I always try make Sara cum first but it doesn't always work out that way. She enjoys it regardless and we make sure she does cum after is needed! I can't help myself sometimes with how hot she makes me feel and she finds it a turn on that she turns me on that much!

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    James and Michelle (mr and mrs) [sign in to see picture]
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    as the man I like to cum last as it can be a fun ending to things

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    StHubbins [sign in to see picture]
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    Together is definitely the best, but if that doesn't happen, then I prefer to cum last (but she prefers to cum last as well)

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    DavidB1986 [sign in to see picture]
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    I like to make sure he cums before I do, although there are times when he begs that I cum first as it helps him.. so we're kinda 50/50!

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    againstleon [sign in to see picture]
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    Her first me last. If I know i made her cum then i can stop thinking about it and relax. Plus if I make her cum really hard she always seems to put in the extra effort for mine feel just as great.

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