• Would like to try bondage, hints and tips please

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    sexymancchic [sign in to see picture]
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    I would like to try bondage with DH. He has tied and blindfolded me before but I'd really like to be flogged/spanked as well then maybe leading onto other things, Do any of you have any hints and tips on this and what would you recommend to beginners to start off with/use??

    Cheers guys

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    MissTig [sign in to see picture]
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    We have just bought one of these: http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15746 Very reasonable price and it has excellent reviews. As for hints/tips I'd recommend you sort out a safe word and your hard limits before you go any further. Take it slowly and see what you enjoy.

    I'm sure others will come up with better advice so will watch this thread with interest. :)

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    Sum Sub [sign in to see picture]
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    Just talk about the kind of the things you would like try. Maybe make a list of things you want to do. A list of what you might do. And a list of what would never do. Share and talk through them.
    A flogger is probably a good start, as it is both sensual and hitty. There's always bare hand too. Kitchen implements are useful. Check out my review of the tie and tease game in my profile as I think that is an excellent way to start.
    I'm sure LH have a beginners guide to bondage in the advice section too.

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    sexymancchic [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks guys, touched on the subject this morning and DH is up for it so once the kids are in school and we have the house to ourselfs for a while going to go though the bondage section of LH and see what takes our fancy

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    Start slowly rather than try and set up a whole "act" for the first time. You don't want to put youraelf under pressure for it to be perfect :) we bought the 8m length of bondage rope, it's so versatile. We have it under the bed, round each bed leg so you can easily be tied up spreadeagled! And it's really soft x

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    sexymancchic [sign in to see picture]
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    Oooo will have a look thanks LJ30. Just had a very intense but extremely enjoyable spanking session.

    Can I just say thank you to everyone, I love this site and the forum, so much good advice and so many friendly people. So thank you xxx

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    Hi sexymancchic - if you want drop me an e-mail - I can send you a couple of web links and some info. that may be useful to you - my LH e-mail address is on my profile :) xx

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    sexymancchic [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks scorpius12 will send an e-mail when I get home from work

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    The TC bondage kit is amazing!

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    Khaleesi [sign in to see picture]
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    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29558 This is a really good introduction with some great idea's. This is also a great starter kit http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25727.

    Although this might be a little pricey I can't reccomend it higly enough! It's my favourite peice of kit yet http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19809 X

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    Khaleesi wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29558 This is a really good introduction with some great idea's. This is also a great starter kit http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25727.

    Although this might be a little pricey I can't reccomend it higly enough! It's my favourite peice of kit yet http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19809 X

    i just purxchased the bed kit - cant wait to use

    any tips? x

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    Khaleesi [sign in to see picture]
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    sexymancchic wrote:

    Thanks guys, touched on the subject this morning and DH is up for it so once the kids are in school and we have the house to ourselfs for a while going to go though the bondage section of LH and see what takes our fancy

    Also I think this is a great way to get talking about things :) Browsing LH with my OH was a lot of fun and we've tried loads of stuff since!

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    paul10 wrote:

    Khaleesi wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29558 This is a really good introduction with some great idea's. This is also a great starter kit http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25727.

    Although this might be a little pricey I can't reccomend it higly enough! It's my favourite peice of kit yet http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19809 X

    i just purxchased the bed kit - cant wait to use

    any tips? x

    Sensory play can be great with this kit.

    Blindfold her (definitely no peeking!) and put her ipod/ MP3 on a load volume.

    Only stop the music if you're going to give her an intruction e.g legs up or stay still (a favourite of mine getting him to balance a vibrating bullet on his pubis whilst I tease him elsewhere ;) A spank with a flogger or paddle if it falls off. I think he makes it fall off on purpose most of the time :p ).

    Every touch becomes heightened so licks, kisses, feathers and bullets seem to provide a much stronger sensation. And the anticipation is incredible ;)

    I’d also recommend these http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187 or if not these adding ice cubes and a warming lube like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26693.

    And of course a few spanks here and there wouldn’t go amiss!

    So much fun to be had with a 4posta ;) Enjoy! X

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    Khaleesi wrote:

    paul10 wrote:

    Khaleesi wrote:

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=29558 This is a really good introduction with some great idea's. This is also a great starter kit http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=25727.

    Although this might be a little pricey I can't reccomend it higly enough! It's my favourite peice of kit yet http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19809 X

    i just purxchased the bed kit - cant wait to use

    any tips? x

    Sensory play can be great with this kit.

    Blindfold her (definitely no peeking!) and put her ipod/ MP3 on a load volume.

    Only stop the music if you're going to give her an intruction e.g legs up or stay still (a favourite of mine getting him to balance a vibrating bullet on his pubis whilst I tease him elsewhere ;) A spank with a flogger or paddle if it falls off. I think he makes it fall off on purpose most of the time :p ).

    Every touch becomes heightened so licks, kisses, feathers and bullets seem to provide a much stronger sensation. And the anticipation is incredible ;)

    I’d also recommend these http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17187 or if not these adding ice cubes and a warming lube like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=26693.

    And of course a few spanks here and there wouldn’t go amiss!

    So much fun to be had with a 4posta ;) Enjoy! X

    Thanks Khaleesi ( great name by the way)

    yes we have glass dildo and different lubes. got a range of feathers, canes etc

    but love the music idea and the punishments

    i am also going to delay bringing her to orgasm for as long as she can take

    just checked out one of the websites on your profile - amazing stuff x

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    My wife & I think this is a great flogger for beginners

    Bondage Boutique Medium Hip Whip

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=19604

    It's great for spanking (without real pain) & if dragged across the skin then it's very sensual and arousing.

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    Myself and my OH love a good riding crop. We have tried a flogger before however (personally) it just didnt do it for us as much. we love this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=15825 . I love it when my OH runs it up and down my body, can be quite painful if used hard however easily controlled. As for my OH it drives her mad when i use this on her! she loves the feeling when i run the tip of the crop up her thighs and around her pussy.

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    sexymancchic wrote:

    I would like to try bondage with DH.

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    Always Hot [sign in to see picture]
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    me & oh have started to try s&m recently and we have bought few things of LH to help with the fun, got some new toys to try out tomorrow - waited 2 weeks so am gagging now!! lol Looking forward to being tied up and spanked!! hehe

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