• Pegging Advice

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    Tweetie [sign in to see picture]
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    Hiya,

    I'm quite new to pegging and I'm just looking for some advice, recommendations, etc. I especially would be interested in finding a slightly softer dildo to use in my harness, so if anyone knows one that would be great.

    Many Thanks,

    Tweetie

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Teetie

    Hi welcome check out the LH Welcome page - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/inside-lovehoney/665597-welcome-to-the-lovehoney-forum/

    Why not introduce yourself in the Newbie Initation Test http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/introduce-yourself/19119-newbies-initiation-test/

    We are all a lovely bunch of coconuts have fun & enjoy LH x

    Check out this thread about pegging to give you advice and ideas of what other members use

    http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/community/forums/sex-tips-and-talk/321957-pegging-male-pride-confidence-boosting/

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    Khaleesi [sign in to see picture]
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    • Joined: 1 Jun 2012

    Hey Tweetie! Welcome aboard :)

    I thought that this was a useful guide to pegging- http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=12098. It has a lot of information on it including good positions for p spot stimulation, a short history of the ‘act’ and stories from different couples and their experiences of it. Makes a for an enjoyable read

    I'd also recommend these for your OH: so much more comfy than a harness with loads of velcro and unsexy straps! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28038. The lace ones are for a single round based dildo like this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13884 and then you could work your way up to this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=9619 which has great reviews!

    The Tantus range are reasonably soft – but the word that describes them better I think is flexible. You will need the dildo to be firm enough for your OH to ‘get it in’ but flexible enough for it not to hurt. Best advice on this would be to drop LH customer care a message or give them a ring. If you want something soft because you’re worried it’s going to hurt, don’t worry. Start small and work up! There are finger size dildos to start off with if you like! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=692 – I have this one and its very bendy.

    If you don’t want to get a new harness it would be worth giving LH a ring/message anyway to make sure what you’re getting is compatible. Although if not the returns policy is amazing.

    Or you can opt for a double dildo compatible brief like these http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28168 so your OH can be stimulated too. I’d take a look at something like this to use with it http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=28168 if that’s what you had in mind.

    I personally prefer the single dildo option because I find it makes thrusting a lot easier and I can concentrate on my guy.

    I’ve also seen this come up a couple of times as a worth while investment if you like pegging but I don’t have the funds to currently invest in one… Worth a read of the reviews at least! http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=7747

    Sorry for the long message. I hope this helps! Have fun and post back and let us know how you get on X

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