• Labiaplasty or pussy lip reduction

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    Gentle giant [sign in to see picture]
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    Just how hung up are you lovely ladies abut this? I think it is a very modern thing that boys see in porn and the girls of today want to match it.

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    Kinky&Curvy [sign in to see picture]
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    I hate this, it makes so many women so self concious about themselves.

    I hated my labia when seeing all the porn stars with pretty much no labia at all and i thought I was disfigured or something.

    Its just as bad as getting fake boobs or a face lift.

    Sorry if i seem cranky but I was scared to have sex for the first time because of all the porn stars with the 'perfect labia' and I now know i had no reason to be because there is nothin wrong with me and my OH loves my labia xx

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    The world's gone mad. If it gets any worse then the Internet and Television will have to be turned off until everyone promises to stop misbehaving.

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    I have no hang ups about this part of my body but I am really 'small' down there, sure that's not the right terminology but oh well. I've only ever received compliments about it, so i wouldn't consider labiaplasty, however! It may be a different story if I'd had someone make a negative comment about my vulva as I'm insecure everywhere else haha.just don't know for certain!

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    Madness!!! As if there aren't enough reasons for us ladies to be self conscious.

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    I agree with K&C but I actually think its worse than fake boobs or a face lift. I seriously don't understand who even thought of this in the first place, because I find it hard to understand why any woman would want to do that. I know I'd never do that - I don't really like my labia but then again I don't like my face and I'd never do anything to change that even though I do have the option.

    I think people who believe that porn is a good representation of sex are seriously deluded. It's just sad that people out there feel like they're not good enough and need to conform to something so silly.

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    KittyStar wrote:

    Madness!!! As if there aren't enough reasons for us ladies to be self conscious.

    Exactly!! xxx

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    Gentle giant wrote:

    Just how hung up are you lovely ladies abut this? I think it is a very modern thing that boys see in porn and the girls of today want to match it.

    And do you honestly think girls want to match it? Because I think its more to do with them thinking that that's what guys find attractive so they feel like they need to do it.

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    While I know that this procedure has given some women their confidence back (and therefore was the right choice for them) I think generally, the fact that this procedure even exists is just another example of how women are made to feel "imperfect" in their bodies.

    It could have a lot to do with what men and women see in porn, and that becoming "the norm"

    I remember chatting with a male friend once, who told me he ended it with a lass because her vagina looked like (And I quote.) "A badly wrapped kebab"

    What the actual fuck? Thing is, he is not the first guy I have heard similar from.

    Every vagina and labia is different (Just like every penis is) from the size of the clitoris, to the inner lips, the outter lips and the colour and it sickens me to think any woman is shamed or made to feel abnormal if she doesn't have the "perfect" vagina seen in porn.

    I also think it is getting ridiculous and that porn is setting examples many women cannot compete with. From pubic hair becoming a fetish or considered unhygienic or not nice to look at, to the shape and size of her lips, to wondering why they (or their girlfriends) cannot have a screaming orgasm within 10 seconds of penetration.

    As with any plastic surgery, I feel it is done to give confidence to the person, so they feel attractive. In one sense, I think people should have that choice. It is their right to do what makes them happy, but in another sense I think it is just disgusting that they have had their confidence ripped that low in the first place, by media, partners, friends, or themselves, to believe they need to change something that is beautiful just as it bloody well is, because as far as I can tell, beauty is unique to each and every person. Beauty is in the imperfect. The imperfect is perfect because it is imperfect. If we all became clones of what is considered "The perfect" thing...how boring would that be.

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    I have fake boobs and I love them but I would never have labia surgery.
    I have a " meaty kebab" as my Oh calls it, but I would never get a designer labia!

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    I hate how I look there but I wouldn't even consider surgery. I've technically had plastic surgery as a child for medical reasons and I always swore I wouldn't get cosmetic surgery for vanity reasons. I mustn't break my word to myself. Besides, if I was with some guy and he had a problem with it, he's not worth it. No guy is worth putting myself through voluntary pain.

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    I was the exact same as k&c I cried to my boyfriend because I didn't wanna do anything because I was super paranoid about it! But 4 years down the line were still together and he loves every inch of my body (don't mean that to sound big headed). This just puts SO much pressure on females.

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    I don't personally have any hang ups about this area of my body but i suppose like anything if there is a perceived idea of what looks good there will always be people who are made to feel badly and for alot of people, wanting to change will come from wanting to be accepted by potential partners because they believe that's what's attractive rather than actually wanting to alter their bodies.

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    I love all the variation. Everyone I have come across has been very inviting indeed. Think it's a pointless surgery. Bloody cosmetic surgeons just invent stuff to get the money rolling in. Stick to the dogs in a bag.

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    Like missChar I'm also very small down there and pretty much everywhere else lol but I've also only ever receive compliments about it.

    But I must say I'm one of them people who have no hung ups about my body if you don't like it don't look. That's what I say. :)

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    I'm sure I have seen it on tv and basically it's like cutting rind off bacon. Cross ur legs and wince.

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    PinkPolkaDot wrote:

    Gentle giant wrote:

    Just how hung up are you lovely ladies abut this? I think it is a very modern thing that boys see in porn and the girls of today want to match it.

    And do you honestly think girls want to match it? Because I think its more to do with them thinking that that's what guys find attractive so they feel like they need to do it.

    I agree totally, Iam worried that young ladies do it for that reason. Before they have even had a chance to get any experience or body confidence. I hate the idea that some 1 would self mutilate really for what they feel other people like. First of all if you love some one this has very little to do with how you feel about them. Secondly Iam a firm believer that their is someone for everyone. I actually like larger lips, When the lady is turned on, they open like a flower and you can see and feel how excited you are making them. I just hope that they get a lot of counciling before making this choice.

    There will allways be be some one that will really need medical intervention, But it is rare that this is the case. I wish all women could just love there bodies as they are.

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    Stuburns wrote:

    I'm sure I have seen it on tv and basically it's like cutting rind off bacon. Cross ur legs and wince.

    Why, why would you even say that. I just had bacon and you almost made me throw it back up.

    I don't know how true this is because I obviously am not a man and don't have a penis but don't bigger lips feel nice cos they 'hug' the penis if that makes sense? That's kind of what I imagine anyway. And the whole breaking up with someone because of the appearance of their genitals? That's just immature and shallow, and it goes both ways.

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    The only reason why I would be considering something like this is if they could restore my bits to be as they were before giving birth. And, no, I am not referring to the tightness. I am referring to the stitches I had and the fact that I don't feel like myself anymore down there. But I have my doubts about it - I am not sure that they could remove the scars and restore it to the way it was.

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    Stuburns [sign in to see picture]
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    Sorry pink.
    Wouldn't say they hug the penis but it's nice rubbing the penis and then spreading them open. I especially love sucking them and licking. They are just lovely and so individual. It's very hard to explain why I like them but I like all of them. Whatever shape and size. You could line ten women up and then mix them up and I could probably then identify the woman from her bits.

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