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    MissPinky13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Am starting to have a low libido which is getting me upset!! Any suggestion on how I can bring this back please help.

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    blonde vixen13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Why is it low? Are you unhappy in your relationship? Have you started new medication or contraceptives? Are you depressed? Are you worried about money or work.
    In my opinion you got to work out why your libdo is low before you can try fix it.
    For me reading erotic books always helps. Then a new haircut and new undies makes me feel better about myself and more confident in bed x

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    trailerguy61 [sign in to see picture]
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    How young/old are you ballpark ?

    "Getting" low libido whilst not in a relationship could have any one of a number of reasons behind it, tiredness, stress, being insecure theres no-one special, even just basic medication you may be on.

    As naughty nurse said and she`s a 1314 post vet, think about reasons why, grab a book, even watch some soft porn, lots of books and theories centre on a very high % of sex as being in or coming from the brain lol.

    Youve just recently got yourself a new toy, where does "getting a low libido" fit in with getting a new toy ? lol, have some fun with yourself, lots of women have a foto-shoot as a confidence booster.

    Your brief profile is upbeat enough and you put yourself over as a fun confident person.

    Go get the new hairstyle and undies that NN85 recommends, treat yourself, give your self esteem a boost and it`ll drag your seemingly lowering libido up with it to a place and point where your your happy self again.

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    MissPinky13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the comments. I have a women problem that effects my libido so sometimes it high and low. Am not on any medication, dont feel depressed ect. Am buying sex toys so when I start a new relationship it be spicy lol. Thanks again

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    MissPinky13 [sign in to see picture]
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    I went through a period like that. I did watch some porn which helped. I have started a new relationship and its coming back slowly with the right fore play lol

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    MissPinky13 [sign in to see picture]
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    Lol I replied to my own post.

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    RosyCheek [sign in to see picture]
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    My libido was low after my first child, the only way to get it higher was to have sex. I thought it was ridiculous but it did work.

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    You might find with your new realtionship kissing and cuddling may help as it helps to stoke the fire so to speak . Perhaps plan a nice romantic evening .

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    MissPinky13 wrote:

    Lol I replied to my own post.

    This just made my day. x

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    I found that using my Kegal balls helped with my size drive :) whenever i wore them they made me horny :)

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    Sxleksaker [sign in to see picture]
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    KitsiKiki, I also thought it was super cute lol

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    I find going to hot yoga and working out helps my sex drive.

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    Vanessa8 wrote:

    I find going to hot yoga and working out helps my sex drive.

    Just curious what is "Hot Yoga" ?

    Thanks

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    Aw bless replying to your own post 🙈

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    mysteron wrote:

    Vanessa8 wrote:

    I find going to hot yoga and working out helps my sex drive.

    Just curious what is "Hot Yoga" ?

    Thanks

    Hot yoga is normal yoga done in a room that is considerably hotter than normal so that you burn more calories, I'm not sure as to exact temps though!

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    mysteron [sign in to see picture]
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    Gem276 wrote:

    mysteron wrote:

    Vanessa8 wrote:

    I find going to hot yoga and working out helps my sex drive.

    Just curious what is "Hot Yoga" ?

    Thanks

    Hot yoga is normal yoga done in a room that is considerably hotter than normal so that you turn more calories, I'm not sure as to exact temps though!

    Thanks. I wasn 't sure which type of hot it was .

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