• Squirting advice plz

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    Fluffbags [sign in to see picture]
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    Other tips:

    make sure she is hydrated. This can seriously effect the amount of liquid expelled. I notice this when I am dehydrated its a trickle.

    Empty her bladder before play so it doesn't feel like she will pee as well. Although that sensation is kind of normal with g-spot play

    Some women like vibrations but a lot of us need short sharp fast hard jiggling thrusts against the g-spot. try both and see what works

    Try it in the bath or shower first so that she can allow herself to "let go"

    Expect a little pee to be released occasionally esp if she starts getting a full bladder. It happens, and as she learns the sensations, you can start to differentiate between the slight difference between "Oh I just squirted" and "oops I think I peed a little" Put a towel down and do not worry one little bit about it. The pleasure is worth it!

    For me, when I reach "that point" when I know the intensity is at it's peak and I am there, i get a slight urge to bear down. In a similar way to peeing but also it is not the same. It is like I want to push out the toy or fingers inside my vagina. When I allow this sensation to happen and allow myself to push at the toy or fingers, that is when I ejaculate the liquid. This sensation starts to just take over, oh this is so hard to explain but what I am trying to say is to tell her to listen to what her body is saying and allow the feelings to come without trying to stop them or hold them back.

    Try curved toys. I mainly use dildos. Vibrations are nice but won't make me squirt on their own. I jiggle the toy against the spot and curved toys just work so much better for me. I advise trying a curved toy. Nothing too fat or thick. Slimline is fine because this is not about filling her but hitting a spot inside her. Although, again, some ladies prefer thick. It is about finding your preference. Thinner toys may allow her to squirt even with the toy still inside as it doesnt "block" it so much (Like with fingers)

    You may have to be "rougher" than you think. If you have watched it in porn, you will probably get an idea of the kind of short sharp fast stimulation that works for most ladies but again, find her preferred method.

    When she gets to that "Oooh i feel like I want to push the toy out" feeling. Remove the toy quickly. In my experience I can still have g-spor orgasm or the same sensations over and over with the toy always inside me but there is not usually much, or any liquid expelled until the toy is outside of my body. I put this down to the toy "blocking" the urethra or something, stopping the "squirting" effect, although it can trickle out this way almost un-noticed until you check the bed after! lol

    So whats it all about? Giving her some fast jiggling, shallow thrusting, speedy action and then timing your removal of the toy from her vagina at the exact moment that she is peaking and feeling the pressure built up to that point where she is tensing and bearing down. As she begins to sense that moment she can start to tell you. Otherwise, she can still experience those sensations only without the liquid.

    Please let us know how it goes!

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    hi PPD and others squirting isn't the be all and end all . Just enjoy and if it happens great but not all women orgasm let a loan squirt so go with the flow there's no hard and fast road to squirting enjoy SEX and maybe relaxed and horny you might just have that lovely deep wet feeling and enjoy a good hard orgasm that could result in squirting. Happy trying no pressures enjoy good sex

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    scotman wrote:

    hi PPD and others squirting isn't the be all and end all . Just enjoy and if it happens great but not all women orgasm let a loan squirt so go with the flow there's no hard and fast road to squirting enjoy SEX and maybe relaxed and horny you might just have that lovely deep wet feeling and enjoy a good hard orgasm that could result in squirting. Happy trying no pressures enjoy good sex

    Teehee....I think he is trying to go with the fl......

    Nevermind :P

    Scotman is right though. Like with anything sexual, not all women like it or can orgasm that way.

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    Yep the "need to pee" sensation is squirting. Ive actually wrote something about it before but if you both want to experiment together. She needs to be totally relaxed, communications is key, so asking how it feels (some women's g-spots are more sensative than others) and working up till shes very aroused.

    If you already know where the g-spot is you need to be slowly stroking the area until it becomes enlarged (its about 2inches in, think directly behind the clitorus and spongey) and depending on how sensative she is clitoral stimulating too. You want to start off slow (aim for two fingers with the "come hither stroke" and with your thumb stimulating the clit) and end with a sort of pumping action, you can go as far as to massage the area where the urethra is (where shell squirt from) and this will help override that feeling of her needing to pee. Just remind her to relax! let go..

    Toys im a bit meh on, im fortunate (i say this :() as i can squirt/gush even without stimulation if i get extremely horny. Be careful once you unleash it you'll need laundry doing every morning but just practice, its amazing fun x

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    What positions do you find is best for squirting? L always has a massive gspot orgasm when we do doggy or i use toys on her in that position. She stops me some times as she says it feels like she's going to explode. Does it sound like she might squirt if she let herself explode?

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    We find that if my oh sits/lays down and I straddle him just using his fingers in a come here movement he can get me to squirt ,being relaxed and horny also help ,it's taken us some practicing to do this so keep trying xx

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    Im not a big squirter in doggy position but if he feels that push or need to wee sensation then shes deffinitely on the right track, you just kinda need to keep going and relax into it.

    Like Angeldelight said, if you want something other than missionary stradling someone who is sitting or laying down is really good for me or try both kneeling chest to chest kissing makes me go weak at the knees lol. x

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    I recommend this toy to squirt omg works wonders - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=24235

    Read the review Tturtle wrote so bloody true its unreal

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    My hubby makes me squirt everytime to the point I have to put 2 towels down he loves it :)

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    So much of squirting is in the mind. Mrs Hugh squirted a couple of times when we first met but then really struggled to be confident enough to just let it go. She always stopped at the crucial moment,scared of being out of control.
    I got her the lh g spot rabbit and had her tied to the bed so she couldn't stop me.
    I was sat upright between her legs and she squirted so far it hit me in the face.!!!
    Once she realised I loved it she relaxed a bit more about it she gets there more often.
    Its still easier for her to to it when she controls the toy though. I suppose coz she can feel it build and act on it.

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    Yes man wrote:

    Heavens Poison wrote:

    At first it felt weird ,i held back id stop play time,as i felt like i needed to wet myself ,and that put me off, because im like laying back thinking ,oh no no stop im going to wet myself how embarrasing, so i would move positions and stop what i was doing or what my oh was doing, it really helps to relax and just chill, my main thing that always stopped me relaxing, was the dreaded im going to wet myself its a no what will my oh say,but last week i was tied up and couldnt move, i had no other option but just to let it go and well it did and it was so weird and yet so nice i was sat in a puddle and it was warm and nice and didnt smell like wee and after investigation it was not wee lol i had squirted and im addicted to it now i love the feeling and the sitting in the puddle but i just cant relax enough to do it again grrrr

    once you get over the im going to wet myself thats when you can enjoy squirting :) i know i do now

    Thanks HP Babe, think thats gonna be the challenge to get her to relax, like you say if it feels wrong you tense up and thats exactly what she does, :-x

    i thought i couldnt either i used love honey bullet to stimulate the clit during sex with my partner and after a few minutes i started to get that feeling i just relaxed and carried on and i gradually just squirted

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    I find clit stimulation helps me squirt I squirt everytime i have an orgasam which is alot...keeping hydrated is definitely important.

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