• edging the OH, what would you do?

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    bumblebee [sign in to see picture]
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    do you write erotica? I kow you're telling us stories of what you've been up to, but there's definitely something in the way you write

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    bumblebee wrote:

    do you write erotica? I kow you're telling us stories of what you've been up to, but there's definitely something in the way you write

    Haha thank you, no i dont write it. However i will confess to reading a lot. I will also admit that i do really enjoy sharing details about what me and the OH get up to. Makes me feel naughty. I loved writting that post last night and recalling all the details. To me i enjoyed writting that post much more than watching any porn or anything like that. Does that make me strange?

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    no, i totally understand that. i suppose writing it, reading it back the same way others would it's real life erotica, that you get to live!!!! smexy!!

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    Watersports is hot in my opinion. We use it in a similar theme as you, more desperation play we enjoy, maybe in the same way we enjoy the desperation of edging! We are all looking forward to hearing his revenge! :D

    PS: You say you felt bad for ruining his O....I think you played it perfectly..I especially love that he was shouting at you to end his frustration in the end. That would of made me grin. :D Plus, you clearly didn't ruin anything judging by the way he pounced on you when you let him free. :D It sounded perfect to me. At least he got an O in the end. I am sometimes way meaner.

    I saw a video once of a lady even meaner who denied her chaste guy for over a month then promised him release. She freed him of chastity after the month, rubbed numbing cream onto his penis, applied a few condoms and gave him one minute (A second for every day he was locked up or something) to have sex with his mastubation toy. She taunted and counted him down the whle time he was trying desperately for release but just...couldn.t....

    He got locked back up without an O lol!

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    Thanks for understanding. Its strange, i would never consider doing porn and i dont even like watching videos of myself. Oh once recorded a few of our sessions which he then suggested we watch back. I couldnt stand watching it haha. Deleted them asap.

    However i do enjoy reliving the moment when i write about what we have been up to. I find it always gets me a bit excited. I also like to think about all of you out their knowing all me and my OH dirty secrets and kinks, meanwhile your never able to put a face to the profile name. I would never dream of telling someone about what me and the OH do in person. Not even my best friend.

    I suppose if i had the time i might consider writting erotica however dont think that is going to happen anytime soon.

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    Fluffbags wrote:

    Watersports is hot in my opinion. We use it in a similar theme as you, more desperation play we enjoy, maybe in the same way we enjoy the desperation of edging! We are all looking forward to hearing his revenge! :D

    PS: You say you felt bad for ruining his O....I think you played it perfectly..I especially love that he was shouting at you to end his frustration in the end. That would of made me grin. :D Plus, you clearly didn't ruin anything judging by the way he pounced on you when you let him free. :D It sounded perfect to me. At least he got an O in the end. I am sometimes way meaner.

    I saw a video once of a lady even meaner who denied her chaste guy for over a month then promised him release. She freed him of chastity after the month, rubbed numbing cream onto his penis, applied a few condoms and gave him one minute (A second for every day he was locked up or something) to have sex with his mastubation toy. She taunted and counted him down the whle time he was trying desperately for release but just...couldn.t....

    He got locked back up without an O lol!

    wow that is just so mean. I dont think i could ever do that to my OH. Although that said, i dont think i could go the 30 days without sex myself, it would be tourture for me too.

    I must admit at the time i was worried he would be a bit annoyed that i spoiled it for him at the end. But like you say he was begging for it and got his orgasm. Im so glad that i left him for a while before i let him free. Gave him time to get ready and recover for when i returned. To me that was my fav part as i really was not expecting it at all. Hence why i was fully dressed. Got to love it.

    We have tried desperation play a few times now and love it. I have posted a few times about it. He enjoys watching me loose control. Funny though, i have never asked him to be the one doing the wetting in desperation though.

    As for his revenge, well sadly i am now locked into a chastity belt. While i have a key for emerganices, i have sworn not to release myself until he lets me. I have a feeling he might be keeping me in it for a while as payback hehe. Will be interesting to see what he does tonight when he comes home from work.

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    Yeh that was one of the meaner ideas I have seen for Tease and denial. (I have so many ideas but I just gave the tease and denial lite version in my initial response here) I don't think I could make him go a month either and I would probably be going nuts if he made me, but we are not into the huge wait times. I, like you, can't resist after a while :D

    You definitely should consider writing erotica if that is something you like to do, there is a forum section here specifically for people to tell their stories and it doesnt have to be fiction. You tell it well and clearly enjoy the thrill of peope faceless, to retell your story and get enjoyment from it.

    I know I shouldn't say this but now I am rooting for your guy to drive you nuts (That be the sadist in me) after your ultimate tease of him...he deserves revenge now teehee....have fun and let us know! :D

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    I'll have to show this thread to my other half. I would love her to try this sort of stuff. She likes to play but lacks confidence doing it and runs out of ideas very quickly. Hopefully this will change that...

    On a related note, anybody have any tips they'd like to share for teasing a woman. OH is starting the get used to what I am doing and want to suprise her with some new ideas. Any ideas appreciated.

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    Fluffbags wrote:

    Yeh that was one of the meaner ideas I have seen for Tease and denial. (I have so many ideas but I just gave the tease and denial lite version in my initial response here) I don't think I could make him go a month either and I would probably be going nuts if he made me, but we are not into the huge wait times. I, like you, can't resist after a while :D

    You definitely should consider writing erotica if that is something you like to do, there is a forum section here specifically for people to tell their stories and it doesnt have to be fiction. You tell it well and clearly enjoy the thrill of peope faceless, to retell your story and get enjoyment from it.

    I know I shouldn't say this but now I am rooting for your guy to drive you nuts (That be the sadist in me) after your ultimate tease of him...he deserves revenge now teehee....have fun and let us know! :D

    me too! i must admit, i've though of a couple of things i hope he does..... just so i can read about it lol

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    Wow you dwf sound like you had fun :-)
    What chasitity belt do you use? Are there different types?

    I tried edging my husband last night, we lasted just short of 2 hours and it was a lot of fun, I have been in control before in a very domineering spanking way, but last night I took the slow softly gentle way, and I really enjoyed it :-)

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    HI all sorry for the delay in reply. Been a busy few days. Hope that i have inspired some of you. Glad you had a good time Jamiebec2000

    So since my amazing edging session with the OH last tuesday, i have spent the entire time since in my chastity belt. I have worn it 24/7 under my normal clothes. Im now craving sex and my oh knows it haha. This is his way of getting back at me. I got to admit though, i do really love the feeling of being horny all the time and not being able to do anything about it. I think he is also getting a massive kick out it. Esp when we are out in public.

    I must admit, i dont think i would be so horny if it wasnt for him constantly teasing me haha. So far i have given him oral a number of times, as well as letting him play with my boobies. So far every night (and a few times in the day) he has asked me to please him, with no release for myself. He has also got me back for the pee play by locking me in my jeans (using a chain and padlock instead of a belt) and watching as i get more and more desperate...until, you can guess the rest. So far he has done this to me twice. One of those times being right now. It is quite kinky thinking that i have no contol. Not sure how long i will hold out today hehe.

    Im loving it really though (and i got to be honest despite it all, i havent seriously thought of using my key once yet). Not quite sure how long he is going to keep it up, part of me wants it to be over. However more of me is enjoying the loss of control. :)

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    sounds wicked enjoy it

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    Great story kitty sounded amazingly naughty, you total deviant im jealous.

    Also fab advice Fluffbags im seriously going to be pinching some of it for Mistress play with my husband as im a little nervous being more of a sub. You really need to write a book or even better a thread for me! hehe x

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    Bad Kitty Uk has he got his revenge on you yet ?

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    I love edging. When working away My OH starts sexting about todays before I get home. It is very close to fluffbags. When we get down to it I musnt move or come untill Iam told I can. My other OH likes to get between my legs on the bed and using two cock rings draw my foreskin right back trap it down with 1 cock ring.Then my balls with the other I have never made an hour yet.

    She will only use my precum and wipes on my bell end and gentlly rubs the rim with just 1 finger. she will prob the opening with her little finger to get more precum out. By now its starting to ooze out anyway. No pumping just talking and slow 1 finger rubbing and wiping.

    When she starts to ramp it up she starts to tug my balls. By know iam spinning. some time it pumps out others it's running out, its amazing.

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    Wow what a great thread this is. We also need ideas to tease/edge a woman of course. Few of mine:
    Oral play. First get her going and when she has edged a few times just go really slow so that she just does not go over the edge. Same can be done with your hand or a vibrator on a extremely low speed.

    Massage her front with massage oil. Gets things very smooth and her breasts stimulated. This wont make her cum but stimulates many body parts.

    Put items ready for her at the door of the bathroom when she is showering or in bath. When she gets out she sees lingerie, cuffs, blindfold, dildo or vibrator and her mind starts considering what you could have planned. Instruct her to put everything on before she enters the bedroom.

    Of course use under bed restraimts when teasing...

    Get in 69 and tell her that she has to hold your member still while you tease her. Or instruct her to work on you when she is close and you have to stop as a signal that she is close

    Multitask: tongue on clit and finger her or use a dildo. Vibrator on clit when doing her. Endless posibilities

    Now lets hear some of your tricks!

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    This has been an amazing read! Thanks Bad Kitty and Fluffbags- you've given me sooo many ideas! My man is away right now but I'm inspired to write a filthy email on edging now (we've kind of done it before but not to this extent)

    And I can't wait to try some of this stuff out! Watersports are not my thing- but each to their own (and it's still interesting to learn)!

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    Reading this thread and mysteriously my cock has ended up in my hand

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