• edging the OH, what would you do?

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    Bad Kitty uk [sign in to see picture]
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    Thank you so much Fluff bags. That really is some amazing advise, wouldnt have been able to think of all that on my own. You have given me some great ideas. I must have read your post 4 or 5 times trying to memorise and learn all your techniques. I really cant wait to meet up with my OH later tonight/tomorrow so we can start our edging session.

    All sounds so amazing i want to try it all.

    xx

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    I bet you cant you bad kitty lol!

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    Hey Lee. Got your email.

    probably the best way to start it is exactly as described by Misschar. Teasing, make a game of it or turn it into a challenge, so some ideas would be to do what you usually do and when she gets close, stop and say "Not yet, I am enjoying this too much for it to be over" or in reverse, if she is playing with you, tell her to stop and if she asks why just say you don't want it to be over so soon because it feels so amazing. I personally find orgasms are more intense when you have edged a few times anyway, so when you do allow her to cum she will see the benefits of the fun to be had and likewise, when she makes you cum, ensure you RAVE about how intense that felt due to her edging you beforehand and how you would love to do that again and again!

    If you are more bold you can just say to her that you love love love being teased and would very much like her to not allow you to cum straight away because this makes everything feel so much more intense. Or ask her if she likes being teased and would she like to play (One of the many listed) ideas from this thread.

    Some people hate being edged. It isn't a turn on for them and more of a negative frustration rather than a good frustration.

    Hope this helps

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    LeeP2345 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yes it does, many thanks for that hun. I will let you all know how it goes!

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    Great! good luck to you and I hope it works out well. Edging is amaaaazinggg! lol xxx

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    Im sure it is! Especially when administered by u!

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    ooohh loving this thread I love being edge even if i get bratty waiting to be able to cum

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    actual sex was like this last night lol. pissed me off that my stupid body wouldn't just let go, but now i'm looking forward to trying edging!!!! weird!

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    That sounds awesome, although I think I have a little way to go with my OH before we can do this!

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    Edging your partner is really fun so I can see why he'd want to be on the receiving end for once!

    Everything Fluffbags said was super hot so you should totally go with that!!

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    really glad that this thread is getting lots of interest. Its really provided me with some great advice which i tired out yesterday. I can 100% say that my OH loved me edging him. With the advise given to me on this thread i was able to edge him for ages which was amazing. Made a really nice change from him edging me.

    Now i will share with you how i edged my oh, however as i said lots of it is based on what fluffbags posted. (sorry for poor typing, currently writting this on tablet with touch screen):

    So all started off well. I put our black pvc/latex sheet down on the bed along with a few pillows and got the restraints ready (ankle and wrist restraints attached to each corner of the metal bed frame). the floor was also covered in a waterproof sheet. I then got dressed into my latex catsuit and called the OH up to the bedroom where i instructed him to strip down and lie down where locked him in place. After telling him that i was going to edge him for hours for being a naughty boy, and double checking our safe word, i started my evil plan.

    1.First up was some light teasing with my riding crop running it up and down his body.

    2. I then started exploring his body with my hands wearing my latex gloves slowly running my hands up and down body exploring his private parts, gently pushing my finger in his anus and his mouth.

    3. I then straddled him and started licking, kissing, and grinding on top of him. Still dressed in my catsuit i was able to rub my covered pussy against his cock .After making sure he was suitably hard i moved down and had a few quick licks of his shaft before moving off.

    4. Next i turned our TV on and went to one of our fav porn sites selecting a nice long video. I also got out a few of my sex toys, rabbits, dildos, butt plugs etc which i placed around my OH on the bed. I walked out of the room for a bit and then came back 30 minutes later to watch my OH fixating on the porn. I stripped down naked infront of him and watched him, watch me hehe

    5. I then muted the porn and asked him which of my toys off the bed he wanted me to use on myself. Supprise supprise he picked the biggest butt plug and my rabbit. So picking up some lube i straddled him again just over his chest. I then started playing with the toys and made him watch as i brought myself to orgasm and rubbed my wet pussy on his chest. He was now begging me to let him have some action.

    6. I decided to give him a reward and let him finger my wet pussy for a bit which drove him mad esp as he was still restrained so could only just move his fingers a bit. After about 5 minutes i then decided it was time to step it up a bit. I took some of fluffbags advice and placed my OH's car keys, wallet and phone just at the base of his cock so that if he did cum then it would cause a lot of mess. I then teased his cock with one of my bullets for a bit until i could tell by the look on his face that he was just about to loose it. so i slapped his cock making him groan and cry out. As he was good though and didnt cum i decided that i would remove his keys, wallet, and phone off the bed.

    7. So i walked away from him again leaving him as close to the edge of orgasm as possible. I also turned the porn back up .

    8. So another 20 minutes went by before i returned to see him still hard watching the porn. I was very happy to see this as i was worried he might have lost interest haha. The next part i loved. I went right up to him and wispered into his ear "im so thirsty, i think i need a drink". He knew what i was planning. He watched as i walked out of the room again and returned with 2x3 litre bottles of water. I sat on the edge of the bed and he watched closly as i quickly drank as much of the water as i could. I also intentionally spilled alot over my chest and down my body onto the bed. After drinking all the water i knew it wouldnt be long until i lost control, my oh knew it too.

    9. I then got up off the bed and went over to my dresser where i pulled out this http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13529 I placed it in his mouth and rubbed some lube on the cock. I then started to give the cock a bj while looking direct into my OH eyes. I could already start to feel the pressure building up in my bladder. Anyway after a few minutes i straddled the cock and let my oh push the cock into my pussy as i pushed myself down. As he pushed the cock in and out i talked dirty to him telling him i was so close to loosing control and that i was going to cover him with my pee.

    10. After a while of ridding the cock i started to let the pee slip out and run down the cock onto his face. As i moved of the cock gag move of my pee leaked out and went all over his chest. I moved down to his real cock lol. I hovered just above his cock and let all the pee run out over him. It didnt take long for the sheets to be very wet. And he loved it. He was thrusting his cock up trying to reach my pussy with no luck. He was really moaning as well.

    11. I then took the gag out and moved up ordering him to lick my pussy dry. Which he loved. I also let him try his best to get me orgasm. I could tell he was trying haha. This took quite a while i eventually helped him out using my fingers on my clit while he pushed his tounge inside me. After my orgasm i was very wet (didnt mangage to squit though) so i rubbed my pussy all over his face and slid down to his cock leaving a trail down his check. As you can imagine the pvc sheets we holding all my pee and we were both quite wet.

    12. I then spent the next 5 minutes teasing his cock with my mouth, just very lightly touching his cock with my tounge. He was so ready to explode.

    13. I then decided that it would be hot to lick and suck the pee off the sheets transfering it into his cock. This went on for a bit. He was now shouting for me to finish him.

    14. Now the next bit was very mean. I decided that i would finally reward him. But not until one final thing. I went into out dresser and pulled out a few condoms. One by one i put them over this cock, increasing the size of the condom until he had 5 or 6 extra large, extra thick condoms wrapped around his cock.

    I eventually gave in and started to push myself on to his rock hard cock covered in all the latex. It took about 15 minutes of me riding him until he told me he came. I couldnt even tell with all the condoms on. After he was finished i removed the condoms. On getting to the last condom i pulled it off and emptied the content onto his face smearing it all over and getting some into his mouth. finally i did a bit of name calling. making it clear how much he dissapointed me as i didnt orgasm during the sex at the end. (I loved it really).

    15. I left the room, had a shower and got changed. In an hours time i returned back to the room now fully dressed. I took a few dirty pics of him all chained down to the bed covered in my pee and with his own dried cum over his face. Well i decicded that enough was enough so i let him out of the restraints. Turned out this was my mistake, as soon as the last lock was undone he threw me (now fully dressed in jeans and a white tshirt) onto the bed. Within minutes he had my wet jeans off along with my panties and pushed his rock hard cock into me again. It felt amazing. He was very rough pushing my face down into my down pee while he did me from behind. I loved it and i knew it was all part of our role play (he later explained that he was worried this was too much and was waiting for me to say my safe word, i loved it however). Anyway this was amazing sex.

    Overall our edge play session was amazing. I loved taking charge and he loved me being keeping him on the edge. The finaly twist was the best part of it for me as i really was not expecting it. Thank you fluff bags again for your amazing advice which made last night so amazing for me and the OH. Loved every minute. Cant wait to do it again.

    Sorry for the long post. I dont want to brag. thats not my intention. i wanted to share my amazing experience with you all. Maybe someone else can learn from it. I dont think i will be edging the oh for a while now though as a couple of hours after our amazing session he locked me into my chastity belt. haha guess he wanted to be incharge again. Though i think we will def be trying edging again soon though.

    ps sorry for poor grammer/spelling, cant type on a touch screen tablet at all.

    thanks you all so so much for your advice

    xx

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    Oh you bad bad kitty!

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    Most of that sounds amazing, I wish my OH would be a lot more open to things like that!

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    Does not sound like bragging, I love the way you share all your xperiences! You are such a bad kitty! Lol glad you had fun! Xxx

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    That's so hot. All of it. Nearly had a handsfree just reading that!

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    Brag away girl! That sounded aaaamazing and I am so glad you both had an absolute blast. :D I loved your story, in fact, I have taken away some new tips myself...for later :D Thanks for sharing Kitty!

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    wow, go kitty :)

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    Thank you all for your kind words. Me and the OH had an amazing time, we both loved it. I will say that it took a bit of planning. I knew everything that i was going to do before we started. I must admit the planning was a bit stressful as i know i have a tendancy to be indecisive when put on the spot. However after the planning stage i really enjoyed the session and i know my OH did. Dont get me wrong, i want to try it again soon. That said, i am really looking forward to him going back to being in charge for a bit.

    Its funny im the more controlling one in day to day life. Anybody who goes against me is in for trouble lol, however something nice about being able to give up control in the bedroom from time to time.

    Overall though i loved the session and will definitely be edging him again in the future. I must admit i did feel really mean at the end when i ruined his release using the condoms haha, I also made sure that i took it slow so that they wouldnt come off inside me or anything like that. Also i know the watersports part wont be to everyones liking, however both me and the OH love it and have been doing it alot recently. I love the fact that me and him are so open when it comes to sex, we both have a lot of kinks and i know that we both love to please each other even if its not our favourite thing.

    One thing is for sure, he has sworn to make me pay hehe

    xx

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    Bad Kitty uk wrote:

    Thank you all for your kind words. Me and the OH had an amazing time, we both loved it. I will say that it took a bit of planning. I knew everything that i was going to do before we started. I must admit the planning was a bit stressful as i know i have a tendancy to be indecisive when put on the spot. However after the planning stage i really enjoyed the session and i know my OH did. Dont get me wrong, i want to try it again soon. That said, i am really looking forward to him going back to being in charge for a bit.

    Its funny im the more controlling one in day to day life. Anybody who goes against me is in for trouble lol, however something nice about being able to give up control in the bedroom from time to time.

    Overall though i loved the session and will definitely be edging him again in the future. I must admit i did feel really mean at the end when i ruined his release using the condoms haha, I also made sure that i took it slow so that they wouldnt come off inside me or anything like that. Also i know the watersports part wont be to everyones liking, however both me and the OH love it and have been doing it alot recently. I love the fact that me and him are so open when it comes to sex, we both have a lot of kinks and i know that we both love to please each other even if its not our favourite thing.

    One thing is for sure, he has sworn to make me pay hehe

    xx

    you'd better tell us about his revenge!!! :)

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    Fluffbags wrote:

    Brag away girl! That sounded aaaamazing and I am so glad you both had an absolute blast. :D I loved your story, in fact, I have taken away some new tips myself...for later :D Thanks for sharing Kitty!

    High praise, thank you very much. I must admit i took alot of my ideas from your post. That and some erotic literature i read to prepare

    xx

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