• edging the OH, what would you do?

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    Hi all, hope your all having a fantastic morning/afternoon/evening.

    Wondering if i could ask you all for your advice. The OH asked me today if we could carry out some edging this week. Basically orgasm denial. He has done this to me in the past plenty of times, however he suggested that he wants me to take a bit more control over him this week.

    He has agreed for me to tie him down/up in anyway i like, and wants me to really make him feel like he is going to explode. Now i have done this before in the past.However he is normally the one in control over me in these types of situations. I have no condfidence issues and love being in charge. Im just trying to think of ideas lol.

    We already own plenty of toys and bondage equipment. Im also thinking that it could be quite kinky to get you guys/girls on LH to decide what i do to him. Maybe pick up a new idea or two. Tell me what to do to him, and i will hehe

    I have never really tried edging him alot before, never for more than an hour or two, however he has edged me for hours (just over 5 or 6 if i recall). Now its my turn to get him back haha.

    I have a few involving some watersports, maybe some porn, and this bad boy which we own and love http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13529

    xx

    Ideas all? the more kinky the better. Time for revenge. Come on LH any good ideas i will steal and report back how they go!

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    he edged you for 5-6 hours, mannnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!

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    maybe i should have added that the edging me and the OH are talking about is orgasm denial. Basically how long can i hold him at the very point just before orgasm

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    bumblebee wrote:

    he edged you for 5-6 hours, mannnnnnnnnnnn!!!!!!!!!!!!

    lets put it this way, i was tied up for that long during which he made me watch porn, give him oral, and watch him play with himself including anal. I was also teased with my toys, his fingers and not to mention my wand.

    During our chastity play he has made me give him oral and watch him play solo a number of times during the week before he took the belt off me to give me some release.

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    wow..... just wow

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    bumblebee wrote:

    wow..... just wow

    thanks.. i think lol

    xx

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    spoonio wrote:

    wonder if there is a site that will have members looking for helpers lol

    what do you mean?

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    ah right lol, Im not looking for a dating site. im happy just me and my OH, i was just looking for some ideas and suggestions how to tease him.

    xx

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    I love edge play. We do it often. Theres lots of different ways to play :D I mostly play mean :D

    One of my favourite ways is to actually tell him he is allowed to cum, but at a cost. (Usually something mean) like telling him he can cum, but if he does you are not going to stop (Tie him down, he will squirm a lot after he has orgasmed and the next time you play like this he will be on a knife edge wanting to cum but not wanting that intense feeling when you won't stop lol)

    Dare him to cum. Every time he gets real close slow down to the most ridiculously slow speed (One finger rubbing somewhere other than the tip of his cock and urge him to cum from just that. As his orgasm fades mock him (Come on...I thought you wanted to cum? Tut)

    Another way is to give him what he wants, what builds him up and as he gets closer "accidently" lose all rhythm and end up drifting away from what was working ....Example: Get him close and then move down to lick his balls and look up all innocently and sweetly say "What? I thought you liked getting your balls licked"

    Another way (Lol this is mean but I have done it) Lay something on his pubes. (Your "favourite" knickers, his phone...anything that you insist does NOT get ruined, or something he would hate to get cum on) then play. Every time he gets close slow down, give him "The look" and say "I dare you" or "What do you think you are doing" or "Want to make a mess of XYZ reeeeally?" Also works well if you wrap your favourite "Do not ruin these" panties around his penis and use them to stroke him when he is close.

    Agree to play with him and when he gets close, stop, pull his pants back up and say you will play with him again when he decides to behave himself and have some self control. Keep that up until he is begging.

    Tell him he can cum but if he does he is pulling his pants straight back up and wearing the wet pants for the rest of the day.

    After you have edged him numerous times, get him close one last time, pull his pants back up, sit on him and ride him until he makes a mess. :D

    Make him masturbate for you and tell him if he holds it, you will do XY and Z to finish him. Then draw it out and tease the crap out of him for hours, letting him watch you do things, sitting on his face, porn, watch you orgasm etc.

    Tell him if he cums, it will be his last orgasm for a day/week/month

    Tell him he can cum....but only after (He does something humiliating) like begs you, kisses your feet...after he does it, tell him it wasn't good enough and he better try harder and make more effort and prove he wants this orgasm when you ask him again in...ooooh an hour? then continue to tease him :D

    Edge him lots and then tell him if he wants to finish he can hump the pillow. When he smirks give him the look that says "I am not joking" At some point, the pillow will look appealing.

    Edge together. Tell him he is not allowed to cum until you do. Mutually masturbate and edge yourself too. Watching you get close will push him so close and you watching him will do the same...the loser (Whoever cums first) has to do some forfeit, pre arranged, the meaner it is the harder you will both try not to cum first.

    Okay so all of these were more "mean" methods of denial, but you asked for kinky revenge and those are my methods. I guess this is our dynamic. I cannot think of any "nicer" ways other than what you are already doing, which is sexy too.

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    Another one for playing: This one may take a few times for him to get the hint but if and when he starts to cum....stop touching him. this one is super mean, he will have a ruined/missed orgasm. Tell him if he waits for you to give permission next time, that won't happen.

    Another slightly meaner one: Ask him to tell you to stop every time he is on the edge. Every time he says "stop" gently slap his penis, hard enough to be uncomfortable but obv don't break him or make it so he cannot stand it. Now he will be wanting to avoid the slaps, but you will be teasing him and he will be trying to avoid getting close enough to have to say stop, while at the same time wanting nothing more than to get close and cum.

    There are a few I have tried during sex too which were quite hot. Just tell him to stop when he is close (And for extra meanness, squeeze your pelvic floor muscles when he is :D) Anyway, sex ones:

    Tell him you have forgotten to take your pill or removed your coil and he is not allowed or you will get pregnant (Of course this one may be worth talking/dropping hints about before hand so he doesn't ACTUALLY think this is a risk.)

    If you like roleplay, it gets more interesting. Play the role of a naughty housewife who snuck out to meet her lover (Him) and refuse to allow him to cum inside you "In case your husband finds out later"

    Tease him for hours with your hands and mouth until he has edged numerous times, get him close again and unexpectedly straddle him. Just stare at him with a challenging look on your face and smirk, while saying "Nope, dont even think about it" while you lower onto him. hehehe

    Okay I am going to stop now. Too much text lol xxx Have fun and enjoy being sadistic. It is great :D

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    that is hot!!

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    Oh my god! Those are so hot fluffbags. I can only wish that my OH would do anything at all like this to me. It is pretty simple in our bedroom unfortunately :(. I would love to try so many things but I just don't know where to begin!?

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    Yes fluff bags! So hot. I will definitely be sharing your examples with my oh xx

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    I am sure you will MissChar - how hot is that really!? Sounds stunning (like you)!

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    Haha thank you! Does indeed sound incredible, can't wait to try it out! X

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    I wish I could try it out - was your OH straight up for this?

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    LeeP2345 wrote:

    I wish I could try it out - was your OH straight up for this?

    He's deployed until the end of next month but he will be lol. He often edges me, I have edged him a little bit but not so much, we'd use those examples probably on both of us :) we love a good tease x

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    Oh sounds amazing, getting me excited at work thinking about it. I just need to convince my OH now, any ideas?

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    Ummm just trying to think how we did it... Maybe start by teasing your Oh in a really sensual and romantic way. Then get oh to do it to you.. That's how we did it anyway, then just stepped it up a notch really! But we're on a very similar sexual wavelength lol. We didn't talk about 'do you want to try edging ' etc I think that's more intimidating, to me anyway. We just gently teased and both liked it...and just kept going :) x sorry don't know if that's helpful lol x

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    yeah that helps quite a bit actually thank you. I hope it works, I have so many other things I would love to try and in particular the bit about having her panties around my cock would be incredible, that would take a lot of effort not to cum lol!!!!

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