• Question about the anal eaze?

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    thecrazycouple<3 [sign in to see picture]
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    Basically just wondering what size tube people would recommend?

    My boyfriend LOVES anal apparently but I'm borderline as everytime we've tried I pull away .. I think if I was able to we'd enjoy it but unsure of what size tube aha the 14ml or 44ml?

    Which would people go for?

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    The big one!!

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    Despina Rose [sign in to see picture]
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    Honestly I wouldn't go for any. The body is designed to react to pain and discomfort, if you block that you could end up tearing etc. Instead I would suggest taking things very slowly, using an anal lubricant http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/anal-lubes/ and try warming up with an anal toy first http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/
    You could try a small anal toy then a medium one before going on to sex or one the same size as your boyfriends penis.

    These two are on deal at the moment http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16749 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27149

    Sometimes people just don't like anal sex, it can be very pleasurable but it's not to everyones tastes.

    Good luck.

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    thecrazycouple<3 [sign in to see picture]
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    See I think I'll enjoy it it's just getting to that stage cause I always think how will he fit there .. we have a plug in the post we are going to try, and we'll see how that goes :)

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    Despina Rose wrote:

    Honestly I wouldn't go for any. The body is designed to react to pain and discomfort, if you block that you could end up tearing etc. Instead I would suggest taking things very slowly, using an anal lubricant http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/anal-lubes/ and try warming up with an anal toy first http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/
    You could try a small anal toy then a medium one before going on to sex or one the same size as your boyfriends penis.

    These two are on deal at the moment http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16749 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27149

    Sometimes people just don't like anal sex, it can be very pleasurable but it's not to everyones tastes.

    Good luck.

    ^^ This ^^

    I wouldn't use it either just take it very slowly, start with a very small toy and work up. Use lots and lots of lube. If it hurts do not pull out. stop wait for the pain to pass and then withdraw.

    For anal sex pick a postion that gives you control.

    If you do not want to do it do not let him pressure you at all, not everyone will enjoy it and he should respect you enough to no push you past your limits.

    xGGx

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    thecrazycouple<3 [sign in to see picture]
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    ghostgirl wrote:

    Despina Rose wrote:

    Honestly I wouldn't go for any. The body is designed to react to pain and discomfort, if you block that you could end up tearing etc. Instead I would suggest taking things very slowly, using an anal lubricant http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/anal-lubes/ and try warming up with an anal toy first http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/
    You could try a small anal toy then a medium one before going on to sex or one the same size as your boyfriends penis.

    These two are on deal at the moment http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16749 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27149

    Sometimes people just don't like anal sex, it can be very pleasurable but it's not to everyones tastes.

    Good luck.

    ^^ This ^^

    I wouldn't use it either just take it very slowly, start with a very small toy and work up. Use lots and lots of lube. If it hurts do not pull out. stop wait for the pain to pass and then withdraw.

    For anal sex pick a postion that gives you control.

    If you do not want to do it do not let him pressure you at all, not everyone will enjoy it and he should respect you enough to no push you past your limits.

    xGGx

    maybe I wrote it wrong lol - all the times we've tried it I panic, but I want to do it, so it isn't him pressuring me it's me panicking. but thanks for the tips on how to get us started as I'm near enough clueless :)

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    Despina Rose wrote:

    Honestly I wouldn't go for any. The body is designed to react to pain and discomfort, if you block that you could end up tearing etc. Instead I would suggest taking things very slowly, using an anal lubricant http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex/lubricants/anal-lubes/ and try warming up with an anal toy first http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/
    You could try a small anal toy then a medium one before going on to sex or one the same size as your boyfriends penis.

    These two are on deal at the moment http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16749 http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=27149

    Sometimes people just don't like anal sex, it can be very pleasurable but it's not to everyones tastes.

    Good luck.

    Perfect advice! I don't think it would help anyway if your problems are not related to pain but rather pulling away in panic. I think follow Despinas advice and take it reeeeally slow and use normal anal lube.

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    trailerguy61 [sign in to see picture]
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    Any product that desensitizes or kind of numbs the area shouldnt be used since this can lead to all kinds of problems, not the least tearing anal tissue when because you cant really feel anything he thinks its ok to go gung ho.

    Take your time, try different types and makes of lube, what suits one may not suit the other.

    Make and keep facial contact, an ex always enjoyed anal more when she was on her back,(as much as anything because when she`d done anal before her then partner had liked it more done doggy style and wasnt the best or most sensitive lover she`d ever had) her ass just off the edge of the mattress, legs high and wide and would maintain eye contact, tell me it was ok to initiate anal, when to gently push, when to stop, and ultimately once fully inside when she felt comfortable with movement to the point she was comfortable doing it more or less as if we were having vaginal sex she`d say so, Irrespective of her having done anal and enjoyed it she still waited over 3 months to broach the subject and when we got to savour it it could take anything up to 5 minutes or so of slow, gentle but deliberate movement, stopping, resting, starting again to achieve full penetration and always, always with copious amounts of lubrication.

    Have fun, try not to stress out, its a fun and incredibly intimately enjoyable thing to share and achieve when done sensitively and as the saying goes, practice makes perfect lol.

    It`s about communication and the trust and enjoyment that it brings. Anal orgasms as you may or might read can be very intense and very enjoyable for you both.

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    thecrazycouple<3 [sign in to see picture]
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    aha thanks we managed it anyway (without the use of this but tonnes of lube!) and I'm now not afraid lol thanks though :)

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