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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    Can too much masterbation cause a lose of sensation and make it harder to become aroused?

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    i bloody hope not for my own sake :/

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    It shouldn't do, but then it depends on what you judge as 'too much'.

    Everyones scale of 'just a little' to 'too much' varies widely.

    It shouldn't affect masturbation, however you may find - if you're using visual stimulus like porn - you find it harder to become aroused in general life because you have trained yourself to become aroused at porn.

    You may also have troubles ejaculating as your body may become use to your hand rather than the feel of sex or your partner.

    J

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks...im considering a bit of a break...but do like my pre bed time, and my good morning time, and its snday afternoon and I'm bored...well you get the idea...

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    Little Strummer Boy wrote:

    Thanks...im considering a bit of a break...but do like my pre bed time, and my good morning time, and its snday afternoon and I'm bored...well you get the idea...

    afternoon time for me after a nap :)

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    rubysoho wrote:

    i bloody hope not for my own sake :/

    LOL And mine.

    I think if it had an effect I'd be senseless down there! lol

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    I think it would be an interesting experient to see if i could have the self discipline to self pleasure a little less often...maybe abstaining for a month, i know i'd lack the will power though

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    Little Strummer Boy [sign in to see picture]
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    I think it would be an interesting experient to see if i could have the self discipline to self pleasure a little less often...maybe abstaining for a month, i know i'd lack the will power though

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    Little Strummer Boy wrote:

    I think it would be an interesting experient to see if i could have the self discipline to self pleasure a little less often...maybe abstaining for a month, i know i'd lack the will power though

    nah --- a w*nk a day hkeeps the doctor away :)

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    I don't think what you're suggesting is excessive in the least. Twice a day almost 12 hours inbetween? Sounds healthy to me. Not as if you're having to go an hour without doing it.

    Agree with Long Time Cumiing tho - avoid porn as a stimulus - best to use your imagination and concentrate on the sensations your body is experiencing, maybe touching other parts of your body aswell.

    Ever tried masturbating using just your thighs to stimulate your penis? Or gently playing with your nipples? Your whole body buzzes - really is worth the time and effort, and when it comes to being with someone you then have the knowledge of what you like to have done to you rather then just he obvious HJ/BJ or intercourse.

    I saw a video on a guy doing it with his thighs , it takes a while but it is so worth looking it up.

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    I would not say doing it too much will cause a loss of sensation. I recently read that people who do it regular are more inclined to do it more and that stopping for long periods can cause less urges as your drive fades a little. (It can come back not to worry there.)

    However, it is possible to get used to one kind of stimulation and that can cause problems with a lack of sensitivity.

    Examples:

    Men who use their hand to masturbate for long periods of time in between relationships. Some can then struggle to mimic the sensation of their hand when having intercourse and can struggle to reach orgasm.

    Woman who use vibrators to masturbate for long periods of time can then struggle to orgasm from manual stimulation alone.

    People who watch porn almost every time they masturbate for long periods of time can then find they lack the visual stimulation required to get them off when they are with a partner.

    That is a few examples. It is very possible to get used to something and when the stimulation feels a lot different to that sensation, it can sometimes just not be enough anymore. The good news is that none of this is final. With patience you can re-train yourself to enjoy and orgasm from a few sensations instead of just the one. In the same respect though, I know women who just cant cant cant orgasm from anything but vibes and it upsets them thinking somethings wrong. As much as I would love for everyone to be able to cum from their partners stimulation, some have tried for years and just cant. For those people, who specifically need one type of stimulation then I say stick to what feels good because something is better than nothing and to enjoy what they enjoy.

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    rubysoho wrote:

    nah --- a w*nk a day hkeeps the doctor away :)

    Actually, there's an element of truth in that - apparently frequent ejaculation has been shown to reduce the risk of prostate cancer in men. (Please don't ask me to cite a source for that statement, I read it somewhere but can't remember where )

    But, everything that Fluffbags states is 100% spot-on.

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    Thanks everyone.

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    No, definitely not.... It might make it a bit sore with the excess friction, but you'll soon know when it gets like that...

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    Fluffbags as usual is the fountain of knowlege and spot on advice.
    If my husband has masturbated in the morning then he finds he can't come inside me that evening and vice versa. If it's less than a day since he masturbated then he can very rarely come during intrcourse so he's had to try to stop himself so that we can both enjoy climaxing together more

    Fluffbags you're great by the way you're like the forum agaony aunt you know a bit about almost everything and very wise!.

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    I know...i'd be lost without her...

    just sort of noticed that im not as aroused as often and when i am i rarely feel like im as hard as i used to be... apologies if thats a bit much

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    rubysoho wrote:

    i bloody hope not for my own sake :/

    Hahahahahahahahaha... Me too.

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    mrs average wrote:

    Fluffbags as usual is the fountain of knowlege and spot on advice.
    If my husband has masturbated in the morning then he finds he can't come inside me that evening and vice versa. If it's less than a day since he masturbated then he can very rarely come during intrcourse so he's had to try to stop himself so that we can both enjoy climaxing together more

    Fluffbags you're great by the way you're like the forum agaony aunt you know a bit about almost everything and very wise!.

    Wow! Thank you for the lovely comment Mrs A. I must admit I love to give advice if I know something about the topic lol. I also admit to a lack of confidence though. I actually want to start writing guides and Q+As (For my blog) but I keep backing out thinking I am maybe not wise/good enough and so yeh. It is something that is on my mind. I have a huge passion for everything sexual, not just the acts but understanding the people underneath. Your kind words gave me a confidence boost today. Thanks so much xx

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    you shuld definetly do it! Your amazing! and i have so many issues i'd be sure to keep you busy!

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    Teehee LSB. I might just do it. :D (Just have a back log of reviews to get through, but I intend on doing this at some stage. ) x

    Maybe one day you will see me in the Sun newspaper "Dear Fluffbags" LOL

    Yes I said The Sun.....I am all about the class dontcha know!

    Anyway. I am in my element. I love this forum.

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