• Do good dancers make good lovers?

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    Lovehoney - Nicole [sign in to see picture]
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    Can you dance? Do you think good dancers are better in bed?

    That's what we're talking about this week on the blog! Not only that, but we're also giving away 2 The Thrill by We-Vibe Dual Action Vibrator for Women (worth £95 each!) - to enter, you just have to leave a comment with your opinion. Easy!

    Check out the blog post here.

    PS: Make sure to keep an eye on the blog - we give a prize almost every week but I don't often post about it here.

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    FrozenAngel [sign in to see picture]
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    Nice blog!

    I think in theory dancers can be better in bed! (They're so limber!) but confidence in bed makes all the difference.

    I'm biast though, I'm an awful dancer shocking really so I'm going to go with I'm just very confident in the bedroom lol!

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    Janny [sign in to see picture]
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    Strong leg muscles, stamina and rhythm is a very promising sign...

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    Lovehoney - Nicole [sign in to see picture]
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    I wonder if dancers tend to be more confident about their body?

    I agree, rhythm is very important!

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    Kasumi [sign in to see picture]
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    As long as it's not the rhythm method...

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    ShyButCurious [sign in to see picture]
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    I must say no... Everyone has there own style of dancing and their own style of sex. So basically i would say its luck of the draw and always train your partner well ;)

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    KebertXela [sign in to see picture]
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    I have no rhythm, none. I cant even clap...

    I look like an epileptic seal.

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    mrs average [sign in to see picture]
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    I don't think it makes any difference, I guess with any sport or physical activity it makes you stonger, more supple and increases staminna. However I can dance! Lol

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    Lovehoney - Nicole [sign in to see picture]
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    I thought the points made in the video were very interesting - like how rhythm, flexibility and coordination are attractive traits for biological reasons. I think on a very basic level we are attracted to people who seem calm, collected and not clumsy. And I guess dancing is a way to show that off.

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    ghostgirl [sign in to see picture]
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    Thats me buggered then, 2 left feet and both different sizes

    xGGx

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    Hampshire Hogg [sign in to see picture]
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    How do you explain dad dancing then?

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    killerbunny [sign in to see picture]
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    They probably are better in bed. I didn't have sex with any dancer.

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Hampshire Hogg wrote:

    How do you explain dad dancing then?

    Father HH with two left feet shaking his hips like he doesnt care thats how you rock and roll lol

    Great blog as always

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    SteN59287 [sign in to see picture]
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    I dance salsa, and coordination is the key. It is very easy to focus on one aspect of your dancing (such as what to do with your arms to lead your partner) and forget about your feet (i.e. you stop moving). It is a real skill to coordinate both (I'm only just getting there after over two years!) With sex, you can maximise your partner's pleasure by stimulating them in many ways simultaneously, so the coordination learnt through dancing could be useful (get those hands and hips moving in sync...😊). I would say the secret is to work with your partner, have fun, try stuff out and don't take it too seriously when things don't go to plan.

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    Mystral [sign in to see picture]
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    kin·es·the·sia
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    Noun
    Awareness of the position and movement of the parts of the body by means of sensory organs (proprioceptors) in the muscles and joints.

    I would say it's a case of good dancers and good lovers requiring a certain amount of the above.

    So, not so much a question of one causing the other, rather both being a result of hieghtened awareness of what the body is doing.

    It would follow then that improvement in one would encourage improvement in the other.

    Much like learning to chop carrots helps with chopping potatos.

    How's root vegtables for a sexy metaphor? =p

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    S1nky1 [sign in to see picture]
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    Yeah, I'm a great dancer xx

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    Orally Gifted [sign in to see picture]
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    Totally missed the deadline :P but I'll post my comment here instead :)

    I am more musical but I take dance classes as a hobby. I do Zumba, Belly Dance and Burlesque, and love every aspect of each style. I find that the rhythms come naturally (excuse the pun!) which definitely works in my favour - both in class and in the bedroom ;)

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