• Masrurbating with OH

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    merida [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there.

    Just a simple post to get some advice. I like to masturbate often. My wife is not too keen on me doing it and never has done it herself. Any suggestions to get her to try it and maybe do it together.

    Thanks.

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    If your wife is not interesting in do it try not make an issue about it could be many reasons why she doesnt fancy it .

    She doesnt feel the need to masturbate & if happy with her sex life & you furfill her every need , she may not feel comfortable doing it she may have a negative persception to masturbating.

    If she is happy not doing it I would see if there is any reason but dont push it too far as she may not want to discussed it , trying talking to her first but I would dive in the deep end and buy an all singing dancing new toy as she may not appreciate that

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    livvie [sign in to see picture]
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    I am also not keen on the OH doing it myself. My answer is 'you've got a pussy to use, so use it :P' We have mutually masturbated with eachother, but that was in the first few months of being together to show the other what they liked etc.
    I know many women who wont masturbate infront of their partners who have been married several years because they're embaressed to do it, and also and KF mentioned, they're happy with their sex life.
    I woud also suggest to try talking to her and see how she feels :D

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    FreeSingle&ReadyToTingle [sign in to see picture]
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    My OH and I like to masturbate together as a form of forreplay... We got into it totally by accident, we thought we'd watch some porn together to get us really in the mood and see how long we could go without touching each other (this is a very difficult but fun game)
    Before we knew it we were both masturbating in front of each other and things went from there... x

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    Trial&Error [sign in to see picture]
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    My wife and I enjoy mutual masturbation.

    Referred to as "race ya", I think it shows how comfortable we are with one another. There's nothing sexier than watching your partner "rubbing one out"

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    merida [sign in to see picture]
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    Thanks for the input. I can see two trends will talk it over and nit not pressure or jump into any toy idea. Could be a foreplay, or occasional trick to change the sex a bit.

    Thanks a lot folks.

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    linda2008 [sign in to see picture]
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    myself and OH love to masterbate ourselves in front of each other we find it a masive turn on.we regular do it and i,m happy to use toys on myself as Hubby watches and plays with himself

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    CullensNaughtyLamb [sign in to see picture]
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    I only very recently got into this. I love watching my hubby masturbate and love the idea of him doing it when I'm not around, in fact I will often ask him to do it when I go off to work and ask him to send a pic or ask how it was when I get back, I find myself very very turned on at work knowing he is at home having a good ole time :) we would often do it together but only in the form of me pleasuring him and him me at the same time, very intense, some of the best orgasms we ever have had! However I never felt comfortable doing myself in front of him, I was just always so embarrassed, silly really as he would do do it in front of me but he really wanted me to touch myself in front on him so I started very slowly, first by guiding him, then just touching myself a little with him touching me at the same time and then he took away his hand and I would carry on little and then longer each time we did it and now I love doing it in front of him, his face is such a turn on it makes me see that I need not be embarrassed, he is not judging me, he is enjoying me. Just let her know that you love her and that you would enjoy watching her and she'll get there I'm sure. It took me 10years but I got there, lol ;)

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    Trial&Error [sign in to see picture]
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    Exactly what the above poster said. Ding! Nail on head!

    I love watching my oh playing with herself and I regularly tell her that. It's amazing to watch. Just wish I could have as many orgasms as a women! LOL

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    HisKinkyWench [sign in to see picture]
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    CullensNaughtyLamb wrote:

    I only very recently got into this. I love watching my hubby masturbate and love the idea of him doing it when I'm not around, in fact I will often ask him to do it when I go off to work and ask him to send a pic or ask how it was when I get back, I find myself very very turned on at work knowing he is at home having a good ole time :) we would often do it together but only in the form of me pleasuring him and him me at the same time, very intense, some of the best orgasms we ever have had! However I never felt comfortable doing myself in front of him, I was just always so embarrassed, silly really as he would do do it in front of me but he really wanted me to touch myself in front on him so I started very slowly, first by guiding him, then just touching myself a little with him touching me at the same time and then he took away his hand and I would carry on little and then longer each time we did it and now I love doing it in front of him, his face is such a turn on it makes me see that I need not be embarrassed, he is not judging me, he is enjoying me. Just let her know that you love her and that you would enjoy watching her and she'll get there I'm sure. It took me 10years but I got there, lol ;)

    ....Again agree with what CullensNaughtyLamb wrote. Me and my OH often have photo and video sex, it can be mind blowing esp if I know he's at work

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    rubysoho [sign in to see picture]
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    ive always wanted to do this but always been to shy an body consciouss to actually go ahead .

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    CullensNaughtyLamb [sign in to see picture]
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    Go on, try it

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    numnuts [sign in to see picture]
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    Ok u folks r all seriously lucky! Im married 4 yrs (2gether 9) Aan ive nver masturbated in front of hubby. Why because I dont masturbate like other women, nver hve. I for want of another word 'ride the bed' or friction against it. Ever since I can remember (14) this is how I get off an ive had sme amazin orgasms as a result of it. No partner an ive had plenty of exoerience or has ever cme close. I hve only ever shown 1 partner how I do it an it has haunted me as its so private!! I wish I cud masturbate the normal way as id hve no problem doin it in front of my hubby but im just a freak. God u r all so lucky!! My hubby knows I masturbate he just doesnt no how.i hve a very high libido, way higher than my oh.does anyone know of any other female who masturbates this way?

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