• Different sensation?

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    NewWoman [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi there

    A curious thread really.

    i have never experienced an orgasm through penetration, only through clitoral stimulation.

    Is an orgasm through penetration the same sensation as a clitoral orgasm?

    Any tips on how to achieve one through penetration?

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    trailerguy61 [sign in to see picture]
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    We may need a bit more background into your "problem" such as age and experience,are you in a relationship, what have you tried by way of attempting to achieve a penetrative orgasm etc etc.

    There are threads on various sites on how what seems to be quite a high % of women dont/cant orgasm thru penetrative sex and for different reasons so your not on your own on this.

    I can only guess as a guy that apart from intensity, that a penetrative orgasm is something similar in that nerve endings are involved, I`ve had partners who have had better clitoral orgasms than penetrative in intensity, chest reddenning breath spasming etc etc and I`ve had a partner who came explosively and on a couple of occasions, not quite multiply but over a 15-20 minute period and I`ve had a partner who said that a clitoral orgasm mixed with ass play, slightly penetrative was amongst the best she`d ever had.

    If your getting enough satisfaction from clitoral orgasms you might find penetrative different or a let down or the best yet, as at the start we`d need more info, age/experience probably as much as anything.

    Quite hoping I`ll get shot down and you`ll get comments that may help more but as I said its from a guys viewpoint. Some women might say we know nowt lol, I think I saw a post alleging someones lover reckoning she`d faked all her orgasms lol.

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    naughtywildfun90 [sign in to see picture]
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    I can have both although I've never given myself anything other than a clitoral orgasm. My OH can give me a full orgasm within minutes yet no matter how hard I try alone can't have anything else :-(
    It depends what you mean by "orgasm" as to me an orgasm is when I squirt and I've never had one without squirting. It feels a million times better than a clitoral although I do still have to have a clitoral once a day xx

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    I've never orgasmed through penetration sex either. only clitoral. So your not alone.

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    rubysoho [sign in to see picture]
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    Lollipop ;) wrote:

    I've never orgasmed through penetration sex either. only clitoral. So your not alone.

    same here

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    Trial&Error [sign in to see picture]
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    Same for my wife too. Only clitoral orgasms.

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    Curiousgeorgie [sign in to see picture]
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    I can orgasm from both. Clitoral orgasms for me are stronger and faster and I can only have g spot orgasms through my husband using his fingers in a sort of come here motion very quickly. His penis doesn't make me orgasm though and that's just because my g spot is sort of round the corner and my husband has a straight penis.

    I think it's quite common to not orgasm from penetrative sex as a lot of women's nerve endings are not stimulated in the right way but I don't have any problem using toys at the same time and hubby loves the sensation too.

    i guess it's all about doing what wors for you and not being embarrassed or shy about talking and experimenting.

    So I guess my tip would be get your partner to insert two fingers with palm up, make a come here motion with his fingers and then rub very fast and quite hard, you can see the action if you check out squirting porn videos. Hth.

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    Miss V [sign in to see picture]
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    only ever clitorial, which I find frustrating. Love my G spot touched, but dont orgasm.

    I find it hard to orgasm with my OH touching me, but no problems if I do it myself. I surpose I hit the exact spot I like, where I find I have to concentrate a bit more if my OH is touching it as the pressure isn't the same that I like or the exact position.

    Have tried rabits etc, which work, but realise it's the clitorial stimulation I need, although the orgasm I get from using the rabit is intense.

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    trailerguy61 [sign in to see picture]
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    (Shhhhhhhhhhhhh, whisper this) us poor shmuck guys dont in the main have much of a clue where the right spot or even if we`re doing it right when it comes to a womans clitoris, that is unless you girls tell us !

    I enjoyed a relationship wherein I`d put the head of my circumcised "equipment" flat against my ex`s vaginal lips and stimulate her clitoris with the tip just as tho we were having sex, most every time to orgasm, she said it was such a turn on as tho I was fucking her most erogenous zone, could at a whim engage in vaginal sex and be lubricated at the same time, remarked that tho she`d had boyfriends and a husband that she`d never had, nor thought that she could be gotten to orgasm in such a way lol, and thats without venturing anywhere near to the $64 million dollar conundrum of the g-spot lol.

    If you cant orgasm thru penetrative sex then tell us if we`re doing it right, tell if we`re so much as a hairs breadth off, tell us if you like a straight finger, tell us if you prefer a left-right wiggle, a circular rub, a hooked finger coming up from your moist vagina, hard pressure, soft touching, warm breaths if we`re between your legs with toys at the ready, if you think that your own juices are ample or if you like the sensation of warm oil or even an oil/gel mix to aid slipperiness lol, sex in all it`s forms should be about fun and experimentation and if needs be gentle guidance.

    If he`s anything like the sensitive lover you all crave aspire and are worthy of he/we`ll take note, be educated and not be offended lol.

    We`re both here for one anothers pleasure

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    HisKinkyWench [sign in to see picture]
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    trailerguy61 wrote:

    (Shhhhhhhhhhhhh, whisper this) us poor shmuck guys dont in the main have much of a clue where the right spot or even if we`re doing it right when it comes to a womans clitoris, that is unless you girls tell us !

    I enjoyed a relationship wherein I`d put the head of my circumcised "equipment" flat against my ex`s vaginal lips and stimulate her clitoris with the tip just as tho we were having sex, most every time to orgasm, she said it was such a turn on as tho I was fucking her most erogenous zone, could at a whim engage in vaginal sex and be lubricated at the same time, remarked that tho she`d had boyfriends and a husband that she`d never had, nor thought that she could be gotten to orgasm in such a way lol, and thats without venturing anywhere near to the $64 million dollar conundrum of the g-spot lol.

    If you cant orgasm thru penetrative sex then tell us if we`re doing it right, tell if we`re so much as a hairs breadth off, tell us if you like a straight finger, tell us if you prefer a left-right wiggle, a circular rub, a hooked finger coming up from your moist vagina, hard pressure, soft touching, warm breaths if we`re between your legs with toys at the ready, if you think that your own juices are ample or if you like the sensation of warm oil or even an oil/gel mix to aid slipperiness lol, sex in all it`s forms should be about fun and experimentation and if needs be gentle guidance.

    If he`s anything like the sensitive lover you all crave aspire and are worthy of he/we`ll take note, be educated and not be offended lol.

    We`re both here for one anothers pleasure.

    Couldn't agree more, sorry for the cliche` but it takes two... Try to relax and not focus and worrry aboutit two and then when it happens boy you'll know.

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    HisKinkyWench [sign in to see picture]
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    Ooops kinda did that wrong lol, bloody computers....

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