My P-spot is missing

hi single male newbie here , i recently purchased the Fun Factory Bootie plug after reading all the good revews for it ,

well lovely bit of kit , but it just doesn't hit the spot, and yes its in the right way round , i know i must have a P-spot,  but could it just be that the Bootie just isn't long /bent enough to hit the magical spot

i have ordered something slightly longer to see if i can find what i'm looking for

any info much appreciated

It's very well possible that you haven't touched it with that plug - doesn't mean you don't have a p-spot, unless you have surgery to have your prostate removed!

Something like this might help you to probe to find it:
http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=4463

But IME nothing beats a finger that knows where to look.

 You might find this of use:

http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/prostate-milking/

Lubyanka wrote:

 You might find this of use:

http://ladylubyanka.wordpress.com/prostate-milking/

totally amazing, indepth work

my other toy has arrived , i will try my fingers first, then maybe the toy

thanks x

 Yep my fingers reach OH's P spot but that little bootie plug is just too short.  We have that one and it's great for me but OH finds it too small/short for him so I'm looking at bigger ones for him.  Have you got anyone to  hunt around for you - much easier to find this way I think.   Good Luck. 

Horny Pony wrote:

 Yep my fingers reach OH's P spot but that little bootie plug is just too short.  We have that one and it's great for me but OH finds it too small/short for him so I'm looking at bigger ones for him.  Have you got anyone to  hunt around for you - much easier to find this way I think.   Good Luck. 

nope , not got anybody to have a rummage round for me :-(

well , i lubed up the fingers earlier , and proceeded to have a good poke and prod about up there , but i don't seem to be able to feel the magic "polo mint" area at all , even though i wasn't erect at any stage I did seem to have more than is usual pre-cum leakage , does this mean i have found the P-spot but not getting any sensations from it ?

well after that relative disappointment i whipped out my new longer toy and lubed that up , moved that around a bit , in and out etc , and i got nothing :-(

i'm coming to the conclusion that i must be some kind of freak , and i don't have a prostate

oh well , i'll have to keep at it , maybe i need a fatter butt plug now :-0

its getting expensive trying to find this P-spot , lol

VonRichter wrote:

well , i lubed up the fingers earlier , and proceeded to have a good poke and prod about up there , but i don't seem to be able to feel the magic "polo mint" area at all , even though i wasn't erect at any stage I did seem to have more than is usual pre-cum leakage , does this mean i have found the P-spot but not getting any sensations from it ?

well after that relative disappointment i whipped out my new longer toy and lubed that up , moved that around a bit , in and out etc , and i got nothing :-(

i'm coming to the conclusion that i must be some kind of freak , and i don't have a prostate

oh well , i'll have to keep at it , maybe i need a fatter butt plug now :-0

its getting expensive trying to find this P-spot , lol

try feeling relaxed, if you stress a bit i wll make it harder to find it.

I'm having the same trouble as you VonRichter . I bought a nexus gyro a few months ago and the blurb said you could gyrate to amazing prostate orgasms. I got it from LH although there were no reviews for it here, but i did read another review which said it was really amazing and he had sensations which were at the limit of what he could handle.mmm, i thought ,thats for me.

It feels like a big butt plug which is ok and it does rub the prostate as i get alot of precum, but thats about it. I dont get any enjoyable feelings and after a while it becomes mildly irritating. Another problem with this toy is when you are trying to "gyrate to orgasm "it actually spins around inside 180 degrees (although i dont actually notice it when this happens) so it ends up facing away from the prostate. I suppose i am not particularily turned on when i am doing this and i wonder if that is part of the problem. I had a previous g.friend who liked pushing her fingers in me and i found it really erotic and enjoyed the sensations immensely. I wonder if it is best to be with a partner and be in a  aroused state before you begin to stimulate the prostate . Might continue for a bit, but i fear it might end up in the bin. unless i can flog it on ebay.

thanks for the comments spankme , i think i had the same "turning round 180 degrees" problem as you with my new longer toy , but i will carry on trying a while longer

i suppose i'm never going to get super turned on now without female assistance , especially at my age 

P.S. the thought of seeing 2nd hand anal sex toys on Ebay sort of worries me slightly, lol

I've had a hard time finding the elusive spot too, it all feels good, but not as good as the experiences you read about in reviews etc. It's not something that one particular toy will magically find though, I think a lubed up finger and a lot of patience might be more likely to be a winner :)