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    miss x [sign in to see picture]
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    hi ive met a new bf he wants me to try anal ,but im unsure as im a anal virgin any tips as im wanting to try but unsure if i will enjoy or not .

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    danslack [sign in to see picture]
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    looks like u r 10 mis ahead of me lol. have u red my reply post on ur "daiting vergin" thread? x got a litle idea on there :)

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    Aqualaria [sign in to see picture]
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    Hi Miss X,

    The major thing is that you need to relax. You need to really want it - if you don't really want it, you won't relax enough. My OH did it for her then boyfriend, and she hated it. 10 years on, she is totally relaxed about me doing it, and she now loves it.

    Secondly, lots of lube. You can never have too much lube.

    Thirdly, I would recommend starting with toys. Small dildos, butt plugs maybe. An erect cock can be a rather large thing - you need to train your bum to accept it.

    If you take it slowly, it can be amazing. I have been training my bum to be pegged, and now my OH pegs me, it is amazing.

    Good luck and have fun!

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    KinkyFuckery [sign in to see picture]
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    Best advice I have take it nice and slow , lube lube lube , start off small and dont get eyes bigger thank you belly .

    LH have a great buyers guide -http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/sex-toys/anal-sex-toys/

    I started off with http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=13085

    Then got a butt plug so you are used to slipping something inside you - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16053 or you could buy a kit and work your way up - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=3539

    I then got a douche - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=952 dead easy to use and simple and makes you clean esp when your using bigger toys as I worked my way up to an anal dildo to get to used to the fact that he will be inside me - http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=16726

    Then I brought http://www.lovehoney.co.uk/product.cfm?p=17072 to get fill what it will be like,

    Honestly try it slow if you enjoy it you enjoy it its not for everyone, dont put any pressure on yourself slow and lube it taken me about 6 months to work my way up, just taken it at my own pace.

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    miss x [sign in to see picture]
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    im going to met him today im on my way now ,we are going the AS shop to gt some anal toys ,vibes ,lubes and condoms im so looking forwards to it i will lt you know more later x

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    danslack [sign in to see picture]
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    miss x wrote:

    im going to met him today im on my way now ,we are going the AS shop to gt some anal toys ,vibes ,lubes and condoms im so looking forwards to it i will lt you know more later x

    cool, hve fun, if u seee this post b4 u do...then did u do the finer trick?? hope u broke yaself in 1st..or f he going to.. take it slow x have fun.

    if ater the fact... how was it? hope was fun x

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    danslack [sign in to see picture]
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    sweet, wow, that sounds like u had a lot of fun n realy let yaself go. good, glad it was a nice 1st time for u. erm... no pain? i kow 1st anal can hurt,,,, u not feel any? (not that i wanted u too) u brake yourself in the night b4?. to make nxttime better,, use ur new anal toy yourself b4 u meet up again... so u can take more and lnger. very glad u had a cool relaxed 1st time..

    mm..migh get my wife to pegg me soon. .

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    miss x [sign in to see picture]
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    it hurt a bit but i was that horney i dint care less,deffo using my toy to get me more trained cant wait for nxt time x pegging wats that ?

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    BDSM [sign in to see picture]
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    It's great that you had such a good time on a first try.

    It's also surprising that it went so well on the very first attempt, because no matter how relaxed you are, your anus is simply not used to it! Having had no anal preparation at all, I am amazed that you weren't in agony! Foreplay doesn't count as preparation as although it will relax you, it won't stretch your anus at all.

    Face down is also one of the hardest positions as you have no control at all and it's not the easiest for the man to control either. I would recommend for most people, that spoons or the woman on top is a better starting position.

    Even now, after having been doing anal for a long time, I ALWAYS use a toy first. It helps get the lube right inside, and prepares my anus for his cock.

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    danslack [sign in to see picture]
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    sooo...reely horny then!!?? lol cool.. good u must have realy wanted it :) .

    yes, use toys train that bum :)

    pegging.... is role reversle... a girl with a strappon or dildo fucks a guy up the bum.

    theres threads on here about pegging, have a look.. might even giv u some more advice about anal play...and ur man might be into it... "well, you have had my bum, i want yours." say it, see wat u get LOL. :)

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    BDSM [sign in to see picture]
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    miss x wrote:

    i had a bf for 11 months i had a bad accident was in hosp for 9 weeks 2 major ops :( i had a fantastic sex life with him ,now i have numbness in my vagina/clit they say its my nerves i tryed my wand to see if i could orgasem but no feelings at all i feel so unhappy ,ive just got this feling i will never b able to njoy sex again .

    That's quite some change in fortune for you!!

    On Wednesday, you were single and had no feeling in your vagina/clit and here you are just 4 days later, having multiple squirts and orgasms with a new boyfriend and loving anal sex for the very first time. And I notice that yesterday he wasn't even sure about meeting you, so today was the first time you met!

    Stunning. That's going some!

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    miss x [sign in to see picture]
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    in the past few days feelings have come back to my vagina/clit still a bit numb tho .

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    miss x [sign in to see picture]
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    and my bum bit numb so dint hurt much we have been in touch for a few weeks but dint know if i was gonna see him but i thought i may as well

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    miss x [sign in to see picture]
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    ignore my posts my mate posted this i could kill her nxt time i will log off [blush]

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    I would have thought this is not the kind of site you leave logged in when there are other people about?

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    Seduced [sign in to see picture]
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    Looking at your other posts in your other threads, Looks like your "Mate" has been on here a few times before, Same typing style, Same spelling mistakes etc...

    Should have a think about that maybe.

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    Seduced wrote:

    Looking at your other posts in your other threads, Looks like your "Mate" has been on here a few times before, Same typing style, Same spelling mistakes etc...

    Should have a think about that maybe.

    had the troll feeling from the start tbh !

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    danslack [sign in to see picture]
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    rubysoho wrote:

    had the troll feeling from the start tbh !

    Troll feeling?? have i missed somfink lol

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    KebertXela [sign in to see picture]
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    over several days, she broke up with her boyfriend, had major surgery, met a new fella who was a virgin, then asked for anal advice.

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